u/peanutbutterhoneybee

He’s such a nice guy… but I feel like in this relationship I’ve lost myself. I’ve stopped doing what makes me happy, I’m more irritated, more stressed, less finically stable, high sex drive but I don’t even want him touching me. I feel so guilty and I know I’d miss him because he’s a great person but at the same time I feel like we aren’t meant to be together long term and I don’t know how to tell him without crushing him… he makes me feel like not a good person and that my standards are too high when I’m just asking for the bare minimum. I love him… but I’m not IN love with him and I feel like it would be unfair to try and fix things if I’m already mentally checked out

How do you break up with someone in a nice way?? I feel like he’s gonna hate me and lie to people about me.

I have a job, I have a car, I am able to shower every day, my grammie and my mother are still alive, i have friendships that have lasted 17+ years, I live in one of the safest states in my country, I don’t have to worry about where my next meal is coming from.

I often find myself overcome with anxiety, worrying about the future and if I’ve made the right decisions in life.. but I feel like sometimes I forget how lucky I truly am for my current situation. I am grateful and I want to think about how fortunate I am more often.

I remember 15+ years ago people making a big deal about Wendy’s chili possibly being made with “leftover” burger patties. Even if they did or still do… I never understood why that would be a bad thing?

Leftover burger meat for chili = less food waste

I will always love Wendy’s Chili, my favorite 20g of protein from a fast food spot!

Were you someone who was put off by the thought of leftover patties being used for chili? If so, why?

For the past month I’ve been working out pretty regularly, at least 5 times a week for an hour, something’s an hour and a half. Burning an estimated 400-1000 calories each work out.

I’m feeling stronger and beating PR’s quickly BUT oh my gosh am I hungry! I’ve eaten 2,600 calories today of pretty clean food and my stomach is still rumbling for more! I’ve met my protein, carb and fat goals and I’m meeting all my micro and macros, I’ve had so much water… yet my body is screaming for more.

My goal is to lose 10lbs of fat while gaining muscle but I feel I’m going to gain fat at the same time with how hungry I am.

How can I continue with my current work out routine without feeling so hungry?