I really want to find community here. Where can I find lesbian/bisexual girls? Clubs? Specific hangout spots? Some societies? Idk y'all guide me. Pls don't be homophobic or weird.
If y'all ever see a masc-ish girl with non existent skincare routine, poor posture, can't sit or stand straight and a large ass backpack in the ladies coach making intense eye contact or occasional eye contact with you, and if you wanna talk, just hit me up 👉👈 probably say "I love paneer rolls" or smthg lmao. I'll reply with "reddit?"
I'm pretty sure I see gay af women everyday lmao.
This is a long shot but if we ever end up meeting it'll be fun lmao.
edit: okay let's make this a tad easier I'll probably be wearing a single black bracelet with an occasional watch or a chain lol. and I almost exclusively travel in the first coach
College jus started. Baddies everywhere. I look CHOPPED ASF. I'm not out to anybody. And i badly want a gf. How do I even know who's gay? Mascs look visibly gay but I'm not into mascs. I'm masc but I don't look as masc🥀(I'm still balancing this shit between strict parents and self expression man🥀🥀). I dunno which fem is gay. The fem I'm crushing on might not even be gay. I don't wanna out myself so early and risk homophobia or rumours and shi. What do I do🥀
Me a baby gay. Me see beautiful women, me reject meself. Help me improve me rizz inventory and mf CONFIDENCE. I request.
(Literally drop EVERYTHINGGGG you know)
(Does anybody watch claire holt?)
(I know I need to hit the mf gym but I mf don't have mf consistency, username checks out lmaooo)
Bro these straight girls be doing too much😭 i just saw a lesbian thirst trap being liked by my straight-as-an-arrow (girl)friend. These girls be calling their female friends "girlfriends", write shit like "scissor me baddie" under a hot girl's post and pretend to kiss each other. ENOUGH. Stop playing with my little gay heart. Stop giving me false hopes. Somebody needs to calm these straight girls I swear. I can't read between lines anymore. Really feel for the closeted femmes out there😔✊ stay strong y'all
Dear future gf,
One day I'm gonna fuck you, (respectfully), in our apartment, on a rainy night while hozier plays in the background. While the smell of earth and your scented candles dance around in our room. While we have our AC on full blast. While you shiver and sweat. And in that moment, heaven and hell would be words to me. And nothing would matter.
ub/ this rainy season got me feeling so lonely bro😔 but shoutout our forest fairy hozier✌️
I heard it was closed few days ago due to protest. Also, another question, is it appropriate to carry a medium trolley bag in the metro? (idk the exact etiquettes, i don't travel in metro often these days)
Scared of homophobes, scared of society, scared of love itself?
I've never been in love, never been in a relationship, it's always me yearning to be loved. Now I DO wanna be loved that's constant, but whenever someone reaches out online, reddit, insta, whatever, I don't want it. That kind of attention just feels too overwhelming and artificial, because wdym we don't even know each other properly and you wanna be in a relationship? Just by talking? What if you just like the idea of me and not ME. That's weird to me. This is why I also don't like dating apps. That's a whole nother thing altogether.
But in real life, i am closeted af, i have had my bad experiences with homophobes, girls who just became weird knowing that I was gay.
Now what the fuck am i supposed to do lmao? Where do I meet girls organically, in person?
I been watching a lot of Ghibli movies, watched interstellar, tenet, inception, chernobyl (not the miniseries), all of us are dead, #alive, sweet home, IT part 1&2, all spiderman movies except no way home, almost all marvel movies, dhurandhar 1&2, 12th fail. You get the gist, scifi, horror, feel good, etc. Suggest sum more gng.
PS, it should be suitable to watch with my 15 year old lil brother.
Idk gals I'm bored on a sunday
Like wdym you're Indian, a woman, and sapphic and NOT DEPRESSED. HOW?!😭 I'm lowkey scared from you ngl. I've probably been depressed my entire teenage.
Bro ts is killing me. I'm masc but my mom doesn't let me cut my hair further (I already have short hair like just enough to make a small ponytail). My masc-est clothes are graphic tees and cargos, and then I just pray and hope it looks masc cuz of my broad shoulders and resting face. Forget jewellery 🥀 forget a hairstyle 🥀 forget carabiners 🥀 . My skincare is non existent. My body is shit and I slouch all the time (blame JEE). All I have to prove my masc-ness is probably my audacity. I am pretty (over) confident and can argue with most about anybody if I think they're in the wrong and I love helping random women.
I'm boutta go to college bruv, how tf will I score baddies😭 women just keep saying how mascs are in demand (where?) but I guess it's so over for folks like me lmao.
I made a post on the teenindia subreddit about how you shouldn't fetishize lesbians and its annoying how the "I'm a male lesbian, lesbian lover" memes are. Guess what my post has 50 percent upvote ratio. My comments got downvoted and I got called a snowflake, about how it's not too deep. Btch what. Real lesbians get killed due to homophobia every day. These people are so sheltered, privileged and homophobic man. I thought maybe our generation would be more accepting and progressive, guess what, we're still so behind in mindset. It's so over man. I wanna get out of this country soooon. I can't deal with this isolation, humiliation and their "jokes". when tf will I get community bro. I wanna be around other sporty masc women, hot femmes, the gays, the queer. people who understand me. they're so dumb, it hurts my head. like sometimes I wonder am i really THAT smart and empathetic, or the people are dum dums. Here's the post for anyone wondering
I've been seeing a pretty annoying mainstream behaviour of mostly teenaged boys writing "lesbian lover", "lesbian protector", "I'm a male lesbian", "dip me in chocolate throw me to the lesbians", "I only support lesbians, not gays or trans".
DIMWIT, a lesbian is a woman who ONLY loves other women. Full stop. They're not attracted to men at all. They don't want anything to do with men. STOP SAYING SHIT LIKE THIS. You're clearly fetishizing lesbians and don't actually care about them. It's a real identity, respect it. Making one or too jokes is fine but you're making jokes of an already misunderstood, under-representated, vulnerable minority. That's where it crosses a line.
This has caused straight men invading spaces meant for lesbians/sapphic women and messaging creepy shit to them, stalking them, harrassing them, etc.
Do y'all even know what actual lesbians even go through? Hiding your real identity from your typical middle class non accepting family, homophobic comments, girls acting like you're a creep and not feeling welcome in their spaces, having a dating pool of VERY few women, isolation and depression caused by lack of community, assaults, harrassment, corrective r*pe. This is the reality of many lesbians even today all around the world, especially in India.
So please, stop saying shit like this and call people out who do. It's not edgy or cool, you're an annoying fck who doesn't respect people
note: im not talking about pre-op trans women
coffee by beabadoobee, eleanor and park by girl in red, thinking bout you by frank ocean, best part by daniel caesar, nothing by bruno major, nothings gonna hurt you baby by cas. Basically songs that calm you down after a hectic day and feel like your partner would send them to you.
I have free time on my hands and random ahh thoughts in my head. Anybody wants to just rant and listen in return? Preferably around 18-25 years because I myself am 19, but doesn't matter either way.
So this is just a messy rant, ig. But this sub feels so... personal, ig? Y'all please give me advice, as a chhoti behen😭 this was my drop year for JEE and I fucked it up. I got very bad marks in JEE, BITSAT, MET, literally did average in all exams. Now the best college I'm getting is manipal, but electrical, and it doesn't seem to have good placements, also fees is high, also it's in South India, I've never lived alone before, I'm scared af. One top of that, i barely have any friends. I lost all contact with them in my drop year. My parents are not that knowledgeable, typical middle class parents yk. Andddd on top of that I'm gay as shit and neurodivergent. Adhd + ocd. I also hate my body, i really wanna have top surgery, I hate my b**bs. I'm literally losing my mind right now. My future looks so fucking dark. I can shout but nobody can ever hear it. I'm literally lonely, dumb, poor, middle class, gay, neurodivergent. Literally why tf is my life so hard. What tf can I do? There's no guarantee that I'll even make it to mid twenties tbh. I feel really shit. Somebody please guide me or tell me what I can do.