r/LgbTeenIndia

I run a GC on Instagram for all queer teens, and we have around 30 people in our gc. The majority are indians since I had posted this on an indian teen subreddit before :)

We share memes, play different games, or even just vent to eachother. I made this gc because of how lonely I felt without anyone else around me facing the same issues that I do.

Please just messege me, and I'll add you to the gc!❤️🩷🧡💛💚💙🩵💜🤎

I also need some mlm movies or series recs so lmk yall😝

A few years back there actually used to be a queer club but it got discontinued suddenly.

I want to bring it back again

An unofficial one for now.

I have asked some of him queer friends about it, they are in but they don't want to disclose their identity by it and I respect their decision.

(I am open in college so i don't have that problem.)

Can someone please suggest to me how to do this, i really want to do this, atleast like a safe space for the ppl here.

Thank you!

Yall omg so he's like one of my friend's friend's friend lol. So we started talking on ig for maybe 3 months and lowkey it was going good like we stopped talking for a few months cuz he had his exams and then i had mine and like we stopped talking for like around 3 months and now that guy asked me if we can meetup😭

Omg im like soo nervous cz this is like only my 2nd time meeting a guy in person.

For some reason I'm having 2nd thoughts abt meeting him cz I'm thinking that i could be doing something else like i have better things to do and then I'll meet him and he wont like me or i wont like him and it'll js be a waste of time OR it could be the complete opposite😭

Idk wht to do yall shud i meet him or nah?

Ik Pride Month's over but I still wanted to know what u guys feel.

So i have a bestfriend and whenever he goes off the city like for days for some work, i feel like so idk what is that feeling but so lonely type shi even though in our town we live very far away😭 i have some friends unse milna hota to i'm normal but jab isse milna pta to i get unintentionally nervous tf? we dont physically usually meet but still i feel so bad. And when he hangs out with someone else doesn't with me or post someone else with him i feel jealousy or neglected although i know that person he is hanging out with is not that close with him as i'm but still. We have our future plans together like having higher studies colleges abroad study everything but still i feel like we arent that close and i feel bad when i show affection he doesn't i feel bad maybe its just typical male friendship for him and i'm starting to catch feelings? Idk i'm confused what is it? Help me out

So today while having a convo with my elder sis about politics i mentioned the same sex marriage being legalised in Nepal and she is a pure homophobic my whole family is and I couldn't take it anymore I kept arguing back n forth with her she called us chakka and what not that if us people decide to suicide we are weak and not that we are not treated equally and im a closeted gay person she it hit me so much that these people who I love more than anything dont even care for me

She also said if her child gay or lesbian or bi she would disown them and i said ill adopt them and she also said gay people should not adopt becuz of pedophilia and then I walked out of the Convo and told her that I dont need to talk to u ever my whole family is ig homophobic but i always trusted her thought atleast she would support me when I would come out to her but no she is also homophobic and while I told her I dont wanna have any conversation with her ever she started crying very badly my mother and father came and they took her with them but they dint know that i was crying too from the inside dying soo bad cause I expected love and care but got hatred and nothing else ....

No one cares for us guys I dont know how would I even look upto her she was soo much supportive of me always but now I cant look into her eyes the same I lost my safe place with her now im stranded . I hope they dont get hints from me that im gay or they may disown me and im not financially independent enough to take care of me ill be left alone to walk the lonely streets of the endless roads under the blackout sky .....

\*\*TL;DR\*\* — I got into a brutal fight with my elder sister about same-sex marriage being legalized in Nepal. She said gay people are weak, called us slurs, said she'd disown her own child if they were LGBTQ+, and claimed gay people shouldn't adopt because of pedophilia. I'm closeted gay. I walked out and told her I never want to talk to her again. She cried. My parents took her side, not knowing I was breaking inside. I thought she was my safe person — the one who'd support me when I came out. Now I've lost that. I'm terrified they'll figure out I'm gay, disown me, and I'm not financially independent enough to survive on my own. I feel completely alone.

Pretty self explanatory tbh

No I seriously hate living here. Beacuse first of all okay people hate the lgbt community. I'm a closeted bisexual female. But then when I do try to find people I would love to date or maybe just be friends with. As soon as my weight come in the picture they will back off. Is being over weight that bad? I just want to accepted for who I m bruv okay being obese is glnot good at a young age but I'm trying to lose weight and shit bro. But atleast don't treat me like I ain't human.

Im staying in india for a while but im originally from the west, and i want to find some sense of community since I myself am Queer and my family isnt super knowledgeable about anything to do the the LGTBQIA+ or alternative subcultures. I also feel like when i do go out of my way to make friends they become really weary of me since im 17F with facial piercings and tattoos... it kinda makes me sad hahah!! Is there anything I should do specifically to make more friends in general?

FOR THOSE WHO DO NOT POSSESS THE READING COMPREHENSION FOR READING LONG POSTS, IN BREVITY- WE WILL NEVER BE CONSIDERED NORMAL.

I write this not out of frustration or anger, but my observations, ranting about homophobia will just be stating the obvious.

As an adolescent myself, I have accepted this fact, even if we ever will be accepted wholeheartedly by the constitution, it will all be on paper, society would still not accept us as 'normal'. From childhood I was a little feminine, for which I had heard every derogatory remark "c*kka, g*ndu, etc" and whatnot, and mind you not in a friendly or joking manner, the school which should have been my safe haven was a suffocating place for me.

How can I be angry on uncles and aunties, when the majority of people in our age bracket do not see us as actual humans, but defects, disease or jokes(I am not even talking about Instagram), outside of their jokes, we do not exist.

Just look at this space, it is so dead in comparison to other teenage spaces. I would consider ourselves a bit privileged, for we are at the least, accepting of our truth, in anonymity, individuals like us are growing alone, or even getting executed or even assaulted throughout our country, from villages to cities.

Whenever I would see typical nibba-nibbi relationships, besides the second hand embarrassment, their would be sadness and anger in me, there is no restriction on them, it is considered a goal in teen years, I would and now see teen boys my age discuss girl crushes, everything is so heteronormative, you do not get shamed for life for asking a girl out as a boy.

Every young influencer wether it be a fitness influencer, always flaunts their girlfriends, nobody has the courage, including you and I.

will we ever be considered normal? like a boy asking out another boy in school/college and it being treated as normal there, boy influencers talking about their boyfriends? I do not think so, at least, I will not be alive to see it.

Same-sex marriage is not even legalized here.

Heyy everyone. I am new here. It's been some days I joined here but still confused about how it works. I just want to connect with more people. I am closeted gay guy from kerala. I am 17 years old. I am a humanities student. I hope I could go to real dates soon after +2. I don't know. I am tired of hiding myself from everything. Any fellow gay people here?

I live in Vijayawada and would love to make some queer friends, whether online or in person. I'm mainly looking for genuine friendships and people to chat with about life, movies, studies, hobbies, or just random things.

Feel free to comment or DM if you'd like to be friends! 🌈✨

Kinda need the affirmation that healthy love is a thing after the hell I have been seeing 😭

This isn't targeting men or anything and im speaking from MY experience but all homophobes I have seen happen to be straight guys.

okay, so i met this woman on instagram, ig this month, and we talked for like three days rn, she is pretty cool, is turning 19 this year (i am turning 17 so it's fine), and is honestly, just my type in women

but she has a crush on this other woman for 2 years, the said crush is not in contact with her, and may not be into women.

so, she seemed a bit flirty with nicknames, and i thought it was only with me (it's been three days, and i was delusional) but she posted a story where she was talking to someone else, and it wasn't just me

we do talk, smtimes she initiates a convo, sometimes i do.

but omg, i am not telling her to move on, but how to get her to notice me or behave differently with me yk?

Mine?

I am expressive and I like music by the pop girlies 💀