Can yall manifest for me PLEASE

Im finally moving to college, can yall manifest that i find a girl i like and who likes me back because i am DONE with long distance online talking stages. What even is the point.

i just wanna know what it feels like to be in a relationship and be loved

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u/Valuable_Cry_6554 — 23 days ago

Where can i find stainless steel anti tarnish silver rings?

Most anti tarnish affordable jewelry brands focus exclusively on gold jewelry and i wanted silver rings for everyday wear and im normally allergy to metals and break out into a rash easily after wearing cheap metals, where can i find such rings for max 400 a piece that can last me a atleast a couple years

reference of what i want

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u/Valuable_Cry_6554 — 1 month ago

What has been your experience coming out to straight men?

18f lesbian and only my close friends know about my sexuality but I've been randomly coming out to people in conversation if its relevant, girls usually ask normal questions like how and when did you realise and move on but omg whenever i come out to boys istg they act like lesbians are some mythical creature that only exists in porn and immediately start treating me as "one of the bros" (ew), they start asking me inappropriate things like have i seen my friends naked. Like why would i ever tell you that and feed into wtv creepy fantasy there is in your head and is it so hard for them to believe that i can be friends with women without being creepy and wanting to fuck them? Like i have never thought of a friend that way, it makes me think that platonic relationships are never truly platonic with guys

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u/Valuable_Cry_6554 — 1 month ago

How can i stop oversharing in new friendships

I overshare and trauma dump in new friendships as a way of bonding, ik i shouldnt do it and i regret it almost immediately afterwards.

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u/Valuable_Cry_6554 — 2 months ago

she chose another college 🥀

18f, there was this girl that i saw in my pre-freshers college unofficial group chat and thought she was cute, i saw her liking posts like "wlw with no wuh to luh" and genuinely started started liking her after talking to her a couple times (platonically) but i found out yesterday that shes choosing another college because she updated her insta bio.

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u/Valuable_Cry_6554 — 2 months ago

18 beginner, do i need a credit card?

Just opened an account in HDFC and my father made me get a debit card too, is it needed? i was thinking about just recharging my gpay wallet with my bank account every month for my allowance. I wanted a credit card to build a credit history slowly in 4 years in college (my family's cibil score isnt great so i dont wanna get added to their card)
should i get debit and credit both, i dont plan on making any charges on the credit card (FD backed) except for one recurring monthly subscription that ill pay b4 the due date

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u/Valuable_Cry_6554 — 2 months ago

where can i find swimsuits that dont have an open back

im fine with literally anything showing besides my back😭

for mods, i saw someone post a similar post a couple weeks ago and there was nothing against it in the rules, please dont remove it i need help

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u/Valuable_Cry_6554 — 2 months ago
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Where can i get good earrings like this for everyday wear?

Im moving to college and want earrings to wear 24*7, i obviously cant take any precious metals with me to hostel. i found these at liliorigin but i heard its brass and tarnishes very quick

u/Valuable_Cry_6554 — 2 months ago

Chandigarh/tricity area Queer teens?

18f, moving there soon, would love to connect to queer people in chandigarh, are there any groupchats or instagram pages?

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u/Valuable_Cry_6554 — 2 months ago

girlies how do i look gayer

im starting college and i cant change my wardrobe rn but i need to indicate somehow that im gay, i was thinking of a pride pin but maybe its too much, are there any accessories or crafts or keychains or smth?

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u/Valuable_Cry_6554 — 2 months ago

How do i escape this loneliness?

I'm turning 18 soon and to celebrate, parents have planned a 4 day trip... without me. I tried to pretend that I was fine with it and that I didn't wanna spend it with them anyway (i have a tense relationship with my mom, shes really toxic and conservative) but i have exactly 2 friends in the city and they don't even know each other so throwing a sad little party for 3 is out of the question. And I don't wanna spend the day I've been waiting for, for so long, bedrotting and crying myself to sleep again.

I never leave my house anymore because i dont have that huge friend group to hang out with and go bowling with, i see my other friends hang out with people i considered friends too but it doesn't cross anyone's mind to even invite me. ik im not an unlikable person, i just don't know how to escape this feeling of being so isolated and alone all the time

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u/Valuable_Cry_6554 — 2 months ago

turning 18 without my family and friends by my side

I'm turning 18 soon and to celebrate, parents have planned a 4 day trip... without me. I tried to pretend that I was fine with it and that I didn't wanna spend it with them anyway (i have a tense relationship with my mom, shes really toxic and conservative) but i have exactly 2 friends in the city and they don't even know each other so throwing a sad little party for 3 is out of the question. And I don't wanna spend the day I've been waiting for, for so long, bedrotting and crying myself to sleep again.

I never leave my house anymore because i dont have that huge friend group to hang out with and go bowling with, i see my other friends hang out with people i considered friends too but it doesn't cross anyone's mind to even invite me. ik im not an unlikable person, i just don't know how to escape this feeling of being so isolated and alone all the time

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u/Valuable_Cry_6554 — 2 months ago

turning 18 with no friends and family by my side

I'm turning 18 soon and to celebrate, parents have planned a 4 day trip... without me. I tried to pretend that I was fine with it and that I didn't wanna spend it with them anyway (i have a tense relationship with my mom, shes really toxic and conservative) but i have exactly 2 friends in the city and they don't even know each other so throwing a sad little party for 3 is out of the question. And I don't wanna spend the day I've been waiting for, for so long, bedrotting and crying myself to sleep again.

I never leave my house anymore because i dont have that huge friend group to hang out with and go bowling with, i see my other friends hang out with people i considered friends too but it doesn't cross anyone's mind to even invite me. ik im not an unlikable person, i just don't know how to escape this feeling of being so isolated and alone all the time

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u/Valuable_Cry_6554 — 2 months ago

Good PGs for girls near LJ university, Makarba

A friend of mine is attending LJ university and she is looking for a safe, clean and spacious PG. the college itself is at a more isolated area and PGs recommended by the college in 5 minute radius arent good. any recommendations for PGs 15-20 minutes from LJ university.

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u/Valuable_Cry_6554 — 3 months ago
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Good PGs for girls near LJ university, Makarba

A friend of mine is attending LJ university and she is looking for a safe, clean and spacious PG. the college itself is at a more isolated area and PGs recommended by the college in 5 minute radius arent good. any recommendations for PGs 15-20 minutes from LJ university.

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u/Valuable_Cry_6554 — 3 months ago