u/pinkskybluebells

I’ve for some time suspected or had a feeling maybe my long term husband liked someone else. I’ve asked the cards a number of times over the past few months and they keep telling me a similar story (to me and my novice eye at least). The cards have initiated a heart to heart conversation about it all and my husband gets mad at me for believing cards. We have recently started trying to make things work again and have a fresh start to try and get things back on track but I just can’t get out of my head what the cards say and that he’s lying to me. I’ve also started using a pendulum and it’s saying exactly the same thing and is also confirming yes to a lady he works with and has been to some work functions/awards with.

I did another pull this evening to see what his current energies are and how he feels about any possible emotional and/or physical interaction. These are the cards.

The cards say to me that he’s caught between two women. Me and this other woman. She always comes out as the Queen of Cups in any card pulls. He says he loves me more than anything and that he is absolutely invested only in me and never would be interested in anyone else.

Would you believe a person over cards continuously coming out like these? It’s doing my head in. I want to believe him. But I just don’t. Why do the cards keep saying this?? I’ve had other paid readings from others that allude to the same. Help! Am O reading this wrong? 🙏🏻

Hi! Partner and I have been trying to improve relationship recently to try and get it back on track after being at breaking point for some time and give it another go. He’s been saying he loves me a few times lately and at times seems warm, engaging and affectionate, but other times quiet and distant. Each time I pull cards (new reader) they seem quite negative, with 10 of swords, 7 of swords, death, 8 of cups etc. This is just a few of what’s come out recently for the question, “What do I not see”

Can anyone please help with what these cards are saying? I often get a feeling that there maybe someone else he likes, although can’t find anything. Am I completely misreading and putting my own misgivings into misreading these cards? I’ve asked him and I’ve always encouraged communication and openness about wanting to start with someone else and he’s said categorically always said no. My intuition says otherwise. I just don’t want to be led along and put energy into something murky. I just want the truth, one way or another.

I won’t bore you with the story but I was recently really hurt by someone I thought cared about me a lot but got fed up with what I think were manipulative mind games, breadcrumbing and then getting involved elsewhere, which resulted in a tower moment for me. I decided to cease all communication and blocked. What does this spread say about their energy, thoughts, feelings and emotions following the block?

From what I can make out this has resulted in considerable pain for them too and complete end to the connection. As far as I’m concerned there is no way back, which I think they will know. Did they consider us as a good match, hence the King and Queen of Wands?

How much trust would you be willing to put in tarot?

Apologies for really long post but background info is really needed. I hate sharing my deeply personal life but really need help and advice from experienced card readers.

This begins as a historical (26 year old) pull for a question that has always niggled me. When I originally met my husband, he was in a supposedly unhappy relationship (not married) they shared a house together. I was single, 9 years younger, naaive and then got pregnant by him and he wanted to make a go of it. Because of my strict religious background I felt it was the right thing to do, to try and make things right. Abortion was not an option. However he continued living in the same house with his “ex” for nearly a year with his previous partner whilst they sorted out sale of house etc. I really struggled with it particularly because he asked me never to contact him whilst he was at home in evenings or weekends or within 10 minutes of the house. I always thought this was odd, but maybe this was just to be kind to his ex, because she was devastated. As time went on, I got more suspicious about all this time. He’s always denied categorically carrying on any physical relationship after he started a relationship with me, that he had moved into the spare bedroom. No judgement please, I know I was in the wrong for getting involved initially until he was separated properly.

Anyway, I’m trying to learn tarot I decided to ask him again yesterday, as we’re having some serious issues or at least I’m having real issues with the relationship. I’d already done a card pull (photo 1) asking if there’s anything about him that I wasn’t seeing and that I should know, because I always just feel so “off” around him. This immediately flagged up old insecurities and trust issues. If I’m honest I don’t really know what all those cards are saying, they just seem to suggest something hidden and perhaps deceitful? (seven of swords, moon, 5 of swords)

I asked him if something was going on, that I often feel he’s very guarded about his phone and mentioned I pulled tarot cards about it. He just said it was a bunch of crap, he doesn’t believe in any of it and he wasn’t hiding or lying about anything. I mentioned about having always felt insecure because of his time sharing a house with his ex. Again he denied anything happened between them, but I thought his face gave something away. He gets annoyed and frustrated on the few times I’ve brought it up as a reason for feeling insecure.

So I asked the tarot, did X sleep with Y whilst living in the same house for a year but in a new relationship with me? These are the three cards I got in this order. (2nd photo)

My interpretation and what my intuition says, is that he was carrying on as normal, trying to maintain a normal home life with his the partner, struggling with being seen as the guilty party and feeling rejected or being perceived as a bad person by family/friends (she found out he had been seeing someone because of a receipt she found for a hotel) 3 of swords being pain and guilt of being involved in a three person dynamic? Am I reading this wrong? That’s just my initial take on those cards.

Some people may say why does it matter all this time in the future, 3 kids later. It really does matter to me. Despite how we started, he’s always been fully supportive, kind husband and father and I wouldn’t say he has ever come across as the lying type. But my nervous system has ALWAYS felt off. The relationship is on extremely rocky ground due to communication issues and we just don’t gel that well on any emotional level. If I felt for one minute that he had lied and deceived me all this time about those early days, I think it would be the clincher. Can the cards be picking up my suspicious feelings and thoughts?