Is there anyone today or this weekend who needs help with labor work or anything like that? I’m just trying to stay busy and get my mind off things. I don’t mind helping with whatever—moving, cleaning, yard work, anything really. Just looking to stay active and be useful. Appreciate it
Can anyone teach me how to drive manual? I’ve been wanting to learn stick shift but don’t have a car. I’m willing to drive to you and cover gas if someone can help me practice. Thanks
I’m 24 years old and I’m going through my first real breakup, and I honestly don’t know how to handle it. My girlfriend and I have been on and off constantly, but this time it feels different and more serious.
She told me she feels like the relationship isn’t working anymore, that she’s tired and emotionally drained, and that she needs to focus on herself. She said she doesn’t hate me and that I didn’t do anything horrible to her, but she feels like things between us keep repeating and she doesn’t want it to keep getting worse.
I want to be honest and say there were times where I did say the wrong things. Sometimes my words came out differently than how I intended them, and I understand that actions speak louder than words. I know she has seen that I care about her and that I love her deeply.
The reason this is so hard is because she was never a bad girlfriend. She actually did so many beautiful things for me in the time we were together. She supported me, helped me grow, and we always helped each other through things. We had a deep level of trust. I never cheated on her, and she never gave me a reason to believe she cheated on me. We always respected each other in that way.
She has told me many times that I’m a good person and that I treat her right, but she feels like I’m not fully mature yet and that I still have growing to do. That hurts because I know I’ve done a lot of good things for her too, and I know I’m not perfect, but I never stopped caring about her.
She’s also been through a lot in her life since she was younger, and I’ve seen how much she’s had to stay strong even when things were difficult. I have a lot of respect for her and everything she’s gone through.
She even said maybe in a year she might reach out and see how I’m doing, and maybe we could talk about things again, but I’m trying not to hold onto that as a guarantee. It’s just hard because this woman brought so much good into my life.
She was my first girlfriend, and I know I was her third relationship, so I know she has more experience with relationships than I do. I know people will probably tell me I need to move on, and I understand that, but it’s hard when it’s someone who never really hurt you or gave you a reason to hate them.
I really don’t see myself with anyone else right now, and I know that might sound selfish, but that’s honestly how I feel. I miss her a lot and I think about her throughout the day. I’m trying to respect her decision and give her space, but I’m struggling because I feel like I lost someone who had a huge impact on my life.
I’m not looking for people to tell me she’s coming back or give me false hope. I just want honest advice on how to accept this and move forward when the person you lost was someone who meant so much to you.
I could really use some advice because I’m struggling to know if I should let go or keep hoping.
My ex-girlfriend and I recently broke up after dating for about eight months. I truly loved her and saw a future with her, but over time my insecurities, overthinking, and negativity put a lot of pressure on the relationship. She told me she became emotionally drained and felt like the relationship wasn’t working anymore.
I also want to make something clear because I don’t want people to think she’s a bad person. She’s been through a lot in her life—more than I’ve experienced myself. She shared with me that she’s dealing with a lot emotionally and has gone through very difficult experiences. I know those things affected how she viewed relationships and trust, and I don’t blame her for that. She never treated me badly or intentionally tried to hurt me.
She told me she doesn’t hate me and that I didn’t do anything horrible, but she’s tired and doesn’t think our relationship is going to work. She said she’s deactivating her Instagram for a while, wants to move on with her life, and doesn’t want my negative comments around her anymore. She feels it’s time for us to let go because she believes things would only get worse if we kept trying.
Looking back, I think one of my biggest mistakes was saying the wrong things. My actions usually showed that I loved and cared about her, but my words often didn’t. I overthought situations, made negative comments, and I think she started seeing me as immature or childish. I take responsibility for that.
I’m not going to lie—I don’t see myself with anyone else right now. I know that’s probably making it harder for me to heal, but that’s honestly how I feel. I never stopped loving her, and it’s hard for me to imagine moving on.
Since the breakup, I’ve been trying to improve myself. I’ve been focusing on my HVAC career, going to the gym, and working on becoming a more mature and positive person. I’m not saying that to try to win her back—I genuinely want to grow from this experience.
I guess what I’m struggling with is whether I should completely let go or if there’s any reason to have hope. I don’t want to disrespect her wishes by reaching out if she’s already made up her mind, but I also don’t want to spend years wondering if I gave up too soon.
For anyone who’s been through something similar:
● Does this sound like someone who’s completely done with the relationship?
● Should I accept that it’s over and move on, even if I still love her?
● Have any of you ever had a relationship end because of emotional immaturity, and were you able to genuinely change afterward?
Please be honest. I’m not looking for people to insult her or tell me she’s a bad person because she isn’t. She was good to me, and I know I made mistakes too. I just want outside opinions because this has been one of the hardest things I’ve ever gone through. to give even more context she’s my first girlfriend that I had and I’m her third ex now, but I’m genuine when I say, I really don’t see myself dating anyone else and I know it’s hurting me more by saying and probably doing that but it’s the truth
I’m looking for any handyman, contractor, tradesman, or just someone who enjoys fixing things and is willing to teach. I really want to learn how to repair and build things on my own instead of always relying on other people.
I’m not looking for free money or anything like that—I just want hands-on experience and knowledge. I’m willing to help, carry tools, clean up, drive to job sites, and learn whatever I can. Whether it’s HVAC, electrical, plumbing, carpentry, automotive work, home repairs, or general handyman work, I’m interested in learning it all.
If you’re willing to let me tag along, help out, and learn from you, I’d really appreciate the opportunity. I’m reliable, eager to learn, and willing to put in the work.
Thanks!
I’m looking to learn more about cars and was wondering if there’s anyone with mechanic experience or good car knowledge who would be willing to teach me a thing or two.
I’m a hands-on learner, so I learn best by actually doing the work. I’d love to learn things like oil changes, brakes, engine work, maintenance, diagnostics, and anything else related to cars.
I’m willing to drive anywhere and don’t mind helping out. If you’re working on a project car, changing brakes, doing maintenance, or just wrenching on something, I’d be happy to lend a hand and learn along the way.
I’m not looking for free work done on my car—I genuinely just want to learn and gain experience. I’m reliable, eager to learn, and willing to get my hands dirty.
If anyone is willing to help or knows of a local group where I could learn, I’d really appreciate it. Thanks!
Hey everyone,
I’m looking for opportunities to learn new hands-on skills. I really enjoy working with my hands and want to learn as much as I can. Whether it’s plumbing, HVAC, electrical work, automotive repair, welding, construction, or any other trade, I’m interested in learning.
I recently completed HVAC training and have some low-voltage experience, but my goal is to keep expanding my skills and become more well-rounded in different trades.
If anyone is willing to teach me, let me shadow you, help on projects, or learn on the job, I’d greatly appreciate it. You don’t have to pay me—I understand that teaching takes time. My main goal is simply to learn and gain real-world experience.
I’m willing to travel, work around your schedule, and do whatever I can to help. If you need an extra set of hands and don’t mind showing me the ropes, please reach out.
Thank you for your time.
Hey everyone,
I’m looking for opportunities to learn new hands-on skills. I really enjoy working with my hands and want to learn as much as I can. Whether it’s plumbing, HVAC, electrical work, automotive repair, welding, construction, or any other trade, I’m interested in learning.
I recently completed HVAC training and have some low-voltage experience, but my goal is to keep expanding my skills and become more well-rounded in different trades.
If anyone is willing to teach me, let me shadow you, help on projects, or learn on the job, I’d greatly appreciate it. You don’t have to pay me—I understand that teaching takes time. My main goal is simply to learn and gain real-world experience.
I’m willing to travel, work around your schedule, and do whatever I can to help. If you need an extra set of hands and don’t mind showing me the ropes, please reach out.
Thank you for your time.
Hey everyone i’m located in Las Vegas Nevada
I’m looking for opportunities to learn new hands-on skills. I really enjoy working with my hands and want to learn as much as I can. Whether it’s plumbing, HVAC, electrical work, automotive repair, welding, construction, or any other trade, I’m interested in learning.
I recently completed HVAC training and have some low-voltage experience, but my goal is to keep expanding my skills and become more well-rounded in different trades.
If anyone is willing to teach me, let me shadow you, help on projects, or learn on the job, I’d greatly appreciate it. You don’t have to pay me—I understand that teaching takes time. My main goal is simply to learn and gain real-world experience.
I’m willing to travel, work around your schedule, and do whatever I can to help. If you need an extra set of hands and don’t mind showing me the ropes, please reach out.
Thank you for your time.
Hey everyone
I’m currently looking for work and hoping to connect with people in the trades. I have about 5 months of low-voltage experience and recently graduated from an HVAC program. I’m eager to keep learning and build more hands-on skills.
I’m interested in anything mechanical, including low-voltage, HVAC, automotive work, plumbing, electrical, welding, equipment operation, or really any trade where I can learn from someone with experience.
If anyone is willing to teach, mentor, or let me help out on jobs, I’d be incredibly grateful. I’m not expecting anything for free, but my main goal right now is to learn and gain experience. Honestly, I’d even be willing to volunteer my time just to learn the skills.
I’m reliable, willing to work hard, show up on time, and travel wherever needed. If you know someone looking for an extra set of hands or are willing to teach, please send me a message.
Thank you!