▲ 3 r/neurodiversity
When Can I decide It’s All Over?
I’ve been feeling trash, like actually earthquaking trash. My grades are trash, and I can’t go to uni to peruse my dream career because it’s unrealistic and expensive (so i won’t be petting any marine animals at the uni i wanted to go to) all because it’s too far and i can’t afford anything neither can my parents.
so I’ve been looking at things, but i have one friend that gives me reality checks and every time they do, they remind me how much of a bad person i am.
im not mean, or evil im just not good at being a person. i have no motivation, i wont do things, ill ask for advice and then forget about it because im too lazy.
i’ve been having the seeping of impending doom in my chest again, and i’m so scared for the future.
As well as I’m so worried about my grades, i forget to revise like i said - 0 motivation. I can’t pay attention in class, im always day dreaming and i can’t get out of it. I told my ex therapist and she just didn’t really show any concern but Im just really upset at the moment. I can’t peruse my career, i can’t do anything right and i can’t even look after myself!
can i get some help here? i’ll try to remember to think back on the advice i can’t promise anything because i’ve got a bad memory LOL. i just need someone to tell me everything’s gonna be ok, i know it won’t but id like some false hope before i continue to feel rubbish
u/pjharveylover — 6 days ago
▲ 22 r/aromanticasexual
can you still be aroace and whine about being alone forever?
personally i cry or whine about how ill be alone forever and ill never get to experienced being loved in an intimate way
i’ve never felt attraction towards anyone so idek how it would work
i don’t want to be aroace but i can’t change it
u/pjharveylover — 7 days ago
▲ 16 r/aromanticasexual
Are there any aroace representation examples in media?
Like characters, films, books, TV shows? I like to relate to things I consume and I’d like to think there’s some out there
u/pjharveylover — 7 days ago
▲ 64 r/aromanticasexual
Why are aroace characters to demonised?
i’ve seen several instances where an asexual character is seen as demonised especially in romance novels and films! why??? is it discriminatory or are we genuinely like this…?
u/pjharveylover — 7 days ago
▲ 89 r/seniorkitties
My 16 year old outdoor cat begs to go outside but it’s too hot
Hi so obviously in the uk the temperatures have been abysmal, ranging from 25/32° yet my boy keeps going outside!
and after a while, he just goes into our shaded decking and spreads out like he’s sun bathing - then he sleeps!
is this normal? is he soaking up the sun to photosynthesise to live longer? what’s his deal!!!
u/pjharveylover — 12 days ago
▲ 4 r/women
How do you become less insecure??
I’m violently and deeply insecure, ive been this way for wayyy too long - most of my conscious life. i’m 17 now and it’s tearing apart everything, even my grades are getting worse.
i’m insecure physically i just can’t look in the mirror or reflection and think oh wow i don’t look half bad today!
any tips? when does this go away??? when can i live
like a normal person?
u/pjharveylover — 15 days ago