He’s a virgin at 23, red flag?

So im seeing this guy, he is 23 and I’m 22 and he is genuinely so sweet and kind and lovely, he recently told me he’s a virgin and he’s never even kissed anyone. I feel bad that I immediately jumped to bad conclusions. He’s not bad looking, he has told me he has low self esteem and used to be very anxious. Maybe virginity I can understand, but never kissed anyone? I am a lot more experienced than him (not that I have slept with loads of people) but I’ve had a few relationships.

I want to ask him why but I don’t know how to go about it. Like does he have a micro penis? I don’t know . What should i ask him to try and understand him better?

Also another reason why im a bit suspicious is because he follows a few insta models and likes their pics, so now im wondering if he’s a porn addict

reddit.com
u/poptartand — 19 hours ago

Tips for sticking to lion diet long term

I find it easy for a few days but because it’s SO restrictive I easily slip up, with dairy mostly. But I feel my best on lion diet and also am trying to lose weight which is easiest for me with lion. Pls if anyone has tips I’d appreciate it

reddit.com
u/poptartand — 15 days ago

Can’t fully move on after 3 years - advice needed

It’s been 3 years, I know why we had to end, I wasn’t happy. But basically he ghosted me after we broke up, and every time I tried to contact him he just never replied. I begged for something, some acknowledgment, and it has killed me for so long not knowing.
We were each others first for everything, he told me he wanted to marry me, that I was the love of his life. I was his first. I know he loved me. But the way he treated me after we ended, it’s like I never knew him. I thought after everything we’d been through he could at least acknowledge my existence after I cried and begged and I saw he read my messages. He blocked me on everything, then recently he has unblocked me on everything, Instagram. He told me if we ever broke up he would have to force himself to hate me, so that’s what I think he did. But why do I still think about him. I’ve never been able to be comfortable with anyone like him. I know we weren’t meant to be and he didn’t make me happy when I was with him, but still 3 years later it’s in my head. If anyone has been through something similar I’d appreciate advice on how you stopped thinking about it

reddit.com
u/poptartand — 16 days ago

Lion diet for weight loss

I’ve been strict lion diet for the past 2 weeks, beef salt and water. My body composition has never been this good in my life, effortlessly too. I have dropped 5 kgs without trying and I can see my abs. I still have about 5 kg to lose but even on regular carnivore I struggled to lose weight , it seemed like it just wouldn’t drop off because I’m not massively overweight. But since starting lion my mental health has never been so good and I’m the leanest I’ve been. If you want to lose weight I definately would reccomend doing a month or a few weeks of the lion diet! After a few days it becomes natural and easy.

reddit.com
u/poptartand — 21 days ago

Raw milk changed my life

If I could convince everyone to drink raw milk I would, even tho most people think I’m crazy. I have experienced so many benefits from it, and even after drinking it I feel amazing.
Some benefits
-hair growth
-glowing skin
-strengthened immune system
-never get sick
And many more. I don’t get bloated from raw milk where I did from pasteurised. And I truly believe it’s contributed to the glow up I’ve had. I’ll never stop drinking it, and paired with eating animal based diet I feel better than I’ve ever felt, lose weight effortlessly and feel amazing everyday. ANIMAL BASED AND RAW MILK
(Also it’s funny to me when ppl hate on raw milk only life like ok I’m getting all the benefits 🤣)

reddit.com
u/poptartand — 24 days ago

7 day fast willpower advice

Hi all. I really need some advice about actually sticking to a long fast. The longest I’ve ever fasted is 48 hours and I felt absolutely amazing. Generally my diet is great, but I’ve moved home to a small village this last week and for some reason I’ve been overeating like crazy, sugar and all sorts. I’m going back to the city I live in tomorrow and want to do a 7 day (dirty fast because I can’t give up cream in coffee) for 7 days. I really desperately want to complete it and stick to it but every time I try I give up after two days. The food noise gets so intense. So if anyone has tips on how they’ve overcome this and maybe what benefits they’ve seen from a 7 day fast to motivate me. I’m doing this for weight loss so I’m sure a few splashes of cream in my coffee won’t effect that

reddit.com
u/poptartand — 28 days ago

Ex unblocked me after over 3 years

We were each others first for most things, first love first partner first kiss everything. We dated for two years from when I was 17 and he was 21. It didn’t end well, but it did end mutually. He cut me off and basically ghosted me, then blocked me on everything. In 2025 he unblocked me on one of his Instagram accounts randomly(he has two) and then just this week I noticed he unblocked me on the other one too. And I noticed cus he appeared in my suggested. Why not just keep me blocked? People say it’s cus he finally moved on but I just don’t buy that. It’s been 3 years and why now would he go and unblock me. I’m not thinking too much of it because I’ve moved on completely. But because I never got closure and basically got ghosted sometimes I still wonder how he’s doing and if he’s okay, I’d never reach out, but just find it weird. I never blocked him and never felt like I needed to.

reddit.com
u/poptartand — 30 days ago

Raw meat from supermarket

Been transitioning to raw primal these last few weeks and I’ve never felt more amazing in my life. Everything is improving, only issue is I live in London and butchers are really expensive around me and can’t easily get to the butchers from where I live have to take the tube. So I bought a pack of diced meat from the supermarket, first two times I ate it felt fine but the last time it went straight through me and yeh let’s just say wasn’t nice. Should I be concerned? My family all say I should not eat raw supermarket meat but it’s really convenient . I don’t want to get sick but also is it really that bad?

reddit.com
u/poptartand — 2 months ago

Been on this diet two weeks now having done carnivore previously and I feel so much better. I’m a woman in my early 20s and I just felt like carnivore wasn’t good for my hormones, I always felt tired and anxious and didn’t feel like it could be a lifestyle.
Also, I would lose weight really slowly, wheres the weight is falling off me on animal based even tho I’m eating carbs and I’m not starving myself. I’m curious as to why this is, because many say carnivore is ideal and better for weight loss. But I’ve found to be the complete opposite. Honestly I’ve never felt better and so glad I switched over

reddit.com
u/poptartand — 2 months ago