u/princebiskut

Bhai yay JANI k beef baad inty zyada beef chlry.. i really wanna follow them lekin i need help understanding..

-Beef kis kiski

-Beef ka context kia

-order of the songs so i can follow from the start

Koi properly follow ker raha.. tou do let me know these things..

Looking for a budget-friendly apartment for 2 people around Main Boulevard Gulberg / MM Alam Road.

I lived in Rehman Tower for a couple of years (during COVID), and it was great back then. Unfortunately, the rents have gone up a lot, and the security deposit they're asking for now is a bit too much.

I'm looking for something similar, clean, safe, and reasonably priced. If anyone has any recommendations or knows of any good apartment buildings in the area, I'd really appreciate it.

Thanks!

So I got myself into a situation (a couple months ago) and to this day I genuinely don’t know how to process it. I feel kinda ashamed and disgusted at myself and keep replaying everything in my head.

It all started after a few days when I created an account on bumble (out of curiosity mainly)

A girl replied. We ended up talking for almost 2 hours straight. She was a hostelite and a university student. The initial conversation was actually really good, and easy.

Then out of nowhere, she said she was bored since her roommates aren't in the city and wanted to go out for a cruise.

Now the issue was… everything shuts down at 10 PM. But somehow, after just 1.5–2 hours of talking, we made a completely spontaneous plan to meet.

She lived about 18 km away, so I asked her to come to a midpoint. She agreed. I picked her up from there.

Things were normal at first. While driving, she sat in a way that her arm would brush mine whenever I turned left. I ignored it initially.

I took her to a small dhaba, had tea, we talked more. I decided to drop her off at her hostel since it was late atp (11:30 pm) and we were really far from her hostel (26 km).

Then on the way back, things started getting… different.

She suddenly put her hand on the back of my head and started touching my hair. I brushed it off in my mind like, okay maybe she just likes my mullet.

But then it escalated. Her hand moved to my neck. At that point, I was honestly so distracted I wasn’t even properly checking mirrors while driving. I was too numb while her hand was around my neck..

Somehow we reached her hostel around 12:15 AM. Roads were empty. I parked nearby. She stayed in the car and we kept talking.

Then she leaned in, head on my shoulder, holding my arm. At that point, I won’t lie, I was in the moment too.

Then it escalated again. She lifted her head, held my neck… and we kissed.

Things were about to go further, she even tried to take it in that direction, I'm not lying if I say she seemed expert at it, but something just snapped in me and I stopped.

Everything suddenly felt off.

It got awkward. She just said “okay, I’m leaving” and got out.

I drove home as fast as I could.

Now here’s the part messing with my head:

I’m not claiming I’m innocent. I was there, I went along with it. But I genuinely didn’t expect things to go that far that fast. It was supposed to be a random meetup, chai, maybe a new friend.

Instead, it turned into something I wasn’t mentally prepared for.

And looking back… I made so many rookie mistakes:

- Meeting a complete stranger late at night

- Driving long distances

- Letting my guard down

- Getting carried away in the moment

- Ignoring the fact these dating apps are a scary place indeed

Honestly, things could’ve gone way worse.

I told my rami friend about what happened and he was like, “bro chill, this is normal, hookup culture, etc.” 😭

To make it weirder, she later called me asking if she left money in my car (she didn’t). After that she kept trying to ask for money every now and then and I was just avoiding her until recently she asked me for eiddi.. I blocked her.

P.S. The purpose of this confession is simply to encourage people to stay cautious when using dating apps. If it goes against the community guidelines, I apologize to the mods for increasing their work.

Genuine question for cyclists who regularly do 30km+ rides.. how are you managing it?

I’ve been trying to push past that distance for a long time but haven’t really been able to. Most of the time, my legs feel completely exhausted or I hit the limit of my stamina.

Since going beyond that feels difficult, my usual goal is to maintain 30km in around 70–80 minutes. But then comes the second issue: recovery. If I do that for two consecutive days, by the third day my quads feel extremely stiff.. almost like they’ve turned to rock,, and pedaling becomes difficult.

How do you manage recovery, endurance, and consistency for longer distances? Any advice on pacing, nutrition, stretching, or training methods would really help.

P.S. I currently don’t have an outdoor bike, so I train on a spin bike instead.