u/psumaxx

Hello! I'm a plus size white lady with a very low libido and it won't change anytime soon.

I'm interested in a variety of everchanging topics ranging from religion/spirituality to fashion and subcultures, plants and nature, piercings and tattoos, all sorts of DIY stuff, celebrity popculture, paintings.

I used to be in a hindu cult as a non Indian for many years and still practice deity worship on off, but this time on my terms.

On here I hope to find a slow burn connection. I'm not in a rush as I don't want to have kids and don't see myself moving in with someone anytime soon.

Due to timezones I'm unable to stay in touch with folks from USA, South America and Australia/NZ.

I'm a plus size lady from western Germany who has spent years in a hindu cult (as a non-Indian) and that has shaped me a lot.

I'm happy with my current life but am curious what it would be like to have a companion for talking and meeting occasionally. I don't want to move in together in the foreseeable future, and definitely no kids.

I strive to keep on improving myself, despite the hardships that lives brings, and expect my partner to want the same for himself.

I have mental health issues that I manage mostly well in everyday life (I'm in therapy and eager to learn), but have very low libido since. I guess I'd fit the grey-asexual category best.

My interests can shift around a lot and fast.

But my main ones would be various subcultures (especially focusing on fashion and lifestyle), Hinduism (bhakti), plants/flowers, nature, being creative occasionally, walking and piercings.

I'm a plus size lady from western Germany who has spent years in a hindu cult (as a non-Indian) and that has shaped me a lot.

I'm happy with my current life but am curious what it would be like to have a companion for talking and meeting occasionally. I don't want to move in together in the foreseeable future, and definitely no kids.

I strive to keep on improving myself, despite the hardships that lives brings, and expect my partner to want the same for himself.

I have mental health issues that I manage mostly well in everyday life (I'm in therapy and eager to learn), but have very low libido since. I guess I'd fit the grey-asexual category best.

My interests can shift around a lot and fast.

But my main ones would be various subcultures (especially focusing on fashion and lifestyle), Hinduism (bhakti), plants/flowers, nature, being creative occasionally, walking and piercings.

Today a temple community in Germany is holding their Ratha Yatra despite abnormal 39°C/102°F (according to the weather station it feels like 43°C/109°F in reality).

I was sure they would think of the devotees and cancel, as many events here have already been cancelled.

Even some major trains in this state have stated that they will not drive from 13:00 to 19:00 or so, as they want to prevent people from fainting etc. (Aircon is barely a thing in Germany).

But no. I just saw them posting videos of the RY being indeed held in the center of the city, right in the middle of a concrete jungle.

Germany is not at all made for this heat. Many trams in this state have no aircon at all. What feels like 40° outside, can easily become 50°C inside a train with tiny windows, packed people and no aircon. People have been fainting.

Same for houses. Most don't even have a fan.

I can't believe they are holding their RY despite the heat, right around noon/afternoon.

This is not some tiny backyard RY, it's in a major german city with many hundreds if not up to a thousand people (or more? No idea) attending. People are usually travelling from cities all over the state, some even from different states.

Irresponsible.

All of this just to "spread mercy". No sane person is outside today unless they have to be, who are they spreading mercy to?