Are there any trans fems who would date a fem trans guy? Pls read full!

I’m 20 and bigender (he/she/it) and would consider myself more transsexual than transgender, for me that means I’m currently on hrt testosterone and working out to be perceived more male physically but I don’t necessarily mind being perceived as a feminine person (sometimes even a girl if dysphorias leaving me alone that day) aesthetic wise

Anyways I’m bi and I’ve tried dating men (both trans and cis) and I’m just so over it. I so wish to meet a girlfriend but I’ve realized through experience it would be a lot better on me mentally to date someone who is also trans so they understand certain things that are important to me that someone cis never would

The problem is although I’ve got a fairly complicated gender identity people tend to just read me as a feminine trans man, and I find that every trans girl I meet is either into much more masculine men or fellow trans girls

I’m just wondering if any of y’all trans fems on here would ever date a fem trans guy (who’s on T)? to see if there’s any hope for me lol

Thanks in advance!💔

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u/puppyboy7979 — 14 hours ago

Switching to injections from gel, help??

Hii so I’ve been on androgel for about a month now and I’m really stressed.

I feel like with the current heat wave I’m probably just sweating it all off, and I’m running out of clothes big enough to cover where I applied it.

I’m so clumsy and I’m so scared I’ll get it on someone/thing. I’ve already spilled some on the floor and sink by accident and had to clean it with bleach because that was all I had

I’m so scared. I live with so many pets and afab girls.

I knew i wouldn’t like it but I had to start with gel because otherwise my parents were completely against T in general. I’m hoping now that I’ve tried it they’ll let me switch to injections

I’m wondering do I have to wait the whole three months until my next appointment before switching to injections? I go to my family doctor if that’s important info

Has anyone ever switched their form of T in only one month??

Any advice is greatly appreciated
Thank you in advance!!

TL;DR
I want to switch to injections asap, is it possible to do so even though I’m only one month on t-gel. I receive my T prescriptions from my family doctor.

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u/puppyboy7979 — 2 months ago

Did my doctor microdose me? Should I up my pumps?

She prescribed me two bottles of 1% gel, it says each pump provides 1.25 g and she said to use two pumps a day so I believe that means it’s 25mg?

I’m 2 weeks in so far and haven’t noticed anything other than a tiny bit of bottom growth and libido changes. My testosterone was already a bit high pre t (just at the high end of normal female range) so maybe that’s why?

Idk.. I’m wondering if I should just do like 3 or 4 pumps because I’m prescribed two bottles so I have a full extra one (my doctor was really clueless about really anything to do with hrt and thought the bottles would be tiny)

Or if it’s better to just wait it out until my 3 month check up?

u/puppyboy7979 — 2 months ago

First time wearing a skirt in about 6 years! Feat. My dog lol :)

I haven’t felt like wearing a skirt because of getting misgendered, but I realize I get misgendered dressing masc too so why not just wear my skirt and dress how I want?? I love skirts so much they used to give me so much joy TwT

I wore it to the movies with my boyfriend!! I was nervous he wouldn’t like it but he did! Yayy :3

And my dog was very supportive lol, I think she might need a skirt too.

u/puppyboy7979 — 3 months ago

Tips for not gaining weight on T??

Hi! 19ftm here!

My mom made me worry that the second I start testosterone I’ll get extremely fat

I know this isn’t true but as someone who struggles with eating and weight stuff i can’t get her words out of my head now

I know water weight and bloating will get worse especially in the face until a few months-years

I’m not even really sure what I’m asking here :,) just looking for advice I guess…

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u/puppyboy7979 — 3 months ago
▲ 138 r/Shihtzu+1 crossposts

Hii my Maltese (1 quarter shihtzu) mix Princess will not ever stop barking when I walk away.

I think it’s a bit because of separation anxiety. But if I even just start walking away or go to the kitchen to make myself food or chat with family she starts barking nonstop until I return. It’s ear piercing and headache inducing.

It doesn’t help if I stay in her eyesight, or if I don’t, or if she’s in her crate, lose in the room, or in her playpen. She does it nonstop for over an hour until she falls asleep.

She also does it if she hears a noise, sees my other dog in the distance, sees a shadow. Anything really.

Not even chew toys or delicious food will distract her.

Any help or suggestions would be so appreciated!! If you’ve gone through similar happy ending stories are nice!

Also she’s 7 months old, I got her from a rescue/rehoming situation at 12 weeks. I’m not sure of her background before that.

u/puppyboy7979 — 4 months ago