u/ratty702

Hello 👋

One of my rats, Ronnie, has been a bit odd lately. He seems to be lying down a lot, more sleepy and not as keen to run around as he was a few weeks back. He is eating, drinking, breathing normally. Hasn’t got any of the red stuff from his nose. I picked him up earlier and gave him a little wriggle to see if anything was hurting but he didn’t react anything unusual.

I’m probably just over thinking it all but I’m worried there’s something wrong?

Thank you ☺️

Has anyone found any solutions or ways to help with body dysmorphia?

My bf (20) refuses to go to place x because he was attacked there. Me (18) refuses to go to place y because it just reminds me of him with his previous gfs and it makes me super insecure as I think he’s comparing me to them etc and he also was not honest with me about it. We’ve had loads of arguements as they are both the nearest shopping places unless we are willing to travel 1.5hrs in car to place a. The fact is I only feel comfortable at x and he only feels comfortable at y. He is saying that my reasoning for not going to y is ridiculous and that I should just get over myself and that it’s not comparable to his issues with place x. However it is literally pushing me to breaking point every time I go there. I have been considering numerous amounts of surgery so that I feel prettier and less comparable to this other girl. It is making me feel so uncomfortable and insecure about myself. I also struggle a lot with self harm and mental health etc so I really intensely feel those. I also cannot just ‘escape’ the thought process. I get so stuck in that rut of thinking I’m not good enough and I’m a rebound and being compared etc. I have been so miserable the last three days, struggling with self harm numerous times and body image, refusing to wear anything tight fitting or shorts and T-shirt etc just because we went to place y for an hour three days ago. I am fighting so hard to get out of this rut but I am so lost on what to do. Any help please….?

Help! I am super insecure about my labia. I don’t like how messy it looks and it makes me so insecure. It also causes me pain whilst sitting and riding bikes etc. I have looked at labiaplasty but wondered on people’s views?
Thank you