u/redcurtain27

So, i just graduated this year and now I'm aiming for the 2027 attempt. I had purchased the PW online batch but only done a bit of science and geography. I left the prep midway cuz i had my college examinations. Now i feel like i don't remember anything and feel so lost. Can somebody pls let me know how to pick up the prep from scratch again? Also, do i still have to do NCERTs cuz the online batch teachers said there's no need to refer to any other study material other than the PW study material they provided along with the batch.

Pata hai aaj kya hua

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I tried, i really tried, i just couldn't. After i initiated the breakup, we didn't talk the whole neither he texted or called nor i did. Honestly, i was trying to accept that we had broken up, I couldn't sleep, tried distracting myself, it didn't help.

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The next morning, i.e. today, he called, he genuinely sounded sorry, he cried, i have seen him cry before but never like this. He really didn't wanna breakup and lose what we have, and neither did i, but the situation spoke louder for me.

He repeatedly told me to give him one last chance, that he has understood everything, that he'll do better for us. I tried making him understand how such things don't just change overnight, you can't suddenly change the way you think, your mentality, etc overnight. But he was REALLY adamant that he understood. I just couldn't see him like this and of course i love him too, so deep down, a ray of hope again emerged and now i feel like he really can make this better.

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We're gonna meet tomorrow and talk things out, i haven't really talked to him about things yet, i wanted to do that in person. I did talk to my mom too, she insisted that it's good if he understands but if you feel like he doesn't, dont be in denial. just leave. and that IS what im gonna do.

Ik many of you may be disappointed but it was 6 years that i spent with him, and even if there's one percent chance of us to work out, I'll take it.

me and my bf of 6 years broke up yesterday. it was from my end. He's a super nice person, one of the best that ive ever met and i still love him but i feel like things between us were very incompatible. the problem is, i believe people can have different opinions and still both can be right/wrong. but with him it felt like whenever i had a different opinion to his, he always tried to prove me wrong or tried to convince me how he is right.

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We have an age gap of 5 years. In the beginning of our relationship, he hadn't moved on from his ex, and i still stayed hoping things will get better and they did. I'm a 100% sure he loves me with all he has. he loves me more than i love him. But things just didn't sit right.

As i started attending college, i started building my own identity, i started doing things i like, wearing clothes i like, i like being social but he's very very insecure, still was and once literally forced me to leave an informal club meeting (picinc types) just because he thought it was gonna be formal or maybe it was because of the guys present there, I'm not sure but he was certainly very insecure about my interaction with guys. didn't like me being around guys and vice versa and mind you i haven't had male interaction in last 3 years willingly just so he won't feel insecure. and he still is.

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He also has a problem with the type of clothes i wear. Earlier he used to tell me to cover up properly but i liked to wear what i felt like, what made me feel confident. (crop tops, sleeveless, body hugging lowers, etc. nothing too revealing). i did wear suits and kurtis too when i felt like. but he always wanted me to cover up.

He has also used not so good language with me, never abused but yea it wasn't good fs. I've frequently felt disrespected. And felt like to keep him happy, i have to suppress my emotions if i ever feel hurt or angry because of him. Couldn't share all my opinions just so he doesn't get offended. 

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But. He has said this multiple times, and I've seen it too, he has no one else except me with whom he can talk about his problems, no one who motivates him to work, i was his source of motivation too, he wanted us to have a good life and that was the reason he was working so so hard. 

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After initiating the breakup, I'm feeling SO VERY guilty. idk what to do, i know i can't change him, and such things only get worse with time, even my mother said this, because he called her when we had the fight, in the morning (it was again about clothes). my mom took my side. and she tried explaining me too how things are only gonna get difficult. And i do realise this but i feel so bad for him and guilty man. He apologized so many times, also swore on his father who's no more and meant a lot to him.

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ive never posted like this i just feel so lost and overwhelmed

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pata hai aaj kya hua

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me and my bf of 6 years broke up yesterday. it was from my end. He's a super nice person, one of the best that ive ever met and i still love him but i feel like things between us were very incompatible. the problem is, i believe people can have different opinions and still both can be right/wrong. but with him it felt like whenever i had a different opinion to his, he always tried to prove me wrong or tried to convince me how he is right.

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We have an age gap of 5 years. In the beginning of our relationship, he hadn't moved on from his ex, and i still stayed hoping things will get better and they did. I'm a 100% sure he loves me with all he has. he loves me more than i love him. But things just didn't sit right.

As i started attending college, i started building my own identity, i started doing things i like, wearing clothes i like, i like being social but he's very very insecure, still was and once literally forced me to leave an informal club meeting (picinc types) just because he thought it was gonna be formal or maybe it was because of the guys present there, I'm not sure but he was certainly very insecure about my interaction with guys. didn't like me being around guys and vice versa and mind you i haven't had male interaction in last 3 years willingly just so he won't feel insecure. and he still is.

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He also has a problem with the type of clothes i wear. Earlier he used to tell me to cover up properly but i liked to wear what i felt like, what made me feel confident. (crop tops, sleeveless, body hugging lowers, etc. nothing too revealing). i did wear suits and kurtis too when i felt like. but he always wanted me to cover up.

He has also used not so good language with me, never abused but yea it wasn't good fs. I've frequently felt disrespected. And felt like to keep him happy, i have to suppress my emotions if i ever feel hurt or angry because of him. Couldn't share all my opinions just so he doesn't get offended. 

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But. He has said this multiple times, and I've seen it too, he has no one else except me with whom he can talk about his problems, no one who motivates him to work, i was his source of motivation too, he wanted us to have a good life and that was the reason he was working so so hard. 

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After initiating the breakup, I'm feeling SO VERY guilty. idk what to do, i know i can't change him, and such things only get worse with time, even my mother said this, because he called her when we had the fight, in the morning (it was again about clothes). my mom took my side. and she tried explaining me too how things are only gonna get difficult. And i do realise this but i feel so bad for him and guilty man. He apologized so many times, also swore on his father who's no more and meant a lot to him.

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ive never posted like this i just feel so lost and overwhelmed

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me and my bf of 6 years broke up yesterday. it was from my end. He's a super nice person, one of the best that ive ever met and i still love him but i feel like things between us were very incompatible. we think the opposite almost always. now the problem here is, i believe people can have different opinions and still both can be right/wrong. but with him it felt like whenever i had a different opinion to his, he always tried to prove me wrong or tried to convince me how he is right. We have an age gap of 5 years. In the beginning of our relationship, he hadn't moved on from his ex, he even used to compare me with her and told me how she was better in emotional sense. and i still stayed hoping things will get better and they did. I'm a 100% sure he loves me with all he has. He loves me more than he loves himself and i also felt like in our relationship he loves me more than i love him. But things just didn't sit right. As i got admission in college, i started building my own identity, i started doing things i like, started wearing clothes i like, i like being social but he's very very insecure, still was and once literally forced me to leave an informal club meeting (picinc types) just because he thought it was gonna be formal or maybe it was because of the guys present there, I'm not sure but he was certainly very insecure about my interaction with guys. didn't like me being around guys and vice versa and mind you i haven't had male interaction in last 3 years willingly just so he won't feel insecure. and he still is. He also has a problem with the type of clothes i wear. Earlier he used to tell me to cover up properly but i liked to wear what i felt like, what made me feel confident. (crop tops, sleeveless, body hugging lowers, etc. nothing too revealing). i did wear suits and kurtis too when i felt like. but he always wanted me to cover up. He has also used not so good language with me, never abused but yea it wasn't good fs. I've frequently felt disrespected. And felt like to keep him happy, i have to suppress my emotions if i ever feel hurt or angry because of him. Couldn't share all my opinions just so he doesn't get offended.

But. He has said this multiple times, and I've seen it too, he has no one else except me with whom he can talk about his problems, no one who motivates him to work, i was his source of motivation too, he wanted us to have a good life and that was the reason he was working so so hard.

After initiating the breakup, I'm feeling SO VERY guilty. idk what to do, i know i can't change him, and such things only get worse with time, even my mother said this, because he called her when we had the fight, in the morning (it was again about clothes). my mom took my side. and she tried explaining me too how things are only gonna get difficult. And i do realise this but i feel so bad for him and guilty man. He apologized so many times, also swore on his father who's no more and meant a lot to him.

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TLDR: i broke up with my boyfriend of 6 years even though I still love him because, despite him being a genuinely caring person who loves me deeply, I felt increasingly incompatible with him. He often tried to prove me wrong whenever we disagreed, was very insecure about my interactions with other men, disliked many of my clothing choices, and frequently made me feel like I had to suppress my opinions, emotions, and parts of my identity to keep the peace. As I grew more independent in college and started building my own identity, these issues became harder to ignore. Although he has apologized many times and depends on me emotionally, I realized I cannot change him and that these patterns would likely become more difficult over time. Now I feel extremely guilty because I know he loves me wholeheartedly and is hurting, but I also know that staying in the relationship meant continuing to sacrifice important parts of myself.

(took help of ai for this)