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this is serious...u cant generalise youth as cockroach parasite who raises voice agnst system later u clarified its for that...but its like saying somebody cockroach thn say its not dor him...
I was jst feeling like why i dnt hv family...why nobody....is there like who feels like family n all....
I was feeling little bad...and also thought like about uncertainty of life...what if .. kind of situation
But i realise if you dont hv anybody to take care of you...you are the one to take care of yourself as much as possible....
What about uncertainty and issues you can't eliminate them you can just try your best to improve your present....
Because when we r alone mind usually overthink alot unnecessarily...
Instead of worrying thinking...wakin up... doing excercise.. improving life.... enjoying process is important....work on purpose some meaningful purpose....take shower ... Go to groceries if there r sm problem... solve it instead about worrying if not thn... enjoy moment..
I hv not seen single politician till now who genuinely talks about real things and think critically...they often talks agenda based on population dynamics.... repeated things....that worked before them to gain power... nothing else ..
And judges ...if it so ..then why lot of cases are pending....why thr interpretation are not that aligned with constitution principles...which ensure justice, equality etc ....process is slow ..u can see something arbitrary...u should fix it ...so goverment ll not dare to pass anything unlawful... Govermentkeep doing this....passing arbitrary law....ur role is to prevent injustice not only solve cases...
In my experience and pov i realised they nvr change...thy try to control u in anyway...nvr trust them...thr goal is jst to control if u r with them thy enjoy that feeling...it givs thm confidence.... feeling of being superior....
They cant change because thy dont want to its from thr own rooted psychology... arguments with them is useless...more u argue more they ll find someone to mk u under control...u ll not even realise how smoothly thy ll inflence u....then you will suffer...
I observed few things in this subreddit i thought to share my opinion with you..
Being a guy...i understand men feels lonely sometimes some people are going through family issues... responsibility..and lot of things so its understandable that you need someone...and even for girls too..or mayb sometims with more superficial intend...
But here is truth ...if you will dm girls because you want someone...or maybe different reasons without right intend...and being superficial thn it can degrade your self respect and your image....and you will end up being more frustrated and lonely and other person will also get affected by that....and if you have more superficial intend thn its even more harmful...for girls who seeks men in wrong place you will end up with lot of dms but it ll not solve your problem...ends up more lonely....
For men and women... Enjoy ur own self accept yourself...first...dont seek people solely.who is gonna end ur loneliness and change your life ..... because thts not true..if u ll do that then other person can sense it and will not talk....or once you will get tht temprory relief it reduces value of other person u may end up in ghosting... because of ur intend...
Dont seek relationship or people or connection because you want happiness...seek it when you are happy and you want someone who have similar goals interest you want companionship which benefits mutually and helps in real growth and care, understanding........
1.Dont compare yourself with others or feel bad seeing couples maybe they are facing difficult times... Conflicts...etc...
2.Focus on things that brings you natural joy and happiness...
3.Dont think unecessary..u should know what are psychological fears..how they are restricting you for no reasons for doing things wholesome for you
4.Be single not because of psychological fears and perception you should have right reason based on fact so your brain ll not resist you instead it ll support you...
5.Be ambitious about your goal...you should be clear whats your interest and whats your goal so you can work on it and create some value...