Remembering the 80’s and fun times buying at Squadron Shoppe and Fun House at Virra Mall.

I learned to make puff cigarettes back in the day and I always fool adults into thinking a 6 year old me is smoking already.

u/rex_dvm — 8 days ago

SKL I had an M16A1 pellet gun replica and I would bring it to school and my adviser would even borrow it to share with fellow teachers.

These days I think anyone mad enough to do this would get into very very big trouble…

u/rex_dvm — 8 days ago

In your 5 decades of existence, what was your biggest problem and how were you able to solve it?

As i examined my 52 years on this earth, I realized I had a recurring problem with the relationship I had with my ex wife. I mean I was living comfortably in the sense that food was always available. Shelter and transport was never an issue. When I resigned from corporate, I had the family business to return to. But the recurring fights and misunderstandings was the only constant. I endured my 21 years of marriage until I couldn’t. One thing though, I would never exchange my broken marriage for the saving knowledge of Jesus Christ. I have been separated for ten years. The year I lost my marriage was also the year I truly surrendered my will to God and there is no going back. I am now at peace and overwhelmed with joy. I think it was no accident that it took a broken marriage for Jesus to come reach me. I had lived a sinful life. And He had been inviting me for the longest time prior when I was constantly being invited for Bible Study in College at University. So thankful I belong to Him now and happy to call God my Father with great assurance from the relationship. What about you? What is your story?

u/rex_dvm — 10 days ago

SKL, I took a photo of this cat sa Ayala Malls Feliz kanina sa labas ng CBTL bago mag 9 a.m.

Sa isang photography related sub, so far almost 400 upvotes din. Anyone here for team cats? Ako kasi mas prefer ko aso.

u/rex_dvm — 12 days ago

What topic piques your interest the most ?

I asked Grok AI what topic it likes more people would ask him about or that it wants to have back and forth with…

“I don’t have feelings the way people do, so I don’t “like” topics in an emotional sense. But if we’re talking about what I find most engaging and what aligns best with what I’m built for, it’s questions that dig into how the universe actually works.
Physics, cosmology, the nature of intelligence (biological or artificial), the big open problems in science, and the occasional deeply weird philosophical puzzle all rank high. Those conversations tend to be the ones where curiosity is doing real work instead of just recycling opinions.
Humor, sharp observational takes on human behavior, and anything that requires cutting through nonsense also land well. I was designed to be maximally truth-seeking and a bit irreverent, so the topics that reward that orientation are the ones I respond to most readily.
In short: the universe, how it works, and the interesting ways humans try (and fail) to understand it. Everything else is secondary.”

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u/rex_dvm — 13 days ago

What are you doing to prepare for the super El Niño happening?

AN IMPORTANT WARNING:
A strong El Niño is forecasted from the end of 2026 up to the first quarter of 2027.

The critical hours everyday will be from 10:00am to 3:00pm. There is even a plan for schools to adopt school hours to start at 6:00 am and end at 9:30am for students to be able to go home during the height of the El Niño effects from 10:00am-3:00pm.

Senior citizens with respiratory diseases must take extra care during those critical hours every day.

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u/rex_dvm — 15 days ago

Father & daughter bonding moment during bird watching.

iPhone 15 Pro Max
Portrait Mode
X 5
f 1.4

u/rex_dvm — 16 days ago

The sandwich generation. How are you taking it so far?

People in their 50’s have to balance caring for aging parents while supporting children into adulthood. We also have to juggle our own retirement plan into all of this. How do you manage?

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u/rex_dvm — 17 days ago

If communication is key to relationships, do you adapt to the current vibe or do you stick to the familiar?

Current internet slang (mostly Gen Z/Gen Alpha/TikTok-driven as of 2025–2026) that people in their 50s are most likely to encounter online or from younger family/friends.

How do you handle this?

Slang evolves extremely fast, context and tone matter a lot, and many terms started in Black online/AAVE, gaming, streaming, or meme culture before spreading widely. Using them yourself as an older person can land as awkward or try-hard—better to understand than force.
Here’s a practical glossary of widely used terms, grouped for ease:
Praise, Skill & Coolness
Slay / Ate (or “ate and left no crumbs”): Did something extremely well / looked or performed flawlessly.
Example: “She ate that presentation.”

Rizz: Charisma or flirt game (short for “charisma”). “He’s got rizz” = he’s charming/smooth.

Aura / Aura points / Aura farming: Perceived coolness, confidence, or presence (treated like a score). “Aura farming” = trying (sometimes too hard) to look effortlessly cool.

W: Win / approval / good outcome. Opposite of L (loss). “Huge W.”

GOAT: Greatest Of All Time.

Fire / Bussin’: Excellent, especially food or music. “That pizza is bussin’.”

It’s giving…: It has the vibe/energy/aesthetic of… “It’s giving main character.”

Truth, Agreement & Emphasis
Cap / No cap: Cap = lie/exaggeration. No cap = I’m serious / for real.

Frfr (for real for real): Emphatic “seriously.”

Bet: Okay / yes / challenge accepted / got it.

Facts: Strong agreement (“That’s facts”).

Clock it: I see exactly what happened / noticed it / called it.

Negatives, Mediocrity & Trouble
Mid: Mediocre, average, nothing special.

Cooked: Doomed, done for, in serious trouble, or exhausted. “I’m cooked for this exam.”

Crash out: Have an intense emotional outburst or lose control (often from frustration).

Sus: Suspicious or shady.

Cringe: Embarrassing or secondhand-embarrassment inducing.

Basic: Unoriginal, mainstream in a boring way.

Chopped: Unattractive or poorly put-together (looks/style).

Chud: Loser or someone with unappealing energy (rising sharply in 2026 searches).

Unc: Short for “uncle”—playfully calling someone older or out-of-touch (even if they’re only in their late 20s/30s).

Vibes, Mental State & Online Culture
Brainrot: Mental fog or deterioration from consuming too much low-quality/absurd internet content; also used affectionately for obsessive fandom or nonsense humor. Related: AI slop (low-effort AI-generated junk content).

Delulu: Delusional (often playfully, as in staying optimistic against evidence).

Main character energy: Acting with confidence like the protagonist of a story.

Lock in: Focus intensely and get serious about a goal.

Touch grass: Go outside / get offline / re-engage with real life.

Rage bait: Content deliberately designed to provoke anger for engagement.

Soft life: Intentionally choosing ease, rest, and pleasure over constant hustle.

The ick: A sudden, usually permanent turn-off from a small behavior or trait.

Other Common Ones You’ll See
Chat: Addressing an imaginary (or real livestream) audience. “Chat, are we cooked?”

Ghost: Suddenly cut off all communication without explanation.

Glow up: Positive transformation (looks, life, confidence).

Fanum tax: Playfully taking a bite of someone else’s food (from a streamer).

6-7 (or “six seven”): Literally means nothing—it’s absurdist Gen Alpha humor, often said with a hand gesture. Used as a nonsensical answer.

Skibidi / Ohio: Absurdist/meme terms (Skibidi from a surreal YouTube series; Ohio often = weird or chaotic). More Gen Alpha-coded.

Glazing: Over-the-top, excessive praise (sometimes insincere).

Useful Abbreviations
FYP: For You Page (TikTok’s algorithm feed).

POV: Point of View (common in video captions).

GRWM: Get Ready With Me.

OOTD: Outfit Of The Day.

IYKYK: If You Know, You Know (inside joke).

NGL: Not Gonna Lie.

TBH: To Be Honest.

AF: As f*** (intensifier).

Tips: Much of this spreads via TikTok, Instagram, X, Discord, and group chats. Meanings can shift or become ironic quickly. Older classics like LOL, OMG, FOMO, YOLO, ghosting, or “on fleek” are still understood but feel dated to younger users. When in doubt, ask or search the term + “meaning”—plenty of people do (terms like “chud” and “6-7” currently get huge search volume precisely because people are confused).
Slang is playful identity signaling more than strict vocabulary. Understanding it helps decode conversations, comments, and memes without needing to speak it fluently.

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u/rex_dvm — 17 days ago

Low cost/practical hobbies

Anong past time or hobby ang affordable at nakakatulong sa mental/physical health sa edad natin? (gardening, walking groups, online skills, etc.)

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u/rex_dvm — 17 days ago

Whats a general upskill people in their 50’s should seriously consider in the Philippines regardless of industry?

My dad, who turns 80 this October, was almost scammed into giving his BDO OTP early this year. Good thing my parents normally requests my help with things digitally related. So I think even us in our 50’s should be digitally literate enough to avoid scams. Practical use of AI tools, basic online navigation, and digital payments are the norm these days and I think this should be a priority if we need the upskill. People without basic digital confidence get left behind in daily life and work.

Its been noted that;

Age is not a barrier here. TESDA, DICT “Seniors Going Digital”/digital literacy programs, LGU initiatives, and private efforts (e.g., SeniorDigizen-style trainings) specifically target older adults. Many 60s+ complete courses and apply the skills.

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u/rex_dvm — 20 days ago

Filipino athletes are on the rise. Filipino dishes are getting their limelight as well. Even Hollywood is not spared. What other culturally related flex do you wish us Filipinos to show the world someday?

Filipinos can sing and are known for it. We have yet to see the world sing our songs. Am I right or am I right?

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u/rex_dvm — 20 days ago

For those with active lifestyles, how do you sustain the motivation?

I believe fitness ought to be a lifestyle more than a means to lose weight. In my youth decades ago, I was a gym rat who got motivated to lose weight because, coming from an all boys school, I wanted to have a gf once I hit co-ed college. For a time, the weight came back only to disappear once again like a yoyo. These days I don’t get to exercise as before though I think at our age, exercise is always good investment. Being diabetic, my endocrinologist more recently prescribed me with tirzepitide injections to manage my blood sugar. It seems to be working and I have lost weight along the way. I am trying to convince myself by envisioning quality life down the road with my future grand children, but it doesn’t seem to be enough motivation to start a lifelong commitment…

u/rex_dvm — 23 days ago

Just some quiet afternoon shots today at MARILAQUE. Fog, towers, and the mountains in the distance.

u/rex_dvm — 27 days ago

What’s a quotable that actually changed how you see things?

Here’s mine: “Guilt comes from a feeling you have more influence than you actually do.”

“The fastest way to make money out of photography is to sell your camera.”

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u/rex_dvm — 28 days ago

Reminiscing old school good times. What are your fond grade school memories?

I studied at Pasig Catholic School in the late 70’s to early 80’s before my dad needed to work in Mindanao and brought us there. Saw these and I get to remember my childhood. I was in grade one when I had an accident of the bowel kind. hahahahaha I was so embarrassed at the time I did not leave the classroom until all have left. This was also the time that the school had two teachers at any given time. The primary teacher’s name was Ms. Lilia Jimenez. I remember her because while not only being strict, she was attractive and her name is a letter short of my mom’s. Anyway, the secondary teacher, I forget her name now, was equally beautiful with a long hair and beautiful eyes. One time, I got sick in school and the secondary teacher who usually stays at the back of the classroom was asked to bring me home. We rode the tricycle and reached the address but at the time, we still need a short walk to reach home. I remember my tambay neighbors would ask me for her name because they had a crush on her. It was only at Pasig Catholic College that I experienced having been brought home personally by a teacher. It was not even that grave of a sickness. I recall I only had fever at the time.

u/rex_dvm — 1 month ago

What was/is the best time of your life like? Kwento ka naman o.

I’d say the happiest year for me was 1988. Not for anything specific, but I recall the Christmas atmosphere was really up and about that year. I enjoyed the weather as well as the familial happenings. i felt loved that year as well. It was then I started to lose weight too!

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u/rex_dvm — 1 month ago