r/ShareKoLang

So during internship back in college days (8 yrs ago) dun ako sa may girl scouts nag ojt and naghandled ng mga paperworks like lists of names of girls scouts, and I encountered this name which is "Beautiful Life" hahaha. Wala naalala ko lang and hanggang ngayon di ko parin malimutan like kinda unusual and very memorable name kasi haha so minsan naiisip ko, kamusta na kaya si Beautiful Life, ano kaya nickname niya or tawag sa kanya mostly ahah

finding yourself can be greater. I just noticed that there are so many people here looking for love and I'm not judging them. If any, gulat ako to learn that reddit can be an avenue for that. I'm a newbie here and as I've said in one of my comments sa r/trentahin I came to reddit for research. There are so many things to explore and what I love the most is how you can express yourself without the need to filter pero while I genuinely wish everyone to find their person here, sana we can also find new friends, like minded people who can journey with you regardless kung nasaang phase ka ng buhay mo. Getting into a relationship na feeling incomplete ka pa sa sarili mo is a recipe for disaster because it creates a yearning that can end very badly.

If I become one those reddit love stories, great pero kung wala sya dito, ok lang din. I just want to enjoy this and meet like minded people who can also be my real life friends. Like minded people na hindi lang ung puro lovelife ang center ng universe kundi people who wants to better themselves by taking it to the next level - goal oriented na actively nagiisip and nagi-take action sa kung ano pa ba ung pwedeng gawin para mas masaya at fulfilling ang buhay habang wala pa ung "the one" mo/natin. I'm in my 30s and trentahin people are damn pagod na with shadows and excuses. Reddit bffs can also be a great thing too, sobrang bonus na lang talaga yung reddit love story.

I told my boyfriend I just wanted to stay in bed and sleep all day, so he surprised me by dropping off coffee and the KIKO Milano gloss at my condo. Since it was raining, he stayed and we spent the day just relaxing together. Nothing fancy🥺just coffee, rain, and each other’s company. Somehow, those are the moments that mean the most. 🥹🤍

wag muna kayo mag juge okay bata pa kami neto elem dats ahahha nagaaral ako sa isang private school sa Bulacan..so mga madre namamahala ditto..may kakalase ako na itago natin sa name na Czarina M.

naalala ko lagi pag nakikta ko ung mga color pencils nya talagang ung mata ko ayy parang naamaze ahahah …48 PCS ata un nafaber castle saka ung mga box ng Crayola ung as in marami ha so tatabi ako sa kanya nun sabi ko waaw Czarina akin nalang yaan sige naa ..binibigay naman nya with consent ahhaha pero kita ko na ayaw nya .. paguiwi nagguilty ako pero masaya ako alam mo un? As a bata na walang pambili ng ganun..kahit private school ako kapos kami ha …tas un as I grew older dala ko un at sorry Czarina hahah di ko alam kung mababasa mo to..im working now and nabibili ko na lahat ng gusto ko … sana okay ka..asa werk ako ngayon ewan random thoughts lang …

 

As someone in my mid 20s, naisipan ko magtry ng Anlene hahaha ang sarap pala. Madalas milk na iniinom ko over 3in1 coffee or other drinks. Most of the time nung night shift pa ko, lagi ako kape ng kape, ngayon milk na lang talaga. At least good for da bones diba wahahaha

Ganto pala feeling pag papuntang trenta na, dami na naiiba compared sa nung medyo bata pa ko 😭

A series of consequences led to this idolization of a basketball player. There’s actually too many factors to even count!

Now he’s treated as some national hero that sacrificed everything for the country. In reality, he was a victim of an initiation that the other players may have gone through in the past and got really unlucky. If he didn’t die, he’s just gonna continue his career and fade into obscurity one day.

What should be focused more are the ones who had the authority to stop this tradition, and to shed light on initiation/hazing culture in the Philippines. All we have no is an idolization of a dead man most people didn’t even know until a few weeks ago.

So I had dinner with my friend in Makati last night, when I was going home I checked my wallet if I still have coins for commute like mrt and jeep, I saw some so I thought that would be enough.Ff, when I got on the jeep when I was about to pay I noticed that it wasn't enough HAHAHAHAHA I didn't have a problem cuz like there is no cash-out or withdrawal facility in the area. Just then someone walked up to me, so I asked her if she had gcash or maya or other ewallet, I just wanted to cash out for transpo. She said she didn't have any, instead she offered to pay it for me, I said "no, I have coins here but not enough" but she insisted. Thank you so much indeed, if you're reading this, may life treat you well as payment for the kindness you did not just for me but for the old man besides you, godbless! And yes, I realized that even though the world is cruel, there are still people with soft hearts. I also learned a lesson not to be a cashless type of person as if you are proving something to the world😅

Accompanied my Papa today for his pre-op consultation sa hospital. Before seeing the doctor, gutom na kami so lunch muna. He kept insisting na bigyan ako ng pera pambili sa Starbucks. Tapos pauwi, I booked him a Grab while ako commute lang. Ayun, inaabutan na naman ako ng pamasahe.

Nakakatawa lang na hanggang ngayon, ang tingin pa rin niya sakin eh yung batang nangungupit sa wallet niya kapag lasing siya 🤣🤣

I'm already in my 30s, have a decent-paying job, and even have my own little family. Pero sa mata ni Papa, ako yung baby girl niya na umiiyak tuwing papasok na siya sa work.

Syempre ako na nagbayad ng lahat today as a good anak. Pero umuwi pa rin na may bitbit na Jollibee. Pasalubong sa apo daw but may kasamang Jolly Hotdog kasi alam niyang favorite ko. 🥹

Nakakaiyak lang tignan si Papa kanina, he's old and at his 70's. Parang anytime, possible na kunin na ni Lord. Hindi pa ako ready. 🥲

Please include my Papa in your prayers. Hoping for a successful operation and a smooth recovery. 🙏❤️

I'm genuinely laughing hard as fuck kasi uminom kami ng pinsan ko for the first time and for context, hindi pantay mata ko, yung isa almond shaped, yung isa singkit kasi malabo, 450+ ang grade 😭

Naka ubos kami ng isang bote ng Soju and what the hell mane, napansin ko, pantay na sya nung nag pi-pic ako?! HAHAHAHAHAHHA

Di ako nalasing, pumantay lang mata ko. Is this a good excuse to drink alcohol everyday? XD

Mine's listening to Taylor Swift again. 🩷🫶

Seryoso!! Feel ko same concept. Kasi feel ko ang vulnerable and naive ko pag nakikinig ako kay Mareng Taylor. Pero alam mo yun? Pwede naman palang i-enjoy lang si yung music niya, no need na maging reflection ng pagkatao ko. Just... Pure femininity ✨

Also... Using emojis. Wow. Hahaha

Gano ba kalaki yung chance na makapag meet ka ng same birthday as you?

We were born on november 22 and I share the same birthday with my gay friend,

Then may katulong kami ngayun who also was born the exact day though not exact year as well as yung isa pang tauhan namin nalaman lang din namin na same din ng birthday!!

So apat kami that share the same birthday!

Likeee na mimindblown ako what in astrological thing is happening?? Hahahha

Ive always been more into R&B, OPM, jazz, and mga sikat na artists ngayon, kaya now ko lang talaga naexplore tong side na to. Grabeee, I’ve been missing out big time!! To the person who made solid song recos, thank you!! You just unlocked a whole new genre for me 😭🫶✨

BRB, about to make these songs my entire personality for the next few weeks haha

My friends were sharing their childhood milestones. One of my friend's most memorable experiences in her childhood was to be a girl scout. I, on the other hand, never got the chance to experience it because I had been to a private school full of privileged/rich students that does not offer that kind of activity because my mother never wanted me to experience what she had to go through in a public school as a way to 'insulate' me from systematic challenges, overcrowding, or lack of resources.

Many people who were products of public/semi-private schools enjoyed it and fostered a sense of leadership, community, adventure, and personal growth. I have this feeling of a missed childhood milestone. If I were going back to the past, I wish I had transferred to a different school. Instead, my alma mater let me experience an off-campus camping which is also a fun activity throughout my elementary and junior high school life.

At the start of 2026, I stopped subscribing to Spotify Premium, and other streaming platforms (Netflix, Disney+, HBO, etc.).

Fast forward to 6 months and hindi ko namalayan na wala na sila! That's the thing. I didn't notice any difference. When did I start telling myself that I needed to pay for those platforms?

The replacements? Less screentime is replaced by idle time. Like my commute, even flights, I rawdogged most of them. But if I want to listen to music offline, I found a free app. If I wanted to watch a movie, I go to my old ways iykyk.

It's nice to reduce my exposure sa algorithm because I felt like napupudpod yung free will ko kasi di ko na siya masyadong nagagamit. Puro nalang pag-dictate ng big tech what to watch, think, and feel, through these platforms.

I'm still on IG, Reddit, and Youtube though. Maybe next year may ma-evict nadin sa kanila.

Also me: Oh eto medal!

35M na may circle of friends na halod tumanda kami ng same age.

i will try to make this short.

4 kami magkaka bata and were very close until now.

so i thought.

ung ibang ka work ko ay extended friends ng 2 sa 4 kong kababata. we work sa IT pero mag kakaibang company.

etong si boy 1 kilala nya ibang ka work ko dahil sa college.

boy 2 ay dahil nag sideline sa kanila as Desktop support.

so.

ang nag kwento saken ay ang mga ka office kong nka inuman c boy 1 and 2, kung paano cla nag kita dko na alam.

pero wala ako duon.

so nuong after ng inuman the next day sa office nag ask saken ung isa kong ka office ay kilala mo pala si boy1 and boy2 sabi ko oo mga kababata ko cla.

tropa mga un close friends ko sabi ko.

tumawa cya, sabi ko why?

officemate : gaano kayo ka close?

me: as in ka babata since elem why?

officemate: pre anim kami dun, ikaw ang gnawang pulutan ng dalawang un..

me: ahh mga kalokohan lang pnag ssabi nun... gnon tlga

officemate: di pre.. hindi.. paninira.. baka magbago tingin mo sa kanila...

wait naten c mike..

so si mike ay may ibang ksama duon na nag sabi rin na totoo nga at d rin ako naniwala..

pero ung isa nirecord sa phone as voice recordng.

duon ko narinig ung boses ni boy 1 ranting about things i have na d ko daw deserve keshoo undergrad daw ako at cya may diploma pero hirap mag hanap ng work na stable..

mga bagay na nabibili ko, at tipong ung mag tulong ko sa computer ng pinsan nya na hindi nya naayos ako umayos ng walang bayad eh minasama nya as pasikat.

nka bili ako ng motor at kotse.

habang cya ay until now walang pundar.

c boy2 rant nya saken?

about not being there financially.

boy 2 lima anak at maski same kami halos ng field e kapos lagi.

Lima anak na kine claim na na ninong ako lahat.. na nuong binyagan NEVER ako inimbita pero ino obliga akong mag bigay ng pamasko.

why hes ranting? cguro pra sa mga araw na akala nya ako ang backup wallet nya.

narinig ko lahat un at ngulat ako na akala ko ok sila sa harap..

sobrang plastik pala.

ngaun nag uusap kami pero di nila alam na nalaman ko ung mga sinabi nila.

dinistansyahan ko ang sarili ko sa dalawang un dahil wala akong msamang tinapay sa kanila.

binago lang sila ng inggit.

and that is the adhd unoriginal experience. going to the library/cafe is too overwhelming but staying inside in my pambahay clothes will also not work so of course we take the good things out of both and combine them. easy peasy except its not and im wayyyy wayy behind my review schedule. but what can i do except work with my disability because if not, i'll forever be running behind in life and ashamed for being the way that i am. ok ok bye

oh alsooooo my latest obsession is heated rivalry and i just need that to be included here for no reason at all because mm-hmm it has consumed me and its making it harder ulit to focus on anything that isnt heated rivalry

May ka-situationship ako for 1 month na. Masaya naman noong una, interested sya, ang dami nyang tanong sa akin. Magkasundo din kami sa physical intimacy. We had our first date, may nangyari pero walang penetration. Unfortunately, after that nanlamig. Yung dating daming tanong about me naging good morning, good night nalang. Naging busy sa work. Naging kung anu-ano nalang.

Naging straightforward naman ako una na palang na hindi lang ako naghahanap ng deed and fun but a partner, a long time partner, a boyfriend. Akala ko nagkaintindihan na kami. Pero I confronted him after dahil nanlalamig na but instead of communicating, he ghosted me.

Palagi nalang ganito. Ako nga talaga siguro ang problema. God, nagkamali na naman po ako. Akala ko na naman po yun na yung taong ipinadala mo para sa akin. Mukhang pinangunahan na naman po kita. Sorry po kung pinangunahan na naman kita sa mga desisyon mo sa akin.

Pagod na akong madisappoint, God. Gusto ko lang naman ng totoo, mature at hindi ako hahayaan harapin ng mag-isa ang lahat sa relasyon, God eh. Gusto ko na magmahal at mahalin po. Ang dami ko na pong pagmamahal na naipon, gusto ko na po i-release ito sa iisang tao lang na deserving.

Since i was a kid, tuwing iiwan kami sa grandparents namin para magbakasyon palagi ko nakikita yung Nivea na cream na nasa blue na tin can nasa vanity ng Lola ko. And I always wonder kung bakit meron ganun si Lola, akala ko that time, i was around 6 years old, na lotion yun, so i will always lather myself with that shoulders to toes, then papagalitan kami kasi sayang daw, dapat sa face lang. Eh that time sabi ni Mama samin magkakapatid na we are too young to be putting things on our skin lalo na face aside from lotion.

Fast forward, working na ako and Lola is in her farm house na (2022), not ancestral bc walang magbabantay na malapit, and when we visited her, i would ask her what does she want aside from money hahahaha and she would say "Nivea lang, dawa sadit basta igwa" ~ Nivea lang, kahit maliit basta meron. And that made me emotional kasi since i was kid, i have seen her use this, and not knowing na hindi na pala sya nakakagamit nun kasi wala na syang stock kasi she cannot go out by herself and buy things that she wants. So, immediately i bought her 2 Nivea.

Now, it has been a year since my Lola passed away. And kanina habang nasa mercury drugstore ako, I saw a nivea in the same blue tin can (never change please) and bought one even though i dont use it. It reminds me of her.

we own atleast 600sqm na area sa squatter area, not that so squatter area but tipong kami lang yung may second floor and parking na matino.

mabait kaming kapit bahay tbh, pwede ka umani sa garden namin ng vegetables, all we ask is wag sana maging makalat but this morning may nag bato ng aka plastic na you know sa loob ng bakod namin at sa likod din.

hirap makisama, yung harap namin pinagawa namin para maging daan for public kase isang dipa lang yung original ayun naging parking lang nila.

plus gagawin kang utangan and hindi sila mag babayad sayo.

So inopen up ko sap rtner ko na okay na ako sa posisyon ko now sa werk.. di kataasan ung katungkilan ko okay sige front desk para mas klaro..una sinasabi nya nay un lang daw ba gusto ko okay naba daw ako dun..sabi ko naman oo ..ayoko kasi ng pressure na work at gusto ko balance parin buhay ko ..tinanong nya ako if gusto ko daw ba ibaby nya ako o ipush mag grow sabi ko ibaby hahaha sabi naman nya okay lang daw at naiintindihan nya he even offered na wag na ako mag work at sya  nalang  but di ako pumayag syempre ahahha di naman ako tarantado na gf ahahhah so ayun ang sarap lang sa pakiramdam na secured sa taong mahal ko. Mas Malaki sahod nya pero still I share ha nako.