u/robyromana

so heres the thing. I bought a little cape in Manchester a few years ago when I was working up there. now my job moved me down to Massachusetts and I've been holding onto it because I thought I might move back but thats not happening anymore.

the house is fine but it needs stuff. the roof is like 20 years old, the driveway is cracked, and the basement gets damp when it rains. nothing catastrophic but enough that I know a regular buyer would ask for credits or repairs.

I've been paying the mortgage and utilities for a place I dont even live in for almost a year now. thats like 1500 a month down the drain. my savings are definitely feeling it.

has anyone here sold a house in NH that needed work without fixing it first? how much did you lose compared to listing it? I know I wont get top dollar but I just want to stop bleeding money every month.

any advice from locals would be great. thanks for reading my vent lol.

I’ve built up a decent emergency fund and now trying to decide what to focus on next.

Part of me wants to keep cash savings for security, but I also know inflation just eats away at it over time.

For people in NZ, how did you decide when to start investing seriously?

so here's the deal, my great aunt passed last winter left me her house in philadelphia, she lived there since the 70s and before that it was my grandparents place so this house has been in the family for like ever, lots of memories and all that which makes this whole thing harder tbh

but man this place is in rough shape, like not just old and charming with a few quirks but like actually falling apart, the roof leaks in like three spots now i got buckets in the attic when it rains which is kinda sad, the basement takes on water every time we get a good storm, standing water not just damp, the electric is still the original knob and tube which my friend who knows about this stuff says is a fire hazard waiting to happen

plaster walls are cracking everywhere, some rooms have chunks missing, and theres this musty smell i cannot figure out where its coming from, i tried everything, airing it out, dehumidifiers, nothing works

i called a few contractors to see what it would cost to fix the big stuff, thought maybe i could patch it up and then sell, but the numbers they came back with are insane, like 15 grand for the roof, another 10 or 12 for the electrical, and the basement they said could be 15 to 20 depending on whats going on down there

i work a regular job, i dont have 40 or 50 thousand dollars sitting around, not even close, so now im just stuck, paying taxes and insurance on this place every month while it sits there empty, cant rent it cuz its not safe, cant sell it cuz nobody wants a project

but im nervous, like is that real? do they actually pay what they say or do they lowball you after they come look at it? has anyone here sold an old house in this kind of shape to a cash buyer? how close was their offer to what you thought it was worth

i love this old house for sentimental reasons but i cant afford to love it anymore you know, just trying to figure out the least painful way out, any advice from people who been through this would mean a lot

I’m planning a trip to Lefkada this August and I keep seeing people say that renting a boat is the highlight of the trip. For those of you who have done it, is it actually worth the cost and the effort? We’re mostly looking to reach those hidden beaches like Egremni or maybe explore around Meganisi without being stuck on a massive tour boat with 100 other people.

Also, I’m a bit confused about the rules. Do you need a special license to drive the smaller motorboats, or can you just rent them and go? I’ve never actually captained a boat before, so if anyone has tips on how easy they are to handle for a total beginner, I’d love to hear them!

Hi everyone!

I’m looking for some advice on a gift for my girlfriend’s mother. I want to get her something elegant and thoughtful to show my appreciation for her hospitality, but I’m a bit stuck.

She has very sophisticated, classic taste, think "quiet luxury" vibes. She appreciates high quality but isn't into anything flashy or loud. I’m looking for something that feels personal and high-end without being over the top.

I’ve considered things like a luxury scented candle or a high-quality silk scarf, but I’d love to hear some more unique ideas.

Budget: Around $100–$200, but I'm flexible for the right item.

Vibe: Timeless, understated, and chic.

Lately I’ve been stressed af with work and life in general, and it’s getting hard to stay calm. I feel like my mind is always racing and I can’t really relax, even when I have a moment.

What do you usually do to calm down fast when stress hits hard? And are there any simple habits that actually help in the long run?

I’m open to anything that’s healthy and realistic, especially if it works with a busy schedule

Most people try to take good care of their pets, but I imagine there are subtle signs or habits that get overlooked because they don’t seem serious at first.

What’s something you often see that owners miss, but that can actually make a big difference in a pet’s health over time?