u/rxnyeah

EDIT: sorry for calling it cheese lol I mean discharge. English isn’t my first language

This happened yesterday. I promise I am a very hygienic person and I take that stuff seriously.
Yesterday however, I had to hurry through the shower. Of course I washed my private parts, but clearly not well enough.

In the afternoon/evening, things got hot and heavy. He ended up going down on me. Everything was normal. After 5 minutes, he spread my lips to really get in there lol, and that’s when he stopped and said «you showered today, right?»
I swear my stomach dropped. Idk why but I’m so scared of being perceived as dirty or unhygienic.
Anyways I responded «yes..?»
«You got some cheese»
I wanted to die LMAO.
He said he couldn’t taste anything weird, actually my vulva tasted pretty neutral, as he before have described a slightly acidic taste. And he said it was a small amount, nothing crazy.
At this point I was 100% sure that this was a moodkiller for him.
But no, it actually wasn’t. He wiped it away and insisted on wanting to keep going.
I was still so embarrassed I told him I’m so embarrassed I’m not horny anymore.

I really liked the way he handled it. He didn’t freak out or anything. Just took it completely chill. But still I just couldn’t keep going. We ended up cuddling instead.

I just wanted to share this with someone as I got no one in my life to share this kinda stuff with

I’m 1-2-ish months post-botox. I’ve noticed I feel sick and get stomach pains after just a few sips of alcohol. I have no issues with burping, but since the pain doesn’t go away after burping, I’m thinking it’s something else. Alcohol has been just fine for me up until now. I never drink on an empty stomach btw. The pain and nausea lasts for 2-3 hours

Has anyone else experienced anything similar? I’ve been to the doctor but he didn’t really give me any valuable answers tbh, he spent most of the time typing on the computer lol

I want to give myself some blonde highlights, kinda like «money pieces».
However, I read on the hair dye box that your hair should not be recently washed when you dye it. A website said I should dye my hair 1-2 days after the last wash.

I shower in the mornings, and by the evening my hair is greasy. If I go 1-2 days without washing, it’ll look like I poured oil all over myself. I refuse to exist looking like that.

My question is, how does this work for us? When should I dye my hair? Can I dye it in the evening when it’s greasy? I’m sorry if this is a stupid question I just wanna do this in the best possible way

I’m 23 and my boobs are pretty small. I don’t know my exact bra size but I’d guess A or B cup.

When I was 16 I had significantly bigger breasts, and from then to now they’ve just «deflated». At 16 I was told «if you have large breasts as a teen you’ll also have large breasts as an adult», but that’s obviously not true considering what I currently have.

Am I really doomed to have small breasts? I use birth control and it’s the same one I’ve been using since I was 16. I know it’s not a bad thing to have small boobs, I’m honestly used to it, but I would just love to be able to have a cleavage - so I can use V-necks without only having my sternum on display.

Edit: all creepy dms get deleted. I’m not answering any dms regarding this post. If you got something to say, say it in the comments.

In general, I don’t mind being touched. I love hugs and such. But I CANNOT stand it when someone taps my arm or shoulder to get my attention or tease me. It feels sharp. I can still feel the tap for multiple minutes after, like their finger got imprinted into my skin.
When someone does it, 80% of the time I have an immediate reaction, I display disgust on my face before I even realize I’m doing it.

NOTE: English is not my first language nor do we speak English. I’m sorry if this post is written in a messy way.

My (f23) boyfriend (m27) told me he’s unhappy with how little I talk when we’re with his parents. He’s also said «these are people you *actually* have to speak to», which to me sounds like he’s implying I don’t talk to them ever, which I actually do. Me and his mom have had several conversations 1 on 1. I don’t do as well in group settings, but I’m not mute.
I asked him if he’s been unhappy with my shyness this entire time, he said «yes, and I’ve told you before but you just get upset. I feel like I can’t bring up stuff because you get upset.»

When I get upset I just kind of shut down, meaning I talk less and feel sad. Normally I am a bubbly person so the shift is noticable. But that’s about it. I don’t cry or lash out.
I personally believe that you can’t criticize someone, especially about the way they naturally are, and expect zero reaction. It’s like he expects no reaction from me and for me to just flip a switch and change.

Also, when we are with his parents, my boyfriend is not good at including me in the conversation. He knows I struggle with group settings, he knows I’m in therapy, yet he doesn’t really help me. I’ve asked him to try to include me and help me «enter» the conversation that’s being had, but so far he hasn’t really done so. His family is the kind that sort of expects you to just join in on the conversation, they rarely ask me any questions.

The same happens when we meet his friends. Boyfriend is not really including me in the conversation, and the friends just kind of ignore me. One friend even said to him later «what do you even see in her? She’s not nearly as social as you are», which really stung. I honestly wish he hadn’t told me that the friend said that.

I don’t know what to do. The whole thing makes me feel ashamed of myself.