u/sah731

A few months I talked to this cute guy over instagram, but he didn't really take flirt well and ghosted me. alright I moved on, removed him from my priv acc, only for him to request to follow me again on friday. I allowed cz I wanted to see what he had to say and long story short, he literally lost all social skills he had. the looks are there I think but I mean??? I can't have a full conversation with him without wanting to jump out of the fucking window. it's so uncomfortable and awkward, I seldomly know how to reply without thinking for like a minute or two, the conversations do not flow naturally and I mean he HAS ghosted me. I cannot decypher my feelings for him, and usually songs that relate to my situation help me regulate and feel a little calmer about things. So i'd just like something to give me some peace of mind for the time being so I can figure out what I'm gonna do about this. Pls help me with the songs abt this !! music is a big part of my life and has a big influence on how my brain operates.

I just can't believe how shitty this system is. I've already figured out that they try to put the artists you listen the most to on your queue, but it doesn't make ANY SENSE!!

How am I supposed to listen to the OTHER songs in my huge playlist if all you recommend me is the same artist?
So, picture this. I have a playlist with 1100 songs, and about 80 of those are from this artist I like called Roselia. I used to listen to them often, which made spotify think I LOVED them to DEATH. So they started putting it in my shuffle more often... Which I didn't like, because eventually I stopped wanting to listen to them that much.

But spotify STILL THOUGHT I loved them because I listened to them alot. OF COURSE I LISTEN TO THEM ALOT DIPSHIT THAT'S ALL YOU GIVE ME IN SHUFFLE. LET ME LISTEN TO SOMETHING ELSE

Last month Roselia was my top1 artist and I was SO MAD. I went out of my way to listen to so much BABYMETAL, Cidade Negra and aespa but still was forced through this from spotify.

I removed like, 40-50 Roselia songs from my playlist because I just wanted to listen to something else... And it didnt work. They were still always. there.

And so I got mad and created a separate playlist to save the Roselia songs I had there and removed them from the playlist entirely. I felt free for the first time. I still love Roselia but listening to them that much is torture. I was already getting sick of them and they're one of my favorite artists, spotify FUCK YOU

And now I'm getting the SAME ISSUE with an even BIGGER playlist on an even more RIDICULOUS ratio.

I have a playlist with 1647 songs, and only 46 of those are from aespa. That's a 600:17 ratio. aespa represents 2,7% of the playlist total.

So tell me why in 8 upcoming songs, FOUR are from aespa?
I love aespa to death really but I DONT WANT TO LISTEN TO THEM ALL THE DAMN TIME.

Just give me a truly random shuffle bro, I'm so mad at this. I dont want you to spoonfeed me my favorites, I just want to listen to whatever.

"Hi spotify, can you give me a random combination of songs?"

"Sure! Here's a random combination of songs."

"But there's so much aespa here..."

"Yes! You listen to them all the time!"

"That's because YOU give me them on shuffle all the time."

"Heh, yeah... So, same as always?"

I literally tried everything. I renewed the ip, I did the troubleshooting like over 10 times, I turned it off and on, I uninstalled and reinstalled my drivers, I EVEN DID A FACTORY RESET. And it still only connects when it wants to. I seriosuly don't know what to do, a little help? 😭