u/siddhtiwari

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Dancing spider 🕷 . Reason for this behaviour?

Do anyone knows reason for this behaviour?

u/siddhtiwari — 1 hour ago

My classmate 22F who has rejected me still stares at me 22M . Her stares are long and intense . What's in her mind?

> It all started in my B.Tech second year when we were both in the same class. She was the branch upgrade. The moment I saw her, I knew I liked her. We both went to the library, and suddenly she approached me for a book. To give context, I am from a boys' school and she is from a girl's school. My looks are average to decent. She is also good-looking. We both are studious.

> Suddenly one day, I caught her staring at me. It was not a normal stare but a 30-second one, and when I stared back, she became shy. This happened several times. Then some normal talk happened. She was so disciplined that after the library, she directly went to the girls' hostel. Suddenly, she stopped coming to the library, and semester exams were coming closer. I started panicking and decided to tell her I liked her.

I called her and confessed to her outside the library. My proposal was simple: "Sorry, I have to say this, but I like you." She replied with a smile that I didn't need to apologize for that, and finally denied my proposal with the statement that her parents are strict. I didn't insist, but I asked her to talk about this for a few minutes. Then we discussed it in the garden outside the library.

> I made some mistakes:

  1. I confessed my feelings to others in the boys' hostel, which may have spread to the girls' hostel and finally to her.

  2. I didn't talk much with her before proposing to her.

> Now, my friends have caught her staring at me several times.

> My question is: Does she like me or not?

It's final year end.

On the Scribble Day I wrote on her T-shirt. She didn't write back. It was clearly visible that she was nervous/awkward with my presence.

One thing more. One friend dared me to text her. For a surprise she has not blocked me.

Now, I have caught her staring at me aggressively, it's not a simple stare something more intense but this time I ignored her.

So anyone what's in her mind or have I done something inappropriate?

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u/siddhtiwari — 23 hours ago

My classmate rejected me but still stares at me

> It all started in my B.Tech second year when we were both in the same class. She was the branch upgrade. The moment I saw her, I knew I liked her. We both went to the library, and suddenly she approached me for a book. To give context, I am from a boys' school and she is from a girl's school. My looks are average to decent. She is also good-looking. We both are studious.

> Suddenly one day, I caught her staring at me. It was not a normal stare but a 30-second one, and when I stared back, she became shy. This happened several times. Then some normal talk happened. She was so disciplined that after the library, she directly went to the girls' hostel. Suddenly, she stopped coming to the library, and semester exams were coming closer. I started panicking and decided to tell her I liked her.

I called her and confessed to her outside the library. My proposal was simple: "Sorry, I have to say this, but I like you." She replied with a smile that I didn't need to apologize for that, and finally denied my proposal with the statement that her parents are strict. I didn't insist, but I asked her to talk about this for a few minutes. Then we discussed it in the garden outside the library.

> I made some mistakes:

  1. I confessed my feelings to others in the boys' hostel, which may have spread to the girls' hostel and finally to her.

  2. I didn't talk much with her before proposing to her.

> Now, my friends have caught her staring at me several times.

> My question is: Does she like me or not?

It's final year end.

On the Scribble Day I wrote on her T-shirt. She didn't write back. It was clearly visible that she was nervous/awkward with my presence.

One thing more. One friend dared me to text her. For a surprise she has not blocked me.

Now, I have caught her staring at me aggressively, it's not a simple stare something more intense but this time I ignored her.

So anyone what's in her mind or have I done something wrong?

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u/siddhtiwari — 23 hours ago

I 22M needs some opinion on the girl 22f which I proposed . Why after rejecting she stares at me . Have I done something inappropriate?

There was my classmate in my college which i proposed in 2 nd year. she was a branch upgrade who came into my branch in my class. she was studious and disciplined girl that i fell for. we had limited conversation in 4th semester and one day decided to confess to her.

i should answer why i thought she had liked me. i caught her staring at me for 30 sec. she talked to me nicely and sometimes sit with me in library.

now the confession. I asked her to come outside of library , she came late but did. i simply said sorry to disturb you but i like you for which she simply smiled and no need to say sorry for this. and then rejected me by saying i cant accept this. my parents are very strict in this. i asked her can we talk for this. she said yes. she explained that she is that type of girl and couldnt be in relationship. i accepted her decision and walked away.

now after almost 18 months in our final year of btech our eye contact started again but she was always giving me mock serious look. during our scribble ceremony i write something on her tshirt but she didnt wrote anything on me, it dissapointed me.

For a surprise she has not blocked me . She has blocked all the other batch mates that once tried to propose her. On one of the last days i find her constanstly staring at me for long. it was not normal. like i have done something wrong with her.

Someone clear my mind on this.

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u/siddhtiwari — 24 hours ago

Girl rejected me but still stares at me

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> It all started in my B.Tech second year when we were both in the same class. She was the branch upgrade. The moment I saw her, I knew I liked her. We both went to the library, and suddenly she approached me for a book. To give context, I am from a boys' school and she is from a girls' school. My looks are average to decent. She is also good-looking. We both are studious.

> Suddenly one day, I caught her staring at me. It was not a normal stare but a 30-second one, and when I stared back, she became shy. This happened several times. Then some normal talk happened. She was so disciplined that after the library, she directly went to the girls' hostel. Suddenly, she stopped coming to the library, and semester exams were coming closer. I started panicking and decided to tell her I liked her. I called her and proposed to her outside the library. My proposal was simple: "Sorry, I have to say this, but I like you." She replied with a smile that I didn't need to apologize for that, and finally denied my proposal with the statement that her parents are strict. I didn't insist, but I asked her to talk about this for a few minutes. Then we discussed it in the garden outside the library.

> I made some mistakes: 1) I confessed my feelings to others in the boys' hostel, which may have spread to the girls' hostel and finally to her. 2) I didn't talk much with her before proposing to her.

> Now, my friends have caught her staring at me several times.

> My question is: Does she like me or not?

It's final year end .

On the scribble Day I wrote on her tshirt. She didn't wrote back. It was clearly visible that she was nervous/awkward with my presence.

One thing more. One friend dared me to text her . Fir a suprise she has not blocked me.

Now, I have caught her staring at me aggressively, it's not a simple stare something more intense but this time I ignored her.

So anyone what's in her mind ?

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u/siddhtiwari — 5 days ago