u/sleepyhead_xxx

very niche only for people who drink there water from a fridge filter. ok so after water has been sitting in the fridge for a while like inside the fridge pipe and it’s been a while since you’ve gotten water. you get a cup of water and get the water from fridge dispenser and drink it, it’s nice and crisp and cold because the water was sitting inside the fridge and isn’t just lukewarm cold but inside fridge cold. after you fill the first cup this special temperature water is gone it’s only for the limited amount of water that has been cooled inside the fridge pipe. best water try it one time and you’ll see

sorry this might make no sense and sound insane it’s 3am and i really need to sleep i also have no idea what any of the tags mean i’ve never interacted with this subreddit before i just had to share this

I really wanna buy merch from his new drop, but the sizing for adult hoodies seems really small, i'm not very big (120 pounds 5'6) and the medium doesn't seem like it would fit me. Has anyone who's bought his merch be willing to send a pic of how it fit them (preferably a hoodie) and what size they got, or just share their stats and what size worked for them

I really don't wanna get the wrong size and not be able to wear it :(

i hate sleeping, it’s so boring. Why would i want to sleep when i could be reading, watching or enjoying something else. No joke this is genuinely a problem I have no motivation to sleep, i barely do it. If i feel tired it’s never that bad, the only time my all nighters affect me is when i feel nauseous during the day.

Anybody have any advice to motivate me to sleep, looking for more out of the box stuff, but also all advice is welcome!

so i haven’t labeled myself aroace because im not sure if the love i feel is romantic or platonic. i know i love people, i love my dog, my dad, and my friends. but ill have one friend who im super close too, ill think about them all the time, ill want to spend time with them, and i want to make them happy. is that romantic love? I’ve been in relationships before but i dont know if i loved the person romanticly because i dont know what romantic love is supposed to feel like, i love reading romance and im not sure if ive ever felt like what the book describe. Im just so confused on how its supposed to be different that platonic love and if im supposed to have a noticeable difference. i want love, i want to have someone that values me who im fully comfortable with who i can be with all the time and will support me. im just frustrated and confused. when i was in relationships with people i always had thoughts that i didn’t actually like them or have crushes on them or love them. because how would i even know im in love, i dont think ive ever been in love which is why i think im aroace but how would i know. like could my really intense friendships be love. it’s especially harder since i know i don’t like sexual attraction so i feel like i have even less to go off of.

ik this isn’t really something to give advice to but id just love to hear someone’s thoughts or experiences

I’m coming to terms that i’m aroace, i’ve never felt romantic attraction for someone and and sexual attraction grosses me out. I’ve been questioning a lot if i like people romantically, but ive just never felt it even being in talking stages and situationships and relationships.

The problem is that i love romance, i love the idea of it. I love reading romances and seeing it in my daily life. When i read a romance it makes me giddy and excited, literally giggling and kicking my feet. But ive just genuinely never been in love with anyone. And ive gotten sort of sad that I’ll never have the romantic relationship ive been reading.

I’ve had really close friendships, the kind where i want the friendship to be a platonic relationship, basically i want everything that comes with a relationship without the expectation of romantic and sexual love. This is obviously unreasonable as my friends aren’t aroace. I get so sad knowing that one day they are gonna leave me for someone they love, they won’t live with me and we won’t spend the rest of our time together.

I know what you might be saying, are you sure you don’t feel romantic love,do you know what romantic love even feels like? well idk but this isn’t the advice tag it’s the vent tag. so anyways i’m sad that ill never get a romantic relationship. Sometimes i feel the concept of being aroace is sad (FOR ME PERSONALLY) like being aroace means that you don’t experience romantic and sexual attraction not that you don’t want to experience it. Because I do want to experience it but i just don’t think i can

I’m really looking to be sad about a fic where they don’t have a HEA, like they don’t end up together and it’s just sad. Preferably a longer fic that’s you get super attached too. I read a lot of dramione and i love long fics that end sadly and they have a lot of that. But i really want a jegulus one because i just love the concept and idea of it!