Ladies and Gentlemen, let the hunger games begin
Jk writing this with sincere intentions, I hope I get the same energy back

✨Boring Basics

Height & Weight: 5’8 and 78kg
Location: Lahore, willing to relocate to UK, US, Canada or Aus. I would prefer someone settled abroad.
Accommodation: family owns a house
Education: BDS, dentist
Income Source: working as a dentist currently 
Marital Status: single never engaged never married
Family Details: I have 2 siblings. My mother is a housewife while my father has 2 streams of income.

Religion & Short Details About How Practicing You Are
🌸As a hijabi, I prefer sharing my picture after consistent conversation and mutual seriousness. I also prefer early family involvement (within a month) if things feel aligned

🌸Also we are Sunni and would prefer sunnis. Although I do not believe in sects but just putting it out there for its sake.

🌸 It’s a little hard to describe yourself in a few lines, but I’d say I’m selectively social. I am slightly reserved at first but a proper yapper if you know me 😭 I love playful banter (within boundaries), teasing and mutual respect. I have a sarcastic sense of humour and I really value emotional connection, effort, and thoughtful gestures.

🌸 I’m someone who pays attention to small things. I’ll remember something you said months ago and probably turn it into a gift later without even mentioning it.

🌸 I would also call myself deeply driven and opinionated. Despite valuing family a lot, I still want to achieve the most in all aspects of life. My career gives me a lot of meaning and I plan on continuing it and harnessing my potential.

🌸 I love cats and fully plan on emotionally blackmailing my future husband into adopting one.

🌸 I enjoy movies and over-analysing them afterwards. Definitely one of my comfort hobbies. You will find me cuddled in a blanket in winters with my 20th Lord of The Rings run and there would be no other place I would rather be.

🌸 I love writing. I feel that is one of the most vulnerable and honest ways to express yourself. Bonus points if my husband and I could write eachother letters :)

🌸 I love gaming (The Last of Us is still emotionally damaging. I’m open to discuss how it traumatised an entire generation) I also go to the gym 4–5 times a week. I’d love a partner who also values fitness and discipline. My music taste is quite mixed — The Weeknd, Pink Floyd, Queen, ABBA, CAS, The 1975, Kaavish, Hasan Raheem.

🌸 Religiously, I’m a practicing hijabi and trying to improve consistently. I’m not perfect, but I’m trying to grow. I prefer someone with similar values of modesty, respect, and haya.

✨ What I’m looking for

⭐️Emotional Availability: I value emotional consistency. I do value clarity and communication. Even a simple “I’m busy, I’ll reply later” means a lot to me. I feel most secure when effort and intention are consistent.
More than anything, I want emotional safety. A marriage where both people feel heard, understood, and not judged for being human. I want softness in communication and a sense of calm in the relationship.

⭐️Modesty/Haya: I deeply value haya, respect, and boundaries, especially with the opposite gender. I’d love a partner who is also trying to grow in deen and dunya. I maintain my physical boundaries with men and would respect a partner with a similar mindset when it comes to women.

⭐️Provider Mindset: I prefer a husband who takes financial responsibility as the primary provider. If someone strongly believes in strict 50/50 financial contribution, we may not be aligned.

⭐️Ambitious and Driven: I admire ambition and direction. I’m ambitious myself, and I want a partnership where we both push each other forward instead of holding each other back.

⭐️Teamwork: I also believe marriage should feel like teamwork. If both people are working, I think life should be shared, not split into rigid roles when it comes to chores and managing

Deal breakers
- Consistent anger issues or emotional immaturity
- Ego-driven or dismissive communication
- Smoking, drinking, or lack of boundaries with women
- Open engagement with inappropriate content or lack of haya
- Casual intentions or inconsistency
- Dishonesty or lack of clarity
- Excessive dependence on parents in a way that doesn’t allow space for a spouse
- A complete lack of religious inclination

✨ Other details

Family Setup: I prefer a nuclear family setup because of pardah.

Do you want children? I’m not looking to have children immediately — maybe in the future when I feel emotionally and mentally ready, but not in the first few years. I would want to spend the initial time of my marriage travelling and getting to know my husband fully.

I also believe carrying children and birthing them takes the most toll on the woman’s body both physically and mentally. It should be her decision and left up to her, without any societal pressures.

Also men wanting babies is not the same as them wanting to be a father
If you are someone who would be excited about splitting the parental responsibilities 50/50 only then would I consider having children.
“Children are the woman’s responsibility to rear and raise” is a mindset better left in the 20th century.

Timeline for Marriage: Ideally, I’d like to move toward marriage within 6 months to a year if compatibility feels right.
And lastly, I value sincerity over performance. Please be honest and don’t lie as they tend to come to the surface later. Please reply with a profile of your own if you have made it this far :)

Ladies and Gentlemen, let the hunger games begin
Jk writing this with sincere intentions, I hope I get the same energy back

✨Boring Basics

Height & Weight: 5’8 and 78kg
Location: Lahore, willing to relocate to UK, US, Canada or Aus. I would prefer someone settled abroad because I am giving my foreign dental licensing exams.
Accommodation: family owns a house
Education: BDS, dentist
Income Source: working as a dentist currently 
Marital Status: single never engaged never married
Family Details: I have 2 siblings. My mother is a housewife while my father has 2 streams of income.

Religion & Short Details About How Practicing You Are
🌸As a hijabi, I prefer sharing my picture after consistent conversation and mutual seriousness. I also prefer early family involvement (within a month) if things feel aligned

🌸Also we are Sunni and would prefer sunnis. Although I do not believe in sects but just putting it out there for its sake.

🌸 It’s a little hard to describe yourself in a few lines, but I’d say I’m selectively social. I am slightly reserved at first but a proper yapper if you know me 😭 I love playful banter (within boundaries), teasing and mutual respect. I have a sarcastic sense of humour and I really value emotional connection, effort, and thoughtful gestures.

🌸 I’m someone who pays attention to small things. I’ll remember something you said months ago and probably turn it into a gift later without even mentioning it.

🌸 I would also call myself deeply driven and opinionated. Despite valuing family a lot, I still want to achieve the most in all aspects of life. My career gives me a lot of meaning and I plan on continuing it and harnessing my potential.

🌸 I love cats and fully plan on emotionally blackmailing my future husband into adopting one.

🌸 I enjoy movies and over-analysing them afterwards. Definitely one of my comfort hobbies. You will find me cuddled in a blanket in winters with my 20th Lord of The Rings run and there would be no other place I would rather be.

🌸 I love writing. I feel that is one of the most vulnerable and honest ways to express yourself. Bonus points if my husband and I could write eachother letters :)

🌸 I love gaming (The Last of Us is still emotionally damaging. I’m open to discuss how it traumatised an entire generation) I also go to the gym 4–5 times a week. I’d love a partner who also values fitness and discipline. My music taste is quite mixed — The Weeknd, Pink Floyd, Queen, ABBA, CAS, The 1975, Kaavish, Hasan Raheem.

🌸 Religiously, I’m a practicing hijabi and trying to improve consistently. I’m not perfect, but I’m trying to grow. I prefer someone with similar values of modesty, respect, and haya.

✨ What I’m looking for

⭐️Emotional Availability: I value emotional consistency. I do value clarity and communication. Even a simple “I’m busy, I’ll reply later” means a lot to me. I feel most secure when effort and intention are consistent.
More than anything, I want emotional safety. A marriage where both people feel heard, understood, and not judged for being human. I want softness in communication and a sense of calm in the relationship.

⭐️Modesty/Haya: I deeply value haya, respect, and boundaries, especially with the opposite gender. I’d love a partner who is also trying to grow in deen and dunya. I maintain my physical boundaries with men and would respect a partner with a similar mindset when it comes to women.

⭐️Provider Mindset: I prefer a husband who takes financial responsibility as the primary provider. If someone strongly believes in strict 50/50 financial contribution, we may not be aligned.

⭐️Ambitious and Driven: I admire ambition and direction. I’m ambitious myself, and I want a partnership where we both push each other forward instead of holding each other back.

⭐️Teamwork: I also believe marriage should feel like teamwork. If both people are working, I think life should be shared, not split into rigid roles when it comes to chores and managing

Deal breakers
- Consistent anger issues or emotional immaturity
- Ego-driven or dismissive communication
- Smoking, drinking, or lack of boundaries with women
- Open engagement with inappropriate content or lack of haya
- Casual intentions or inconsistency
- Dishonesty or lack of clarity
- Excessive dependence on parents in a way that doesn’t allow space for a spouse
- A complete lack of religious inclination

✨ Other details

Family Setup: I prefer a nuclear family setup because of pardah.

Do you want children? I’m not looking to have children immediately — maybe in the future when I feel emotionally and mentally ready, but not in the first few years. I would want to spend the initial time of my marriage travelling and getting to know my husband fully.

I also believe carrying children and birthing them takes the most toll on the woman’s body both physically and mentally. It should be her decision and left up to her, without any societal pressures.

Also men wanting babies is not the same as them wanting to be a father
If you are someone who would be excited about splitting the parental responsibilities 50/50 only then would I consider having children.
“Children are the woman’s responsibility to rear and raise” is a mindset better left in the 20th century.

Timeline for Marriage: Ideally, I’d like to move toward marriage within 6 months to a year if compatibility feels right.
And lastly, I value sincerity over performance. Please be honest and don’t lie as they tend to come to the surface later. Please reply with a profile of your own if you have made it this far :)

Ladies and Gentlemen, let the hunger games begin.
Jk writing this with sincere intentions, I hope I get the same energy back

✨Boring Basics

Height & Weight: 5’8 and 78kg
Location: Lahore, willing to relocate to UK, US, Canada or Aus. I would prefer someone settled abroad because I am giving my foreign dental licensing exams.
Accommodation: family owns a house
Education: BDS, dentist
Income Source: working as a dentist currently 
Marital Status: single never engaged never married
Family Details: I have 2 siblings. My mother is a housewife while my father has 2 streams of income.

Religion & Short Details About How Practicing You Are

As a hijabi, I prefer sharing my picture after consistent conversation and mutual seriousness. I also prefer early family involvement (within a month) if things feel aligned
Also we are Sunni and would prefer sunnis. Although I do not believe in sects but just putting it out there for its sake.
I would call myself a practicing Muslim. I strive to pray daily, follow hijab and avoid haram.

Hobbies & Interests

🌸 It’s a little hard to describe yourself in a few lines, but I’d say I’m selectively social. I am slightly reserved at first but a proper yapper if you know me 😭

🌸 I love playful banter (within boundaries), teasing and mutual respect. I have a sarcastic sense of humour and I really value emotional connection, effort, and thoughtful gestures.

🌸 I’m someone who pays attention to small things. I’ll remember something you said months ago and probably turn it into a gift later without even mentioning it.

🌸 I would also call myself deeply driven and opinionated. Despite valuing family a lot, I still want to achieve the most in all aspects of life. My career gives me a lot of meaning and I plan on continuing it and harnessing my potential.

🌸 I love cats and fully plan on emotionally blackmailing my future husband into adopting one.
I enjoy movies and over-analysing them afterwards. Definitely one of my comfort hobbies. You will find me cuddled in a blanket in winters with my 20th Lord of The Rings run and there would be no other place I would rather be.

🌸 I love writing. I feel that is one of the most vulnerable and honest ways to express yourself. Bonus points if my husband and I could write eachother letters :)

🌸 I love gaming (The Last of Us is still emotionally damaging. I’m open to discuss how it traumatised an entire generation) I also go to the gym 4–5 times a week. I’d love a partner who also values fitness and discipline. My music taste is quite mixed — The Weeknd, Pink Floyd, Queen, ABBA, CAS, The 1975, Kaavish, Hasan Raheem.
Religiously, I’m a practicing hijabi and trying to improve consistently. I’m not perfect, but I’m trying to grow. I prefer someone with similar values of modesty, respect, and haya.

✨ What I’m looking for

⭐️Emotional Availability: I value emotional consistency. I do value clarity and communication. Even a simple “I’m busy, I’ll reply later” means a lot to me. I feel most secure when effort and intention are consistent.
More than anything, I want emotional safety. A marriage where both people feel heard, understood, and not judged for being human. I want softness in communication and a sense of calm in the relationship.

⭐️Modesty/Haya: I deeply value haya, respect, and boundaries, especially with the opposite gender. I’d love a partner who is also trying to grow in deen and dunya. I maintain my physical boundaries with men and would respect a partner with a similar mindset when it comes to women.

⭐Provider Mindset: I prefer a husband who takes financial responsibility as the primary provider. If someone strongly believes in a strict 50/50 financial contribution, we may not be aligned. This doesn’t mean I wouldn’t contribute at all. I just want the man to lead and take charge.

⭐️Ambitious And Driven: I admire ambition and direction. I’m ambitious myself, and I want a partnership where we both push each other forward instead of holding each other back.

⭐️Teamwork: I also believe marriage should feel like teamwork. If both people are working, I think life should be shared, not split into rigid roles when it comes to chores and managing

Deal breakers

- Consistent anger issues or emotional immaturity
- Ego-driven or dismissive communication
- Smoking, drinking, or lack of boundaries with women
- Open engagement with inappropriate content or lack of haya
- Casual intentions or inconsistency
- Dishonesty or lack of clarity
- Excessive dependence on parents in a way that doesn’t allow space for a spouse
- A complete lack of religious inclination

✨ Other details

Family Setup: I prefer a nuclear family setup because of pardah.

Do you want children? I’m not looking to have children immediately — maybe in the future when I feel emotionally and mentally ready, but not in the first few years. I would want to spend the initial time of my marriage travelling and getting to know my husband fully.

I also believe carrying children and birthing them takes the most toll on the woman’s body both physically and mentally. It should be her decision and left up to her, without any societal pressures.

Also men wanting babies is not the same as them wanting to be a father
If you are someone who would be excited about splitting the parental responsibilities 50/50 only then would I consider having children.
“Children are the woman’s responsibility to rear and raise” is a mindset better left in the 20th century.

Timeline for Marriage: Ideally, I’d like to move toward marriage within 6 months to a year if compatibility feels right.
And lastly, I value sincerity over performance. Please be honest and don’t lie as they tend to come to the surface later. Please reply with a profile of your own if you have made it this far :)

P.S Before anyone says anything, this wasn’t written with AI 😭 I just love being thorough :)

so i was someone who was quite busy in her late teens and early twenties that i didnt entertain the idea of a relationship and now im finding that almost all the ppl in their 20s have either 1 or 2 exes 😭

theyre either emotionally unavailable or some of them if not most of them fetishise “pure“ women. arent there any sane men who also like focused on themselves but arent complete dweebs either 😭

HOLLLERRRRR ladies PLEASE help a girl out 😭

stats: 5’8 currently weighing 91.6 kg. highest was 102 and lowest was 86 but i keep swinging between 88-90 and i genuinely on my knees want to be 80 in 3 months. I work out 4-5 x a week with PPL split. 50 mins of lifting and 20 mins of incline walking. I am thinking to transition to 4x full body days because i dont feel much of a difference with PPL tho it’s been a month or should I continue for 2 more months?

I genuinely feel like I’m losing my mind with fat loss and plateaus. I’m 24F, currently in the low 90s kg range, lifting consistently, trying to hit protein/fiber goals, tracking calories on My Fitness Pal, walking/incline cardio etc and somehow my body still finds ways to humble me every single week 💀

The thing is I CAN lose weight. I’ve lost weight before. But I feel like my body responds SO dramatically to stress, sodium, carbs, my cycle, literally everything. One higher calorie day and suddenly I look swollen, puffy, inflamed, my arms look bigger, my waist disappears, scale shoots up 2 kg overnight and I start questioning every life decision I’ve ever made 😭

I also feel like a lot of fitness advice is geared towards men or women who naturally stay lean easily. Like whenever I do high volume push/pull splits and train super intensely I genuinely feel bulkier and more exhausted instead of “toned.” I’m starting to think my body does better with moderate training, walking, balanced meals, less cortisol-spiking approaches etc. Have any other women experienced this?? Especially those with hormonal fluctuations/water retention issues??

I would LOVE advice from women who successfully got through the plateau phase without losing their minds. Did you guys focus more on consistency over intensity? Did lowering stress actually help? Did you notice certain foods triggering cravings or “spiral eating” days? I’m trying so hard not to fall into the restrict/binge mindset and build something sustainable this time 🥹