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Advice for navigating life after divorce

I(25F) and my husband(25M) have decided to divorce after being married for 2 1/2 years but together for 4 1/2. We had been working through some issues and going to counseling for a while but decided a divorce is what we feel is best for us. He is no longer an active member as he only believes some Doctrine but doesn't agree with some of the others, and that did have a strain on our already struggling marriage. We have no kids, and we just have tried for so long and the differences built up. We tried therapy and counseling together and individually but I just think this route is what I need. I have prayed on it over and over and asked for advice and just help knowing if this is the right decision. I never felt any guidance or nudge or direct like sign for what might be best decision to make but I feel in my heart this is right for me. But obviously Im facing the fear internally of making a decision Ill regret, or worrying I can never find love in the church again, find someone to want to have kids with me one day, etc. As I'm going through this, I have been praying and reading my scriptures but have been struggling to feel anything or any comfort that I've been praying for. I just want advice and stories of other members who have gone through divorce. How did you navigate? How did you rebuild your life? Is a future with remarriage and the possibility of having kids a thing that I could have? Did you get a chance to get revealed to someone else to spend eternity with? How did you find peace with your decision and comfort in your life?

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u/strugglebunny28 — 6 days ago

Advice for navigating life after divorce

I(25F) and my husband(25M) have decided to divorce after being married for 2 1/2 years but together for 4 1/2. We had been working through some issues and going to counseling for a while but decided a divorce is what we feel is best for us. He is no longer an active member as he only believes some Doctrine but doesn't agree with some of the others, and that did have a strain on our already struggling marriage. We have no kids, and we just have tried for so long and the differences built up. We tried therapy and counseling together and individually but I just think this route is what I need. I have prayed on it over and over and asked for advice and just help knowing if this is the right decision. I never felt any guidance or nudge or direct like sign for what might be best decision to make but I feel in my heart this is right for me. But obviously Im facing the fear internally of making a decision Ill regret, or worrying I can never find love in the church again, find someone to want to have kids with me one day, etc. As I'm going through this, I have been praying and reading my scriptures but have been struggling to feel anything or any comfort that I've been praying for. I just want advice and stories of other members who have gone through divorce. How did you navigate? How did you rebuild your life? Is a future with remarriage and the possibility of having kids a thing that I could have? Did you get a chance to get revealed to someone else to spend eternity with? How did you find peace with your decision and comfort in your life?

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u/strugglebunny28 — 6 days ago

Advice and recommendations

Hey everyone, I(25F) will be getting a Tonsillectomy & Septoplasty in 2 weeks. I've read some horror stories about the recovery and just wanted to get advice and recommendations on what to prepare beforehand and what to do and have ready afterward. Also, any humidifier recommendations since I will be stuck mouth breathing for a week and want to be able to keep everything moist. Lastly, any one wanting to share their post-op successes, results, and any positive stories/experience.

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u/strugglebunny28 — 14 days ago

Manhwa Red Hair Male Lead Recommendations

Looking for any romance mangwa recommendations where the ML has red hair. I never find any like that, and so I made it my goal to find and read some. Even pink hair is fine. Any recommendations please lmk

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u/strugglebunny28 — 18 days ago

Jessi clinging to the fruity pebbels

It's been months and Jessi still uses the fruity pebble thing for content and clout. She posted a video to the 'House Tour' song to show off the JZ Styles booth, and she had a bowl of fruity pebbles she was showing off. Like don't get me wrong, I'm not a Demi fan, but this is so stupid and drawn out. Like please just let it go.

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u/strugglebunny28 — 1 month ago

I'm looking for some recommendations. I've been needing some new webtoons and manhwas to read. Here are some I've read that I enjoyed:

-Cheese in the Trap

-My Beloved Oppressor

-Cry or Better Yet Beg

-One Husband is Enough

-Muse on Fame

-Elegant Aubrey

-Forest of Humans

-My Dear Cold-Blooded King

-For My Derelict Favorite

-Villianess Streamer

-Sirens Lament

-The Ki Sisters

-Go Away Romeo

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u/strugglebunny28 — 2 months ago