some doubts I collected while studying

  1. she is my sister.

她是我的妹妹 or 她是我妹妹 ?

  1. how do I say "fruit"? (shuiguo)水果 or just (guo)果?

  2. difference between (bīng)冰 and (lěng)冷

the pronunciation is written to help me remember when I come back :D

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u/studydebou — 1 day ago

LIE fictional character examples

I'm having a hard time typing myself even though I'm almost 100% sure I'm LIE, but I really wanted to see in practice how the type acts. I know fictional examples aren't perfect but it might be enough to help me out.

I tried looking on PDB but something tells me there's a lot of mistypes there... I'm still getting the hang of it, too many things to memorize, but just considering what I already know, so many characters typed as LIE there came off as Se leading types to me...

I know everybody has a different opinion because even though the theory is the same, people can have different interpretations about the actions of the same character but... how can thomas shelby not be a SLE ? wtf am I missing lol, anyways... I'd like some individual opinions. pls share with me some nice LIE characters! if you read until here, some ESI, SLI, LSI and LII characters are welcome too. tyvm

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u/studydebou — 4 days ago

Chinese songs and movie recommendations!

title! I need to have more practical experience with the language, so give me your favorite musical artists and movies :D series in general (animated too) are also welcome

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u/studydebou — 4 days ago

combination ?

Not a type me post! I just want to see your opinion on my type. if you think there's something else that fits feel free to share your thoughts with me

LIE-Ni ENTP Ne(T) 539 so/sp RCOAI VLFE phlegmatic-sanguine

my only remaining doubt is about 9 fix, which I'll take some time to read another day. I'm considering 1 fix instead. I also relate to both 4 and 6 wings, very balanced.

before anyone comments about "impossible combinations" I don't think those pseudosciences work like that. I will still consider your opinion even if you think that's a thing though, so dw :)

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u/studydebou — 4 days ago

can I be LIE even though I'm so chill ? lol

I know it doesn't work like that though, I think I'm a little confused by the differences between the external behavior of the type and the inner reasoning of it. I'd like to clear up some of my doubts here.

LIE's are usually described as active and restless, but in what sense? my family (all with high Si and Se) seems way more restless than I am. they can't see something messy without tidying it up. if I lived alone I'd probably be screwed. I'm just wondering, isn't every type supposed to seem active when they are performing their dominant function? in what areas of daily life does Te dominants appear active? I'm doubtful rn because even though LIE fits the most to me, I'm very distant from most common behaviors and stereotypes.

besides not being active or obsessed with getting random work to do, I'm actually quite shy. I can speak formally to people I'm not close to, even speak in front of a crowd if my script is clear, but I have a very hard time dealing with situations outside of my control in a social atmosphere. conflict is also something that makes me unstable. I don't know how to be assertive without being aggressive. I'm also very bad at perceiving when people are being mean to me so, since I don't want to seem choleric I just keep being friendly regardless of the situation. that hurts me a lot because I end up holding negative feelings and grudges. This seems to be an important aspect to analyze in socionics right?

My last doubts are, should I take into account what "society" defines as useful or what I find practical when defining Te? Also, how can I better differentiate Ti and Te?

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u/studydebou — 7 days ago

como adotar um pombo

dúvida genuína. pombos são descritos como pragas urbanas que carregam uma quantidade absurda de doenças, mas são animais domesticados que nem gatos e cachorros. digamos que eu goste de um e queira pegá-lo, como deveria fazer isso? se eu pegar o bichin na mão, quais são as chances de eu acabar doente? como veterinários (caso algum veja isso) com qual frequência vcs atendem pombo? estou pensando em pegar um, mas n sei qual é o protocolo de adoção de pombo, quem puder me ajudar, agradeço...

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u/studydebou — 11 days ago

Cursar licenciatura em matemática e estudar pra concurso ao mesmo tempo daria certo?

Pergunta mais voltada pra pessoas que fizeram graduação em matemática ou que tem noção da complexidade do curso. Sou imensamente grata por qualquer conselho que puderem me dar.

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Um contexto melhor pra quem puder me aconselhar:

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Apesar de amar muito a matemática, meu sonho é fazer direito. Muitos dirão que eu estou indecisa mas na verdade estou muito certa disso, não entendo que pensa que só podemos ser "de humanas" ou "de exatas" sendo que nossa mente se adapta pra tudo que nos dedicamos a fazer. Dito isso, talvez eu tenha a chance de estudar direito (unicamente) no próximo ano, então teria que deixar a matemática pra depois... mas não queria desistir. Estou aberta a possibilidades, mas penso que ser defensora pública ou professora de direito serão boas opções pra mim, mas ambos envolvem concursos muito concorridos, então tenho medo de me dedicar muito e ainda assim não conseguir... Pelo que já pesquisei, devo passar de 4 a 10 anos estudando, no mínimo, pra ter uma chance de passar.

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Gostaria de saber se funcionaria pois quero fazer uma licenciatura em matemática no futuro, pois (1) como pessoa autista, creio ser melhor eu ter opções de carreira flexíveis, pois nunca se sabe quando pessoas como nós podem se ferrar e perder os poucos benefícios que temos e (2) gosto muito de matemática e poder ensinar esse conteúdo é uma boa. Professores de matemática são escassos no Brasil, então é um ramo quase seguro. Outro detalhe importante é que eu não iria entrar na matemática "no seco" kkkk, estudarei por conta própria até terminar direito. No momento faço ciência da computação e já fechei algumas matérias de matemática e próximo semestre tem mais :D.

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u/studydebou — 17 days ago

what is your career/job? does it satisfy your needs as an autistic person?

I'm trying to build my career around my personal needs as an autistic person, but I'm scared of picking the wrong choice... I'd really like some advice.

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u/studydebou — 20 days ago

how do you deal with exhaustion from college/work?

I get exhausted from going to college very easily, because the environment itself does not make me much comfortable (too many people, too much noise, lights and nowhere to rest). do you guys have any idea on how to not feel so much drained while going to college or how to get my energy restored quickly when I get comfortable again? :(

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u/studydebou — 26 days ago

can someone tell me if this chinese name is good?

I really liked 宋德祥 because I could keep my favorite surname and make a name that sounds like my nickname in my first language, but I haven't got to ask my teacher if it sounds ok. please give me your opinions! I've just started learning chinese :D

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u/studydebou — 2 months ago

odeio o símbolo de criar e-mail do outlook

minimalismo tosco. o que era pra ser uma canetinha e um papel ser resumido a uma tosquisse dessa me irrita profundamente. sempre que tenho que mandar um e-mail eu consigo sentir meu cortisol subindo.

u/studydebou — 2 months ago

what makes you feel loved and how do you express it?

for me, quality time is top tier, and I really like "parallel play" sort of meetings, with each person doing their own thing but together, sometimes chatting and listening to music. I like to receive acts of service, but don't showcase my love like that too often because I get tired too easily, but I wish I did that more. also, I love making and choosing gifts more than I like receiving them lol

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u/studydebou — 2 months ago