u/tamilnaducmdaa

We decided not to be together romantically and stay as friends, even though we still had feelings. After I moved to another city for my career, things changed. Earlier, he would go out of his way to meet me, but now he feels distant and treats me only like a friend. I accepted that because this was what we agreed, but it still hurts because the effort feels different.

We talk every day and I want him in my life as a friend forever, but I feel like I’m important to him, just not a priority. I have to keep asking to meet, while he makes time for other things. I don’t want to force him, but I miss the person he used to be with me.

Somewhere deep down, I also believed that after everything we shared and all the love I gave, he might eventually choose me and want a future with me. But he didn’t, and it hurts because I feel like he isn’t even trying to keep me in his life that way.

Earlier, meeting me was something he would make time for, but now I have to repeatedly ask him to plan something. Sometimes he says he doesn’t have money or time, but I see him spending time with his friends and focusing on other things. It makes me feel like I am important to him, but not a priority.
Even when I try to plan something, it keeps getting postponed. I feel bad asking him again and again because I don’t want to feel like I’m forcing him to spend time with me. Also im kinda alone with literally zero frnds or the frnds who i have doesn’t hangout much nd all apdidhan irukanga workplace um perusa people meet pandra mathri ila
My family is also planning my marriage by the end of this year, so I feel like I need to prepare myself emotionally and detach from him. But at the same time, I don’t want to lose him because he is someone who means a lot to me.
What hurts me the most is that he used to be the kind of person who felt like he came straight out of a book so caring and thoughtful and now sometimes he talks to me in a way that feels rude or distant. I don’t know how to deal with this change.

A milllion times!!!!!!!!! Why is this happening like omg ! Its so frustrating we live near Kosapet area omg im so furious guys
Powercut during this summers like bro why
What is happening in the TNEB ???? Is your area fine ?

For both minor and emergencies which do you prefer please share your experiences too
We live at officers line vellore
I really wanna know some good vets in vellore
We usually take out pet to vellore pet clinic by far good iguess but it opens only at 6:00pm at evening like that doctor comes only after 6:30pm which is kinda difficult if the dog has some sudden emergency
Also the government vet in here the opd timings are not proper they hardly consult the dog for like 2 mins and its so not clean
I get it i cannot expect it to be too good at a government hospital but yeah
Also it does not have a pharmacy for dog products of it own ? To my knowledge
Please suggest some good options

Best food spots in vellore
Please suggest
Im okay with both vegetarian and non vegetarian
Im gonna stay here for 1 month atleast so yeah i wanna explore guys

Im a new redditer here i need to boost my karma points i have zero points
How to boost it any ideas ?
Help me out guys