u/tez_woz

I am a studentand I'll be moving soon. I'm looking for a safe and clean Women's PG or Hostel near Rajalakshmi Engineering College (REC) in Thandalam.

Location: Thandalam, Poonamallee, Kundrathur, or nearby areas (ideally a short bus/auto commute to REC)

If anyone is currently staying in a good PG around this area or has any reliable leads, please drop a comment or DM me. Reviews of places to avoid would also be highly appreciated so I don't get scammed!

I got Rajalakshmi Engineering College for MBA through TANCET. Is doing an MBA here worth it? How are the placements and packages, and what are the actual job opportunities for MBA students? Looking for honest opinions from current students/alumni.

My boyfriend (21M) and I (20F) broke up for a while but eventually got back together. During the breakup, he said some things that completely destroyed my confidence.

He told me I wasn't his type, that he wished I looked more attractive, that he isn't into skinny women (I'm naturally skinny), and he compared me to other women. Those comments have been stuck in my head ever since.

Since getting back together, he's apologized multiple times. He says he only said those things because he wanted to hurt me during the breakup and didn't actually mean them. He's been reassuring me, complimenting me, and trying to make me feel secure.

The problem is that I can't move on from what he said. Every time he compliments me, I question whether he really means it or if his original comments were the truth. I keep comparing myself to other women and wondering if I'm actually not attractive enough for him. It's affected my self-esteem and I replay those words in my head constantly.

I'm also very attached to him, and I love him, so walking away isn't something I want to do. At the same time, I don't know how to trust his words anymore.

Has anyone been in a situation where their partner said cruel things during a breakup but genuinely changed afterward? Were you able to rebuild trust and move past those comments, or did they stay with you? I'd really appreciate honest advice because I feel stuck.

My boyfriend told me he doesn't want a relationship anymore, but he doesn't want to lose me and wants to stay friends. I know that if I stay friends with him, I'll keep hoping he'll change his mind and won't be able to move on. At the same time, I don't want to lose him because I've become really attached to him, and I'm an anxious person in relationships.

I know I can't force someone to choose me, but I don't know how to stop hoping he'll come back. Has anyone been through something similar? How did you cope and move on?

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My bf and I were together for almost 2 yrs, and we've now broken up. Over the course of the relationship, I became very emotionally dependent on him. He was the person I talked to every day, the person I went to when I was sad, stressed, or needed comfort. Because of that, losing the relationship feels like losing a huge part of my support system. I also don't have many close friends, which makes this even harder. I keep thinking about him, wanting to talk to him, and struggling to imagine my life without him in it. I know emotional dependence isn't healthy, and I want to learn how to be okay on my own and build a life that doesn't revolve around one person. For those who have been through something similar, how did you move on? How did you cope with the loneliness and stop relying on one person for your happiness and emotional support?