u/thE-petrichoroN

Frequent Conflicts after Nikkah:

I(M26,dr by profession) am at a rough patch in life and I really don't know what to do and my heart is so burdened.I was nikkahfied last year and it was love(no boundaries crossed)+arranged and elhamdullilah,I've felt blessed.My parents were initially against it due to some reasons but they came at good terms and things overall improved after nikkah.Ik there are rough patches in marriage too and I'm not someone entirely focusing on negative side but I feel like I've tolerated so much and I'm unable to move ahead in life due to the constant stress given by my wife.In we've had frequent arguments I which my manliness was challenged, my parents were abused.I was slapped hard on my face during one time when we had arguments at her parent's house and upon questioning, I was told I forced her.I've been frequently told that she has been given to me in free so I'm unthankful and she has threatened divorce and separation and have said find someone better or I'll learn a lesson from some other type of girl and she's too good.Her mother has a habit of constant interference and gossiping and she often calls me out through her.Today,out of desperation, I involved our parents and told them everything as I had no other way.My parents are feeling so down,saying they told me to not and I've talked in detail to her father.I've to move ahead in my medical career and I'm just mentally stuck.I've loved her so much and respected her but I've been hurt frequently.idk what to do,I'm extremely stressed and want to cry..

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u/thE-petrichoroN — 11 days ago

Advice please:

I(M26,dr by profession) am at a rough patch in life and I really don't know what to do and my heart is so burdened.I was nikkahfied last year and it was love(no boundaries crossed)+arranged and elhamdullilah,I've felt blessed.My parents were initially against it due to some reasons but they came at good terms and things overall improved after nikkah.Ik there are rough patches in marriage too and I'm not someone entirely focusing on negative side but I feel like I've tolerated so much and I'm unable to move ahead in life due to the constant stress given by my wife.In we've had frequent arguments I which my manliness was challenged, my parents were abused.I was slapped hard on my face during one time when we had arguments at her parent's house and upon questioning, I was told I forced her.I've been frequently told that she has been given to me in free so I'm unthankful and she has threatened divorce and separation and have said find someone better or I'll learn a lesson from some other type of girl and she's too good.Her mother has a habit of constant interference and gossiping and she often calls me out through her.Today,out of desperation, I involved our parents and told them everything as I had no other way.My parents are feeling so down,saying they told me to not and I've talked in detail to her father.I've to move ahead in my medical career and I'm just mentally stuck.I've loved her so much and respected her but I've been hurt frequently.idk what to do,I'm extremely stressed and want to cry..

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u/thE-petrichoroN — 11 days ago

Advice please:

I(M26,dr by profession) am at a rough patch in life and I really don't know what to do and my heart is so burdened.I was nikkahfied last year and it was love(no boundaries crossed)+arranged and elhamdullilah,I've felt blessed.My parents were initially against it due to some reasons but they came at good terms and things overall improved after nikkah.Ik there are rough patches in marriage too and I'm not someone entirely focusing on negative side but I feel like I've tolerated so much and I'm unable to move ahead in life due to the constant stress given by my wife.In we've had frequent arguments I which my manliness was challenged, my parents were abused.I was slapped hard on my face during one time when we had arguments at her parent's house and upon questioning, I was told I forced her.I've been frequently told that she has been given to me in free so I'm unthankful and she has threatened divorce and separation and have said find someone better or I'll learn a lesson from some other type of girl and she's too good.Her mother has a habit of constant interference and gossiping and she often calls me out through her.Today,out of desperation, I involved our parents and told them everything as I had no other way.My parents are feeling so down,saying they told me to not and I've talked in detail to her father.I've to move ahead in my medical career and I'm just mentally stuck.I've loved her so much and respected her but I've been hurt frequently.idk what to do,I'm extremely stressed and want to cry...I've been praying but nothing seems to work.

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u/thE-petrichoroN — 11 days ago

Advice Please:ON is ruining my life_

Hi there..I've been suffering from ON for nearly 4 years and it has been impacting me so much now as I'm on crucial stage of my career and I've to take important exams..I'm finding it hard to memorize or recall due to constant burning feeling and fogginess.Tried Nortriptyline,PreGablin and vitB12 along with neck physiotherapy but no significant recovery.It's making it extremely hard for me to thrive in life..Idk what to do,Advise please..

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u/thE-petrichoroN — 11 days ago

One of the largest Illegal Housing Society Frauds:

Anybody know which society is this?Also,fraud is getting too common, even in ICT,so what are the ways to avoid that?Even CDA Permitted societies are turning out to be fraudulent.

u/thE-petrichoroN — 16 days ago