A little late with this month's thread (life got in the way 😅), but better late than never.

Here are six books that I think are well worth picking up:

The Hungry Tide – Amitav Ghosh
Set in the Sundarbans, this novel blends ecology, history, and human relationships into a story that's both beautiful and thought-provoking.

Karukku – Bama
A powerful memoir that explores caste, faith, and identity through the author's own experiences. Honest, raw, and unforgettable.

English, August – Upamanyu Chatterjee
A witty coming-of-age novel about a young civil servant struggling to find his place in a sleepy district town. Funny, relatable, and surprisingly timeless.

Everybody Loves a Good Drought – P. Sainath
A collection of deeply reported stories that reveal the realities of rural India. An essential read for anyone interested in journalism or social issues.

The Great Indian Novel – Shashi Tharoor
A clever reimagining of the Mahabharata woven into modern Indian political history. Satirical, ambitious, and packed with literary references.

One Part Woman – Perumal Murugan
A moving novel about love, marriage, and the pressures of tradition in rural Tamil Nadu. Quietly written but emotionally powerful.

• Have you read any of these?
• What did you think ?Which one would you recommend the most?
• What's the best book you finished this month?
• What Indian book deserves a spot in next month's thread?

Feel free to recommend books from any genre or Indian language. I'm always looking to add more to my reading list, and I'm sure others here are too.

Happy reading! 📚

If you’ve ever looked back on a difficult experience and wondered:

“Why didn’t I fight back?”

“Why do I still feel this way?”

“Why can’t I just move on?”

This post is for you.

One of the most misunderstood things about trauma is that people often judge themselves for how they reacted. We imagine we should have been stronger, louder, braver, or more in control.

But the truth is that your mind and body were doing exactly what they were designed to do: keep you alive.

Many people know about “fight or flight,” but fewer talk about freeze. When something feels overwhelming and neither fighting nor escaping feels possible, the body can shut down. You may become quiet, unable to move, disconnected, or emotionally numb.

That’s not weakness.

That’s survival.

The same goes for hypervigilance — constantly scanning people’s moods, overanalyzing conversations, noticing every change in tone, always waiting for something to go wrong.

It can be exhausting, but it often develops because your brain learned that paying attention might keep you safe.

Then there’s emotional numbness.

People assume trauma always looks like intense emotions. Sometimes it looks like feeling nothing at all. No excitement. No joy. No sadness. Just emptiness.

That isn’t because you don’t care

Sometimes it’s because your system is overwhelmed and trying to protect itself
And those thoughts that keep coming back? The memories, the “what ifs,” the moments you replay over and over?
Your mind isn’t trying to punish you
It’s trying to make sense of something that never made sense in the first place.
One of the most powerful ideas from Bessel van der Kolk’s The Body Keeps the Score is that difficult experiences don’t simply disappear because time passes. The body and mind adapt. They remember. They develop ways to protect us long after the danger is gone.

So if you’ve ever asked yourself:

“What’s wrong with me?”

Maybe try asking a different question:

“What happened to me?”

Because the freeze, the vigilance, the numbness, the overthinking, the physical reactions — they aren’t proof that you’re broken.
They’re proof that your system found a way to survive something difficult.
Your reactions make sense
Your survival makes sense.
And you deserve compassion for both.

Have you ever learned something about trauma that completely changed how you viewed yourself?

Not necessarily a classic or a popular recommendation just a random read that surprised you in the best way.

For me, those are honestly the best reading experiences because you go in expecting nothing and somehow end up thinking about the book for days after finishing it.

Would love some unexpected recommendations from everyone here 👀

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Not physically she still came to college, still replied in group chats, still smiled in photos. But little things changed. She stopped talking about the future. Stopped dressing up the way she used to love doing. Took hours to reply to messages. She was always “just tired.”
At first everyone thought it was stress. Exams, family pressure, normal stuff. Even she said she was okay.
Then one night she called me at around 2 AM and just cried. Not because of one specific thing just life. She said she felt exhausted all the time and guilty for feeling that way because “nothing was even that wrong.”
That line stayed with me.
People think mental health struggles only count when there’s a visible reason. But sometimes a person can be surrounded by people, functioning normally, and still be fighting a battle in their own head every single day.
She eventually started therapy after months of resisting it. It didn’t magically fix everything overnight, but slowly she started feeling like herself again.
I think about that a lot now how many people around us are probably carrying things we cannot see.