I am an infj and i notice i feel guilt so easily. Guilty for taking up space. Guilty for any tiny thing that could be done or said wrong. Guilty for any potential way i could have affected somebody. Often without a genuine reason, i think? I’m not sure haha. Is this an infj thing or just a personal issue i have? Anybody who can share their opinion with me pls? :)
Hi everybody, i was wondering whether anybody can give me an indication how long my childhood traumas, such as emotional neglect, are going to stick with me? I have been in intense therapy for already 5 years (2/3/4 therapy sessions a week) with some small breaks in between. When am i going to function like a normal human being again? How long is it gonna take??? Anybody who has been through it and has any idea? I know it differs per person of course and the traumas will be part of me forever, but just wondering.
People!!! I (25F) am going to ask a guy (27M) whether he would like to hang out with the 2 of us. I have seen him a few times on parties and always thought he was pretty cute. I also heard via via that he was interested and thought the times i saw him he was flirting with me. But the self doubt always held me back. I’m am going to text him. Today. Or tomorrow. I’m so nervous. Wish me luck i need it!!!!!🥹🫶🏻😎
Hi everyone, I'm sorry for this post, but I just have to vent, I think. I have such a strong urge to leave. 6 years ago, I moved to another city in my country to study, and I always had the thought that I would leave there again as well. After studying. As soon as possible. Now I'm still in this city, and suddenly my strong urge to leave became so intense. wanting to move. Wanting to go somewhere else. But at the same time, no idea where. I can't imagine myself living anywhere else. I don't know where else I would like to live. But at the same time, I can absolutely not imagine myself staying here. Not in any way. My mind is making me feel so restless. And I also don't understand why I have such a desire to leave. Like, there isn't necessarily anything wrong with this city. I just have such a strong craving for leaving, omfg I'm getting crazy in my mind. What's wrong with me??? I understand the concept that I would be 'running away' from something, but my traumas happened in my hometown, 2 hours away from here, and are not related to this city
There is a guy i met recently and he seems really cute. We had some quick chats at parties and i heard from his twin brother that he was interested in me. When seeing him at parties he also asked my about my dating life and what i would like to do as a date and we seem to have similar experiences and thoughts on it. But he never asked me out or anything :(( what does it mean for guys to ask such questions about dating? And would guys be bothered if a girl asks him out instead of the guy asking out the girl?