My words here for some categories of men

Wherever how she looks, pretty, tall, ugly, fat , young, old, as i said wherever she looks, will always find that simp man who wants to give her everything for her , and here i blame those simp men how stupid they are, they can do everything for some categories of women that don't give a shit about them.

And some ask why she's not responding, why she's not accepting my request well because she doesn't give a fuck, a grown ass man go to those girls in tiktok or whatever and make a cmnts ah u look sexy , ah u look pretty, then they ask why women love toxic guys, why women love bad guys well because of this simp man

That toxic guy or bad guy doesn't give her what she usually has nahh they give her different things a simp man can't ever imagine .

Don't approach random women without any reason, stop giving them random compliments they hear that all day, be ur self, hav values not any woman see her and then go to her like a dog , when she does something that u don't accept then don't, she wants to go, let her go, you also hav ego and self-respect save them .

And when time comes u will find that girl and u'll know that she deserves everything that time do everything for her just because u want too not because u hav too

I don't know if it's just me but I can't understand how a man or even a woman goes directly to marriage without having experience or understanding how other ganders think when it comes to special moments .

And don't tell me our parents did that we literally live in different generations with 10 times more difficult when it comes to relations and acting with other gander.

And maybe that will work only if both ganders have the same situation and both of them never had experience before, but if one of them had 0 and the other had it before i think there will be challenges, like u hav to teach him/her how to act, how to speak some words etc...

I can't understand how a grown man comes here and asks some childish questions and especially wants to hear women pov

I'm not against taking advice from anyone but ask someone u trust or someone hav at least some experience and u really want that answer

Some come here and ask with all his stupid brains about , do women care about heights , do women care if i'm bold , do women.... Like really bro i hav seen a post about someone asking like , Do women find this cool when someone does that sport, or watching anime, or even playing some games 😂

Like why does someone care that much , a grown ass man wants to hear some advice from girls maybe they didn't reach 20 yrs old lol

And i believe when someone asks those questions he wants to stay in his comfort zone, like if he finds a random girl says to him yes i love fat boys will stay like that forever lol

I had enough from some posts here wanting to get a relationship and start to write some stuff like a CV .

U'll not find her here or outside this way like how do u think is gonna work , will dm u and start saying hi i saw ur post i wanna be in relationships with u , does sounds clingy asf .

Any relation, meeting, talking stage take time and effort it's not a button when u want something u'll click .

Most of my relationship was online tho yes but takes time and meeting etc so u can know that person better and between irl and online much difference

And especially if u are in 20s u hav much stuff first to do , bro take my advice and never dm a girl u don't know, she won't even see that message anyway

Take care of your garden, and then butterflies will come ( maybe ) lol

Let's be real we hav big problems when it comes to this topic " Love " and love here isn't just between partner and etc it's everything u can say i hate u but u can't even say i luv u and we see that in family for example many of them can't say i love u dad , love u mom although can fight everyday and when u see a father kiss or hug his daughter they start to blame him, insult him

( like we sew in bem results )

Like love is something weird or shame and that will affect other subjects like violence , rejection that's why we see men outside insult women for not giving them what they want,and same for women when it comes to other subjects

Music , parents, society, everything is connected

I saw a lot of posts and especially women saying that , they don't want someone with a past relation and i really want to know why exactly because i believe if u'll find that man or women ( if a guy wants that too ) he/she lacks speaking skills with the other gender makes sense huh and u'll not like that because he/she doesn't know how to act or to understand or even to carry a conversation when it comes to srx relation.

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1- why u want that ?

2-will u accept he/her flaws when it comes to communication skills around relation ?

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Tell me ur POV