u/thereaIreal

Disclaimer: never been on a date/had a relationship
Age: 21

So there’s this girl at work who’s the same age as me. We get on great. We pretty much clicked when we met and the conversation has just always flown. I’ve known her for about a year now and would class us as “close friends” at work. We spend I’d say like 60% of our shift together when we can which is hard to do considering we work in a busy place.

Signs:
- Approaches me/invites me to tag along at work
- Doesn’t mind proximity - she stands close enough that our arms like touch or whatever (I let her initiate that obviously considering it’s in a workplace and so I don’t make anyone uncomfortable)
- She also like sometimes casually touches my arm too with her hand
- Said the other day that she “stalked” (her word) my schedule so she can see when we’re on shift together
- Asked for my number for work purposes then that same day added me on Snapchat
- Checks where I am on the daily plan
- Sometimes wanted to take lunch breaks at the same time
- She can get shy when she compliments me
- Talks about things I do or say to her other work friends like: making her laugh etc. (positively lol)
- I made like these random drawings of people while I was bored once and every time I make one she keeps it
- Got a bit disappointed when I told her I was going to be off on certain days

The only thing that sort of sways me that maybe she doesn’t like me is that when her other friends returned to the same shifts as her, she seemed to gravitate slightly less towards me. Like it’s still sort of the same stuff but a bit less.

Also, I know that she’s 100% single as I heard her say it the other day.

Any questions, let me know.
Thank you, people!

Firstly, I just need some advice so I’m sorry if this isn’t the exact right subreddit. If it’s not, feel free to remove it!

Disclaimer: never been on a date/had a relationship
Age: 21

So there’s this girl at work who’s the same age as me. We get on great. We pretty much clicked when we met and the conversation has just always flown. I’ve known her for about a year now and would class us as “close friends” at work. We spend I’d say like 60% of our shift together when we can which is hard to do considering we work in a busy place.

Signs:
- Approaches me/invites me to tag along at work
- Doesn’t mind proximity - she stands close enough that our arms like touch or whatever (I let her initiate that obviously considering it’s in a workplace and so I don’t make anyone uncomfortable)
- She also like sometimes casually touches my arm too with her hand
- Said the other day that she “stalked” (her word) my schedule so she can see when we’re on shift together
- Asked for my number for work purposes then that same day added me on Snapchat
- Checks where I am on the daily plan
- Sometimes wanted to take lunch breaks at the same time
- She can get shy when she compliments me
- Talks about things I do or say to her other work friends like: making her laugh etc. (positively lol)
- I made like these random drawings of people while I was bored once and every time I make one she keeps it
- Got a bit disappointed when I told her I was going to be off on certain days

The only thing that sort of sways me that maybe she doesn’t like me is that when her other friends returned to the same shifts as her, she seemed to gravitate slightly less towards me. Like it’s still sort of the same stuff but a bit less.

Also, I know that she’s 100% single as I heard her say it the other day.

Any questions, let me know.
Thank you, people!

So I’ve not posted on Reddit for years so this will be fun. I have a small (big) crush on a girl and was just wondering if any of you guys and girls out there could help me.

Disclaimer: never been on a date/had a relationship
Me: 21M
Her: 20F

So there’s this girl at work who’s the same age as me. We get on great. We pretty much clicked when we met and the conversation has just always flown. I’ve known her for about a year now and would class us as “close friends” at work. We spend I’d say like 60% of our shift together when we can which is hard to do considering we work in a busy place.

Signs:
- Approaches me/invites me to tag along at work
- Doesn’t mind proximity - she stands close enough that our arms like touch or whatever (I let her initiate that obviously considering it’s in a workplace and so I don’t make anyone uncomfortable)
- She also like sometimes casually touches my arm too with her hand
- Said the other day that she “stalked” (her word) my schedule so she can see when we’re on shift together
- Asked for my number for work purposes then that same day added me on Snapchat
- Checks where I am on the daily plan
- Sometimes wanted to take lunch breaks at the same time
- She can get shy when she compliments me
- Talks about things I do or say to her other work friends like: making her laugh etc. (positively lol)
- I made like these random drawings of people while I was bored once and every time I make one she keeps it
- Got a bit disappointed when I told her I was going to be off on certain days

The only thing that sort of sways me that maybe she doesn’t like me is that when her other friends returned to the same shifts as her, she seemed to gravitate slightly less towards me. Like it’s still sort of the same stuff but a bit less.

Also, I know that she’s 100% single as I heard her say it the other day.

Any questions, let me know.
Thank you, people!

So I’ve not posted on Reddit for years so this will be fun. I have a small (big) crush on a girl and was just wondering if any of you guys and girls out there could help me.

Disclaimer: never been on a date/had a relationship
Age: 21

So there’s this girl at work who’s the same age as me. We get on great. We pretty much clicked when we met and the conversation has just always flown. I’ve known her for about a year now and would class us as “close friends” at work. We spend I’d say like 60% of our shift together when we can which is hard to do considering we work in a busy place.

Signs:
- Approaches me/invites me to tag along at work
- Doesn’t mind proximity - she stands close enough that our arms like touch or whatever (I let her initiate that obviously considering it’s in a workplace and so I don’t make anyone uncomfortable)
- She also like sometimes casually touches my arm too with her hand
- Said the other day that she “stalked” (her word) my schedule so she can see when we’re on shift together
- Asked for my number for work purposes then that same day added me on Snapchat
- Checks where I am on the daily plan
- Sometimes wanted to take lunch breaks at the same time
- She can get shy when she compliments me
- Talks about things I do or say to her other work friends like: making her laugh etc. (positively lol)
- I made like these random drawings of people while I was bored once and every time I make one she keeps it
- Got a bit disappointed when I told her I was going to be off on certain days

The only thing that sort of sways me that maybe she doesn’t like me is that when her other friends returned to the same shifts as her, she seemed to gravitate slightly less towards me. Like it’s still sort of the same stuff but a bit less.

Also, I know that she’s 100% single as I heard her say it the other day.

Any questions, let me know.
Thank you, people!