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As title says.... I am traveling to bhubaneswar tomorrow I.e 20-Aug. Planning to explore rajamundry & Vishakhapatnam on the way. If anyone traveling in the same route in same time we can plan or share like car pooling, I do checking in the car pooling apps too.

Suggest me anything I can cover & explore on the way, so I can plan the journey accordingly.

As title says.... I am traveling to bhubaneswar tomorrow I.e 20-Aug. Planning to explore rajamundry & Vishakhapatnam on the way. If anyone traveling in the same route in same time we can plan or share like car pooling, I do checking in the car pooling apps too.

Suggest me anything I can cover & explore on the way, so I can plan the journey accordingly.

As title says.... I am traveling to bhubaneswar tomorrow I.e 20-Aug. Planning to explore rajamundry & Vishakhapatnam on the way. If anyone traveling in the same route in same time we can plan or share like car pooling, I do checking in the car pooling apps too.

Suggest me anything I can cover & explore on the way, so I can plan the journey accordingly.

Vishayam entante I'm working in a corporate company (MNC kadule) but india lone pedda perunna organisation. Last 3 years back promotion+transfer lo Delhi nunchi current location ki vacha. Delhi lo unnapudu chill vundedi. When it comes to current location responsibilities chala periyagi but it's okay, challenging gaa tisukoni take up chestunnanu maa old manager full supportive gaa vundevadi, So maa team last project scratch nunchi challenging time lo full output ki develop chesam. Maa GM ayite literally team meetings lo maa team ni juiiii ani lepevadu.

Emadya management lo changes vachayi, maa kotha manager gadu oka jaffa gadu, adiki maa field lo literally oka mukka radu, anni down the line forward cheyyadame tappa okka task or vendor management or interest department dealing em cheyyadu. So load 100% maa team ye chusukuntunnam.

Office timings 8 to 5 ayite 6 or 7 kuda ayipotundi. Sundays kuda calls office ki ravalani (C-off ayite vastundi or EL equal amount).

Marovaipu hard 75 challenge okati start chesi 2 times fail ayya due to external & office reasons.

Evening saradaga cycling cheddam ante cycle puncher daggaralo puncher shop ledu.

Share market lo koncham money petta but you know market antha gaa baledu. Shares anni red lo bath chestunnayi.

Inka konunnayi (evi just samples ye) but post length penchadam estam leka avanni cheppadam ledu.

Okka mukkalo cheppalante life anni vipula nunchi mingestundi.

Eroju oka sodi training ki attend ayya, edi mandatory training anamata so maa manager postpone chese sahasam cheyyala. Edorakamga first half ayipoyindi 2-3 lunch break. 3 ki enka entha time raa ee torcher ani anukuntunte second half 2 sessions one half lo sardhesaru. 4 ki training ayipogane, whistle vesukuntu vachesa. Day lo e part office bayata chusi chala rojulu ayyindi (exept holidays) Room ki vachi koya dance leee...

So cheppochedentate,,,, chala Mandi chala sarlu cheppinde nakenduko malli chappalanipinchi ee post pedutunna,,,

"Life is all about chinna chinna anandhalu".

తెలుగు సాహిత్యం మీద ఇష్టం ఉన్నపటికీ అది చదవడం లేదా వినడం ద్వారా ఆస్వాదించడం వరకే పరిమితం అయ్యింది. దానికి కారణం చదువు పూర్తయ్యాక నేను వృత్తిరీత్యా ఉత్తర భారతదేశంలో ఎక్కువ కాలం ఉన్న. ప్రస్తుతం ఒరిస్సా రాష్ట్రంలో ఉంటున్న. ఇటీవల నేను ఒక కథ రాయడలచను. సమస్య ఏంటంటే తెలుగు రాష్ట్రాల్లో లేకపోవడం వల్లనో హిందీ/ఆంగ్లం లొ ఎక్కువ కాలం నుంచి మాట్లాడటం వల్లనో కథనం లో భాష స్థిరత్వం తగ్గడం గమనించ. ప్రస్తుతానికి సాహిత్యం పదాలను తెలుసుకొని సాధ్యమైనంత స్వచమైనత తెలుగు లో కధను రాధమనుకుంటున్న.

ఒక విధంగా చెప్పాలంటే మళ్ళీ ఓనమాలు దిద్దాలనుకుంటున్నా, ఈ మార్గంలో లొ మార్గదర్శకం చూపిస్తారని ఆశిస్తున్న.

Edi just to discuss evarini vuddesinchi kadu.

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Love anedi eppati nuncho vunna (ref Parvati Devadas oldest love story we all know, correct me if I am wrong) mana mundu generations ki adi antha common kadu due to various reasons (parents oppukokapovadam, caste religion evanni pedda issues ah time lo) but mana generation ki vachesariki love some how the situations were changed. Love marriage percentage kuda baga perigayi.

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Panchayati entante reasons for this shift, movies one of the major reason ani enthamandi anukuntunnaru?

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Also movies society ni influence chestayani oka argument & society lo em jarugutundo ade movies rupam lo vastunnayi ani inkoka argument. Just wanted to know your stand.

I am 30m. A few years back naku naa maradal ki pelli ani mavollu anukunnaru. Ah time ki tanu B-tech final year job vastundi ani confident gaa vundi. Maku oka 6-7 years age gap vundi. Memu duram gaa vunna tanu naku tana 10th tarvata nunchi baga close.

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In the initial stage of these proposals I was in a committed relationship, even though she knows it. Tanaki kuda telusu ah vishayam. So ball na court ki vachinapudalla nenu NO chebutu vachevadini reasons adigite age gap ani tanani ala chudaledu ani cheppevadani, because I can't tell about my relationship as we know naa pilla valla intlo oppukovadam ledu ani. Later ah pilla ki naku broke up ayyindi so I was in a bad phase.

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Nenu appudappude move on avutunna time lo malli maa grand parents tana grand parents maa pelli topics tisukocharu tana daggara & she didn't say NO. Tarvata nenu NO chebite ayipotundi kada ani tana tho annapudu tanu tanaki ee proposal OK ani cheppindi. I was surprised. Naa past telisi kuda tanu ala ante.

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So I took some time & came up with the conditions. E relationship avi vaddu direct gaa marriage ani, but tanu job vachedaka wait chedham andi, then I said ayite eppudu engagement laga chesukoni B-tech ayyaka pelli chesukundam ani. But daniki kuda tanu oppukoledu. Tanu nuvvu matram settle ayite saripotundi nenu kuda settle (tanu) ayyaka chesukundam andi. Ante oka 4-5 years time adigindi.

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I was not ready for it so I said NO. Maa vallu vere matches chudatam continue chesaru. Ah vishayam tanaki chebite absolute silence. Tarwata chala time (8-9 months no contact).

Tarwata tanaki wipro lo job vachindi ani telisi happy feel ayya.

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After a couple of years we started talking again. Naku telisindentante She ended up in a toxic relationship. Tana college finish ayyaka tanu tana classmate tho relationship loki vellindi, vadu tanani emotional gaa abuse cheyyadam, vadu chesina tappulaki tinanu blame cheyyadam tho patu, vadi co-worker tho YOGA cheyyadam lantivi chesadu. Papam relationship lo vunnapudu vadini konni vishayallo defende cheyyadam valla friends tho duram ayyi eppudu vallani ela face cheyyalo tanaki teliyadam ledu anta.Tana intlo kuda parents tho evo issues. So tanu chala lonely gaa feel avutunna ani bada padutundi.

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So I am feeling like past lo nenu antha mondiga behave cheyyakapoyunte, tanu ee toxic relationship loki velledi kademo ani. I feel like I am one of the reasons for her to end up this lonely.

Maa 10th friend name PG( all names are not real ) tanu echina suggestion jivithanni ghat road kanna adbhutayina turns tipindi. Daniki thodu naa friend SK, Arya 2 lo dialogue vuntundi gaa, Arya lanti friend vunte satruvulu avasaram ledu ani. Sukumar garu elanti donga naa K lanu chuse rasuntaru.

Story loki adugidite: ( spoiler due to time & space container, for present story completed cheyyalekaputunna. I will complete it on your demand. Long story parledu ante or mudu mukkalo cheppeyala??)

6-7 years back PG tana frnd Ganga gurinchi cheppindi, maa edhariki set avutundi ani anni set avutayani cheppukochindi. I know Ganga from 10th but PG tho vunanta closeness gani parichayam gani ledu naku tanatho. PG ela antunna vishayam SK gadiki chepte adu kuda support chesadu.PG help tho nenu Ganga tho matladatam start chesa, valla intlo koncham ekkuve strict phone vadedi kadu ekkuva, but kudirinappudu msg or calls alaa alaa close ayyam. Madya madya lo NO calls & msgs ani anedi, I respected her space & more than anything I respect myself. So No annapudu distrub chesevadini kadu malli tane call or msg chesedi.

Okaroju PG Ganga ki maa gurinchi tana opinion cheppindi, Ganga reaction is NO. Maku ardham kaledhu why ani, so PG reason enti ani gattiga adigite valintlo oppukunte tanaki okay andi. So nenu velli valla father ni kalisa, personal gaa matladali ani cheppa, oka daggara wait cheste vachi matladata annaru. Nenu SK akkade wait chesam but ayana raledu. The next day I am back at work.

Malli no contact from Ganga & PG ki marriage set ayyindi. PG cheppadam, nenu valla father ni kalisina tarwata Ganga ni valla parents tittadam even kottadam chesaranta. Nenu valla father tho just personal gaa matladali ani matrame anna, asalu vishayam enti anikuda cheppaledu. Vallu ala chesarante I am confused, vallu antha violent gaa enduku behave chesaro.

Next memu kalisindi PG pellilo, I was there for a few days pelli panullo help chestu. She was there to help PG valladi same town. When I asked Ganga, She said she doesn't want to continue any of this. So I respected her decision. Pelli lo tanani distrub cheyyakunda naa pani nenu chusukoni, I am back at work.

This phase was really tough for me, (I think after breakup it is not easy for anyone) but my colleagues, my roommate, my college friends & my seniors are friendly. I took as much work as I could take, to make myself busy. SK also helped me a lot at this phase. I got a new job & posted in Delhi. From there I started exploring north India.

At that time I received a text from Ganga, It was almost 2-3 years after PG marriage. She got a job & came to HYD after her masters. Ah time lo tana vishayam lo naku kopam or interest rendu levu, but job chestunnanduku & Hyd lo vuntunnanduku I am kind of happy for her. But I didn't want to get into any kind of relationship with her so nenu tananu duram petta.

But eventually she started calling or texting on a regular basis, to share her job experiences, roomates tho panchayitilu & valla parents testunna marriage proposals gurinchi chebutundedi. I was be in touch as a moral support, constant gaa tanaki suggest chese vadini valla parents techina abbayini chesukomani, but vallu proposals tana daggaraki vachelope edo reason cheppi reject chesesevallu adi vere vishayam. Kani reject cheyyadaniki vallu cheppe reasons chuste naa burrapadu ayipoyedi.

After few months she started asking me to visit HYD, okasari chudali ani anedi, but nenu ranu ani cheppa. Then she started provoking like, abbayive kadaa, Enduku antha bayapadatav ani. Then at some point I said "okay, I will visit but if there are any consequences there after it will be on your head ani. She said "em jarigina parledu nuv raa". I visited her , I think that was the mistake I made.

My friend who is 35(M) is currently working in a well known PSU company oil & gas sector. He is in the executive category now, like an assistant manager in mechanical maintenance stream. His package is good but the location & facility part was too bad. The HR is literally doing nothing to improve their life there. He is pretty frustrated with all of them.

He is thinking & looking for a shift.

Can PSU to any other PSU shift is possible all I know is PSU are recruiting through GATE only, especially for engineering branches.

As he is in PSU right now he is looking for PSU or govt sectors.

Any suggestions please.

I'm 29M. One and a half years ago I was a bit distanced with my girlfriend, it's been months since she went to her place & there is barely any communication.

I was in a state of confusion & boredom. I started passing time with regular guy's stuff, like parties & porn.

Accidentally I came across an app that's not a dating app more like an online streaming platform, people earning coins from views for their talents, most streamers are women, most of them showing their body & few are offering special shows. It's totally fine as both parties are concerned, no judgements from my side. I thought this app was best for passing time.

There I met a girl, she is also a streamer, she is cute & beautiful, she is an RJ by profession, she speaks very sweet, our region languages are different, she mostly speaks she regional language in the stream which I barely understand I like how she is thinking about others & society.

We started chatting & talking. I didn't say much about myself as my primary intention is not at all a long term relationship.

After a year we are still in touch, she texts & calls regularly.

When I started telling her about my girlfriend she went silent, the next day she made a video call & suddenly started showing herself. I couldn't say anything, I see her as an ideal person, I never saw her in a sexual view before.

After that VC I asked her why she did that, her reply is like " I don't wanna lose you" I tell that I am committed & she says "I don't care"