u/tidi24

This is a bit of a rant, but I'm probably not the only one who feels this way.

I started this job about three years ago. Initially, I liked the work. My boss was intense, but I felt appreciated, which was fair, and I started as a paid intern for about half a year, as legally required. However, I wasn't promoted according to my education level—and since this is a government job, education is everything when it comes to promotions. Instead, the unfulfilled promises just kept piling up.

Later, I got an opportunity in second-level business IT support, but I hated it there. There wasn't much to do other than listen to internal users, and there was very little room for development in the IT department, despite what had been promised. Fast forward: I eventually moved back to my original role while also taking on the responsibilities of a project manager, because the management and workload in the business IT area were completely draining.

After all of that, I lost all my motivation. Being based in the EU, this would technically be the ideal time for me to start a family, go on maternity leave, and step away for a bit and I am actively working on that. But my lack of motivation right now is just overwhelming. I want to feel that spark again—the way I did when I first started here. I want the motivation to learn, to build an app, and to achieve something. Instead, I feel like I am just coasting through this part of my life, and I can't even enjoy the other parts because the job, the lack of appreciation, and the low pay are constantly weighing on me. How did any of you got the motivation to move forward back? Thank you for all the support and comments.

And the same time, yes I could be worse off, jobless, without the house I am paying for (which also just moving to the lower paying position is not an option now), without a boyfriend, the job is very secure, but it is all I can think of.

This is a bit of a rant, but I'm probably not the only one who feels this way.

I started this job about three years ago. Initially, I liked the work. My boss was intense, but I felt appreciated, which was fair, and I started as a paid intern for about half a year, as legally required. However, I wasn't promoted according to my education level—and since this is a government job, education is everything when it comes to promotions. Instead, the unfulfilled promises just kept piling up.

Later, I got an opportunity in second-level business IT support, but I hated it there. There wasn't much to do other than listen to internal users, and there was very little room for development in the IT department, despite what had been promised. Fast forward: I eventually moved back to my original role while also taking on the responsibilities of a project manager, because the management and workload in the business IT area were completely draining.

After all of that, I lost all my motivation. Being based in the EU, this would technically be the ideal time for me to start a family, go on maternity leave, and step away for a bit and I am actively working on that. But my lack of motivation right now is just overwhelming. I want to feel that spark again—the way I did when I first started here. I want the motivation to learn, to build an app, and to achieve something. Instead, I feel like I am just coasting through this part of my life, and I can't even enjoy the other parts because the job, the lack of appreciation, and the low pay are constantly weighing on me. How did any of you got the motivation to move forward back? Thank you for all the support and comments.

And the same time, yes I could be worse off, jobless, without the house I am paying for (which also just moving to the lower paying position is not an option now), without a boyfriend, the job is very secure, but it is all I can think of.

Hi everyone! 👋

I’m looking to team up with a founder or co-founder who already has an exciting business concept or an active project in motion, and needs a dedicated partner to execute and build it together.

My long-term goal is to step fully into entrepreneurship and go independent. While I am not in a position to invest financial capital right now, I have an immense drive, open capacity, and the exact skill set needed to roll up my sleeves and handle the day-to-day execution.

If you have the vision but need someone to help co-manage the workload and build the foundation, here is what I bring to the table:

• 💼 Operations & Project Management: Turning chaotic ideas into structured workflows, setting up processes, and making sure milestones are actually met.
• 🛠 IT & Technical Problem-Solving: Hands-on experience with systems coordination, data/SQL, and technical troubleshooting to keep the operational side running smoothly.
• 📱 Organic Marketing & Content Creation: Designing visuals, writing content, and handling social media management to build early organic reach and traction.
• 👥 Team Execution: Proven experience coordinating small teams and keeping daily operations efficient.

If you have the ideas and the work ready to go, but you're looking for a reliable, tech-savvy, and highly organized partner to share the journey with—let's connect!

Drop me a DM, and I'd love to share my CV and see if we are a good match over on virtual coffee. 📩☕ ( I am based in Slovenia-EU)

This is a bit of a rant, but I'm probably not the only one who feels this way.

I started this job about three years ago. Initially, I liked the work. My boss was intense, but I felt appreciated, which was fair, and I started as a paid intern for about half a year, as legally required. However, I wasn't promoted according to my education level—and since this is a government job, education is everything when it comes to promotions. Instead, the unfulfilled promises just kept piling up.

Later, I got an opportunity in second-level business IT support, but I hated it there. There wasn't much to do other than listen to internal users, and there was very little room for development in the IT department, despite what had been promised. Fast forward: I eventually moved back to my original role while also taking on the responsibilities of a project manager, because the management and workload in the business IT area were completely draining.

After all of that, I lost all my motivation. Being based in the EU, this would technically be the ideal time for me to start a family, go on maternity leave, and step away for a bit and I am actively working on that. But my lack of motivation right now is just overwhelming. I want to feel that spark again—the way I did when I first started here. I want the motivation to learn, to build an app, and to achieve something. Instead, I feel like I am just coasting through this part of my life, and I can't even enjoy the other parts because the job, the lack of appreciation, and the low pay are constantly weighing on me. How did any of you got the motivation to move forward back? Thank you for all the support and comments.

And the same time, yes I could be worse off, jobless, without the house I am paying for (which also just moving to the lower paying position is not an option now), without a boyfriend, the job is very secure, but it is all I can think of.