u/tiny_gnomes

hi, i am, sorry i do not know how reddit works at all. hi, my name is halyn i am a 6 year old alter in a polyfragmented diagnosed DID system. i am, very small and very tired, and there are many many upsetting things around me. i dont even want to talk about them. i am tired,and. i fear even focusing on it for more than a passing second longeri may. lose it.

the problem with DID isthat, i am 6, and i am truly a kid. no i dont mean chrono child, jesus, i am just a child in a system.

no where is oriented for actual systems it feels like,i am fightimg a battle already lost. im tired and idont have a single spoon, i dont knowwhat to eat or how to get up to even make it. buti know the system spaces that i have been in, were not safe spaces, and i do not find it easy to find spaces when we are bodily 23. we are not, okay with nsfw, we are not.okay with. anything but i am just struggljng for the words. to say it

i guess mypoint is, i am a syskid, not actually ageregressing, i truly. NEVER grew up,i donot.know how, i just want the pain to end and i am, venting about it to the void, at least,

i know that i amjust scared, and when that. is over, i might feel better or evn be okay by then. but i amso, currently so scared

i have to do it anyways.

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im 23. was kicked out june 12th. i am still waiting for the obgyn to tell me i am or am not but they are several states away now, so nothing they say matters other than a confirm/deny. either way i will know by tomorrow. i am just scared. i know im 5/6 weeks along if i am pregnant. i am having 3rd trimester symptoms. i just need. emotional support. reddit is a fucking hell hole of a place and no one is obligated to give a shit, i understand that. but im really beaten down already and cant handle anymore bull shit.

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i just need to know its going to be okay. and how to deal with the grief. please, for everyones sake, dont tell me to get a fucking therapist. they are expensive and out of the question. im lucky to have a roof over my head. okay. just. tell me how to make it easier. please

5-6 weeks possibly pregnant, advice/comfort needed

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hi, ive made this post swveral.times. no one is being helpful. none of these reddits actually let you post unless you somehow know magic words. god. i just need advice please, fuck.

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I AM NOT ASKING IF I AM PREGNANT. I DO NOT NEED THAT ADVICE.

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all my feelings are everywhere. im still hoping im not pregnant but i also know. i mean i can feel it. its different than a regular missed period. i am 10 days past my period start date. my first day ofmy last period was may 10th.

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im praying im wrong. i need to be wrong. i cant be right about this. i know i am so, so likely right. all of the symptoms line up including havign spotting two weeks ago in the timeframe of implantation bleeding.

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i know what i have to do. im currently homeless. im on the train heading north . i know what has to be done if i am truly pregnant but i dont *want* to. no one in my life understands.

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i am not allowed to keep the child. my body wont be able to handle it anyways and its selfish but i wish i could. i want to try but its easier earlier.

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i just wish this world wasn't so cruel. that i'd known sooner. something. anything. anything could have been different. better. but it doesnt get easier. it doesnt get better from here.

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i guess im asking, does anyone have experience with this. does anyone know if the grief passes. does anyone know how to not get attached. does it get easier. when does it stop hurting. its okay if no one knows.

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thank you.

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if a moderator deletes this again please at least show me where to post. reddit is just ridiculous

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