Especially when you are living with them and are financially dependent on them. They don't allow you to have irl friends and they always daily talk about your past mistakes. You are home all day preparing for competitive exams and it's tough to ignore what they say. What to do? My parents suffer from anxiety
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I recently came across the comments on one of her posts, and many people shared the same experience. They said she messages them repeatedly, asks the same questions over and over, and doesn't seem interested in understanding or applying the advice she's been given.
She even asks the exact same question almost every day: "If manifestation is real, why do the results fade?" I've personally seen this same question from her at least five times on my feed.
She also messaged me on another one of my accounts. I genuinely tried to help her, but all she did was project her own beliefs onto me and repeatedly try to convince me that manifestation isn't real.
I genuinely feel bad because so many people take the time to write long, thoughtful replies to help her, but almost every response from her is simply, "I don't understand."
She has a lot of limiting beliefs, and unfortunately, no one can help someone who isn't willing to help themselves. She is probably trying to troll people here.
Please save your precious time and energy, and stay away from people like this. Don't engage.
Sp is always the one who starts conversations with me by texting but what he does is. He sends one text "hey" and then he disappears for hours. Why did you even send me a text if you wanna talk with long gaps. Please help what to do. Should I ignore him completely? Until he shows up as my ideal self
Let's say you've been manifesting your Specific Person for days, weeks, months, or even years, and you feel like you're seeing no movement. Then this post is for you.
Everyone else can go read something else. 😭
Before we continue, here's a little spoiler: almost every crush I've ever manifested eventually came into my life. The funny part? I was usually the one who lost interest first. Otherwise, every crush I ever wanted ended up showing up.
Now before you ask, "Why isn't my SP here yet?", let's do a quick reality check.
Be honest with yourself, okay?
By checking the 3D, I mean:
- Constantly checking their social media
- Messaging or calling them
- Asking mutual friends about them
- Looking for signs of movement
- Trying to force things to happen
You don't have to be perfect, but were you avoiding this at least 70% of the time?
Were you listening to 100 SP subliminals?
Changing affirmations every few days?
Switching coaches every week?
Trying a new method every time you felt impatient?
Because if we're being honest, that usually comes from desperation.
And while desperation doesn't automatically ruin your manifestation, most of the time it keeps you focused on not having your desire rather than having it.
You don't need perfect faith.
But did you at least believe manifestation is real?
Or were you constantly consuming negative content, reading failure stories, talking about the old story with everyone, and surrounding yourself with people who kept reminding you of the current reality?
Because if all your attention is on what you don't have, it's hard to focus on what you're trying to create.
You could be doing 10,000 affirmations daily.
But what happens when you stop affirming?
Do you immediately go back to the old story?
Do you spend the rest of the day focusing on the 3D, wondering where they are, what they're doing, and why nothing has happened yet?
Because manifestation isn't just about the 10 minutes you spend affirming. It's also about the thoughts you entertain during the other 23 hours of the day.
And one more question:
Were you even consistent for a minimum of 21 days?
Be honest with yourself.
Sometimes the issue isn't that manifestation isn't working.
Sometimes it's that we're spending more time checking, doubting, and reacting than actually persisting.