u/truthbox1994

So my company that I’ve been with for 9 years hired this girl about 2 years ago who became one of my best friends. We just clicked. We finished each others sentences. We’re both on the spectrum and had so much in common. We did each others hair, had sleep overs, went to raves, movies and shows together.

The only thing we didn’t see eye to eye with was management at my job. They hired a floor manager that did not like me. She liked my friend and a couple other ppl at the job and I would complain to my friend about her sometimes all these new rules she made, but they didn’t seem to apply to my friend or her “favorites.” When I would complain it sometimes get a lil heated saying I wasn’t being singled out, that other ppl get treated the same way and highly disagreed there was any favoritism.

My job used to be very laid back before hiring her as floor manger, it was ok if you were late, didn’t effect anyone or your pay.. It’s a 1099 office job. I am a high producing employee, making pretty decent money, where as my friend really struggled. I have no idea how she justified staying 8 hours a day, days a week and getting 300-400 check. For example, I make around 1500 a week.. I think she stayed partially for me tbh.. idk. But these new rules.. even if you were a minute late my floor manager would track it and screen shot it and you would lose your pay for the day.. unless you wanted to use one of ur vacation days. She did that to me 3 times. I lost 500 dollars because she screen shotted me coming in 3 mins late. 2nd time for 2mins late was for 300 dollars.

A few months ago I was really unwell and apparently only 2 people showed up that day. They were rewarded with passes to come in 15mins late. The only reason I found out about it is because my friend was kind of bragging about it, saying thank god she had a pass for 15mins late because she was so hung over.. she also lived across the street from our job.. where as the other people all lived about 20-30mins away, me included.. I figured we’d have a meeting to let everyone know we were all eligible for these types of things under certain circumstances. But no, weeks went by.

And then the floor manager did it again to me, I was 2mins late coming back from lunch. And I noticed she wasn’t doing this to anyone else as much anymore. Me and her really did not like each other. So I took it up with the general manager. I called her out on her blatant favoritism and her harassment of me. I brought up the 15min passes that were given out as well. I don’t think the general manager knew the floor manager did that. She said that can’t be true and it’s just rumors.. and I went and grabbed the ticket from the other girl and showed it to her. Floor managers jaw on the floor. She said they will have a meeting about it then.

During the meeting, the general manager said it was just rumors but some girls did get some passes and that we were now all eligible to get these passes under certain circumstances. So she definitely contradicted herself. My friend did not speak to me since that meeting.

I did get hurt shortly after and I’ve been working from home ever since. I then noticed she took me off of Snapchat. Then unshared her location with me. And then Friday, she had her, her sister and almost all our mutuals unfollow me too. She removed me as well and they did the same. Which was fine.. I really didnt like her sister.. kinda sucked the mutuals did that too tho like.. you just do what ur told over some petty work drama that has nothing to do with you? Okay then.

I’m honestly glad she moved on, there was nothing there for her at my office. She wasn’t making any money.. I really wanna text her and tell her I wish her the best and it sucks we couldn’t keep a friendship over such a petty work issue… should I just leave it be or wish her the best?

Him and I have had an on and off again thing for almost a year. I’ve known him for 9 years. Met him on a dating site. We dated for a few months, intermingled our friend groups and he even dated one of my friends. She broke up with him cuz she thought he still had feelings for me.

We stayed friends over the years. Mostly just on Facebook. Saw him once or twice. We got along very well. Fast forward to about a year ago, we began seeing each other regularly. Just hang outs. But then we started sleeping together. I developed actual feelings for him. He said he did too but did just get out of a bad relationship. He said he had feelings for me just needed more time to get over his ex.

Months go by and I asked him where he was at. He said he still had feelings, was over his ex but something wasn’t working for him relationship wise for him on his end and if I wanted to date around to feel free. So I did. And I believe he did. We never talked about other dates or anything tho. Maybe I did once or twice if they were bad. I considered him my best friend. It didn’t bother him.. until recently.

We had plans for universal. It was his best friends plan and his friend was complaining he would feel 3rd wheel. And I realized I knew a girl who might be interested in him. I introduce them and it’s going ok for the first few days, he offered to buy her ticket. So even better right? Until I realized his friend blocked me on everything.

Apparently his friend said some stupid ass shit to her. He said if he’s buying the ticket he expects some ass. She said she never asked him to buy her ticket and things were going well and thought it was going in that direction anyways but his demeanor about it was a turn off and didn’t want to go anymore. I call my dude and he’s like yeahhhhh told him not to do that sorry he did that we’re still gonna have a good time tho.

So about a week before I’m asking him so are they picking me up or what is the plan there. He doesn’t respond. The day before 4th of July he is still basically ghosting me and a guy asked me out so I went out with this dude. It was a guy I had slept with before. Night turned violent. I called him and he answered and listened and seemed very bothered that I went out with someone else and had slept with him before. Days before universal he is still not giving any information about it…

And my friend who embarrassed himself with said fuck them and fuck that and she got us tickets for a show. She said his friend said some fucked up shit about both me and him and not bother with him anymore. So I stopped. And then yesterday he posts himself with some literal random girl at universal. I was upset and sick. He then calls me and I don’t answer and asks me for advice about some social media content and my response was to ask that random girl. And then I went off of him.

He said one reason he couldn’t see ourselves being serious is that I’m not athletic enough. I hike, I’m always at a show or doing something. I’m just not a gym person. He said my weight bothered him. The girl he posted was the same size if not bigger than me. Ugh and she looks a lot older than him as well. She looks like she goes to a lot of pta meetings and drives a minivan to get her kids to soccer practice. She looks at least 10 years older than him. At least 5-7. And I hate noticing these things like this but I couldn’t help myself with this one. She’s not ugly or anything but a plain Jane.. we’re both alternative and she looks like she asks people to discuss her lord and savior Jesus Christ. Girl has no social presence either. Could not find her on ANYTHING.

Anyways that’s all I have to say about the matter. Lame.

Is that weird? And I had a lot of fun too? Idk I been trying to go sober and have not been sleeping very well at all. I’ve been really lonely lately too cuz I just haven’t been drinking or partying or anything.

But I had a dream last night that I met up with them at her house and we were taking the rolls Royce up to a hiking trail and tana was upset about the damage on her car and i wasnt telling her it wasn’t that bad and it was fixable and told her what I did to my first car. (I was making the same turn as her and messed up my friends garage really bad, I almost condemned the house, thank god they had insurance)

And then we went hiking and swimming and I don’t really remember much but lots of laughs and fun and one of her friends was teaching me how to take pics but I couldn’t push the stupid button down hard enough. It was like when you can’t punch hard in ur dreams lol.

But I did take a pic of Paige and it looked like she was just smelling her armpit and it was so funny.

Anyways that’s all i remember.

Blocked him on EVERYTHING and my feelings and confusion went away:) been really happy too:P