u/tubsgotchubs

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So my store was one of the stores that had a gross dude doing the diddle in front of a customer. Luckily police were called n at.

It boggles my mind that we aren't having a discussion on the SM/ASM level about what to do in situations like this. My poor cashier is on the young side and didn't know what to do other than get the SM when the customer let her know about what had happened. She feels guilty and I reassured her that she acted appropriately.

Also, anyone else's store get hit with this?

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A reminder that Aegosexuality is more about the mindset- you do not visualize yourself as yourself in your mind in a sexual way.

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Post your "Am I Aego" questions here! Those in the community please be sure to follow the post so we can help our friends find their right microlabel🩶💜🖤🤍

The biggest, most important question I feel that every person should ask when they come across this label is:

"Do I envision myself in a sexual fantasy?"

If the answer is yes, then you aren't aego.

If the answer is only as my OC, a proxy, a fantasy version of myself, no self just sensations, only body parts, *literally anything but you yourself*, then you're aego! 💜🖤🤍🩶

The obvs caveat is it's okay if every once in a blue moon your mind goes "let's try envisioning ourselves" or whatnot. Can't control the subconscious.

But yeah. That's the main question. Doesn't matter if you enjoy sex or hate sex or never had sex- being aego is about how we internalize the lack of ourselves and sex.