u/twoagainstthree

I need someone logical and non judgmental to vent to

As a Muslim, how do I come to terms with the fact that this world was never meant to be peaceful?

I’m devastated by the amount of suffering, injustice, and pain that exists in the world.

I have a strong desire to make the world a better place, but realistically the greatest impact I can have is through helping the people in need, and educating my family.

Is that truly enough in the sight of Allah? How do I find peace knowing I can’t fix everything?

I don’t understand men’s behavior sometimes

4 months ago, there was a guy who developed a pretty obvious crush on me. He’d constantly try to make conversations and linger after class. Following me all over campus and waiting outside the girl’s bathroom hoping to see me leave it and we can walk together.
The thing is, I had a boyfriend at the time (we’d just gone to the same school, but he graduated a semester ahead of me), so this guy had no idea I was taken.

I never led him on. Not even a little. I kept conversations short, stopped being available after class, and always left early. So I was aware enough to not lead him on.

Eventually my boyfriend knew, being the protective type, he actually came to campus to have a conversation with the guy directly. After that, the guy stopped trying to talk to me, but he’d just stare. All the time. Weird shift but at least the approaching stopped.

Fast forward 2 months: I graduated, my boyfriend and I broke up, and I haven’t seen the college guy since.

But he checks my social media. Every. Single. Day.

I blocked his account and he keeps making new* *ones just to keep watching. No interactions just silent, daily checking.

We were never friends. He was told point-blank to respect boundaries.

I’m not interested in the guy but I’m flabbergasted, What’s the psychology here? What’s the point? Isn’t a guy telling him to respect boundaries enough? Especially when it comes to guy code and all that?
What is this guy thinking

قاعدة بوصل لمرحلة انه في كتير غضب جواي اتجاه الناس الي حوالي، كيف اتعامل مع الموضوع؟ وصلت لمرحلة بدي rage room.
طول عمري انسانة رايقة بس الفترة هاي في غضب شديد مش عارفة وين اروح فيه، و بدي أتعامل مع الموضوع بطريقة صحية ياريت تساعدوني

كيف في ناس عندها القدرة تظلم و تسبب أذى جسدي و عاطفي للناس الي حواليها و بشكل مستمر يعني سنين ، و بنفس الوقت بتصلي و بتقرأ قرآن ؟ جد مش قادر استوعب