All right my peeps. Child of the deceased comes up to you crying saying that her Grandma said god needed her daddy more than she did. WHAT YOU DO?! Open or directors and families.

I literally had this happen to me YEARS ago, and the kid is now 15 and NOT doing okay. Also, family drama happened where the parents were legal next of kin and buried him in a cemetery that wasn't marked. Freak accident early in my career, and I've never seen someone like that again. No drugs or drinking, just an auto-immune disease that took his liver and 4 days to live.

She was 3/4 at the time. I stopped her grandparents from saying those words to her a couple of times and explained why.

Well, the grandma still said it.

She was still too young to understand what was actually going on. Everyone was crying and hugging her, and she was just watching everyone's emotions and trying to figure out WHAT was going on.

By the end of the service, CAUSE OBVIOUSLY THE PASTOR SAID IT TOO, this sweet thing came up to me crying and asking me what did little girls like her dog to make God want her dad more.

I believe I said the right thing cause I focused on child psychology and children grief summer camps. Also, I have been told by many adults that have had this happen to them to NEVER let anyone say GOD did this cause it made them HATE GOD.

What have you've done, and bonus if you had the privilege to see them later in life.

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u/ughhhh_username — 2 days ago

Ultra live.... WAIT for a scheduled webinar that you can go to.

For some reason, I failed. So I had to ask, ive done this before! WELL, It has to do with the webinar, that was not happening till this evening. I did everything right set up wise, I got it confirmed, but since a webinar wasn't available and wouldn't, this was the real reason.

If you haven't done it yet, wait for a webinar. 🙄. I assumed you get things ready 1st, THEN you have access. That wasn't the case, thats happened before.

If its not there or not available, don't do it, wait. I "failed" but I just have to attend the webinar. Again, I thought i had set up the email and things.

They said just to wait and there will be another opportunity. I'm not out for good.

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u/ughhhh_username — 6 days ago

Positive reinforcement for growling. Next steps?

My 11mo chocolate lab is reactive to only my senior dog.

With training, he now growls when he feels uncomfortable or wants to go to another room or goes to his crate.

I'm looking for the next steps. Like, how should I react when my pup growls. I would like to build confidence and lower his anxiety so I no longer have to use closed doors to separate.

What should I do:

•At bedtime, he will random growl ferociously in his crate, even with it covered and NO ONE around.

•Just now, my pup heard my senior walking in a different room, which is blocked off (we have to keep them separate). No visual. Just growled loudly.

We keep calm and guide him to his crate for about 15 min and rearrange the room.

To add, my senior is deaf.

Whenever they interact they are alway supervised, we use treats and praises so they are comfortable, we have the pup on a leash during these times.

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u/ughhhh_username — 28 days ago

Indoors material muzzle for 1 to 2 hour intervals?

I'm looking to try a muzzle, its been suggested to me by my vet, just to get to the next steps and peace of mind for me. We separate by doors as of now.

Long story short: I'm looking for what materials should I start researching to help narrow down my options

My 11mo chocolate lab has been reactive towards my senior dog, who is deaf and has a bad back. Lab will display aggression by opening his mouth wide and swinging his head around, which knocks down my senior, and he'll get scraped by the pups teeth. He has not bit down and I want to keep it like that.

My pup doesn't give warnings to my senior, and my senior is now afraid of him, which has become an issue with corrective training. He only does this to my senior dog and only inside the house.

Any material advice? Something comfortable to train him with involing him laying down on the floor or "place"? I like the designs on Big Snoof, but I don't see pictures of dogs inside their houses.

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u/ughhhh_username — 1 month ago

I JUST found out I'm pregnant... tomorrow's father's day. Quick cute ideas?

I obviously do not have time to get anything (shirts socks etc.) and I live in the middle of nowhere. I just contacted my obgyn. I didn't think it would happen so fast after seeing my obgyn a few weeks ago after so many years of no luck (irregular periods)

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Any cheap fast ideas on something cute and small? I can't just go get buns, hahaha.

My husband and I prank each other, I wanted to do a small thing.

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My husband and I are on the same page. I know he wants to be told right away and will respect that. But tomorrow, lol.

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u/ughhhh_username — 2 months ago

Astro/ Stopped doing projects due to my quality suddenly getting 1/5. Just a rant.

Disputed all of my quality tasks, talked to QMO brought this to the attention that the new reviewers aren't doing their job. Screen shots and proof. A QMO pm me to stop TALKING about it.

See this email this morning that they want to go through everyones issues BUTTTT first "search to make sure this hasn't come up already"

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That community page could do sooooo much to organize things. I get a little IM chat box on my community page, and searching??? If a QMO updated something HUGE AND IMPORTANT at 1:39am. Send out emails!!!

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Well, all my 1/5 are 5/5 now. All my reviews were "this is amazingly done love it, but Meta had no background noise or transcript.....

I had to pause cause I didn't want to get kicked off cause with this group people randomly get kicked, and usually its quality.

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u/ughhhh_username — 2 months ago

My 10mo. Pup resource guards, after months of training they're able to play again, adorable video. But... during nighttime...

But when he's in his crate at night, he will growl and try attacking her. Even when the crate is covered.

Ahhhhhhhh.

u/ughhhh_username — 3 months ago

I technically understand, but it doesn't mention how much, like, will it take a day to use up a months worth. I used it a lot for practical uses and red teaming, and A LOT when they pay you to compare.

I guess it's officially true about money.

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u/ughhhh_username — 4 months ago