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I said YESSSSS to Derrick Royale in Champagne with a plunge!

I had my appointment at Bombshell Bridal Boutique in Detroit metropolitan area and it was such an amazing experience.
But hear me out guys. She is not JUST my dream dress.

This sounds absolutely insane, but this dress is like my dress soulmate. It’s like it was MADE for me. Like the designer met me and said “let me make this girl’s personality as a dress”.

I did add the plunge because I want my girls to shine at least a little bit. I don’t have em for no reason 🤪

I cannot wait for when my dress comes in. It’s going to be a show stopper.

If you ask in the comments, I can tell you what my theme is. The wedding is in December of next year. 🥰

PICTURES DO NOT DO HER SPARKLE JUSTICE. the closest is those mirror photos.

Im not even sure how to start this or why I’m posting this. Maybe because I don’t have anyone else to talk it through with? Idk. It’s gonna be a long one though.

My best friend, my rock got engaged over a year ago and were supposed to get married this year. However due to things I won’t go into detail about, they had to postpone.

Fast forward to now, I just got engaged a few weeks ago. I was nervous to even tell them because I knew their situation was brittle and I didn’t want to step on any toes.
I did tell them and they seemed happy. I haven’t discussed any of my wedding details with my friend because I’m worried it will upset them and just cause more issues on their end. Something I kinda created in my head because I know how bummed they are.
Well I guess I was right in doing so because I asked them one question about my wedding.. and now they’re taking much longer to respond or not responding at all. I’m not going into details with them. Just something I was super excited about and wanted to share that with them because they’re my best friend.

I feel like I’m not even allowed to be excited about my wedding around them in fear of striking a nerve..

At first I thought it was all in my head but now..? Not so much.

It sucks because I always pictured wedding planning with them. Getting excited, talking all the details, sharing stories about the stresses of wedding planning.. sharing every fine detail..
Like we did with their wedding..
and now I feel like I have no one to get excited with.

My fiance is super excited and everything. We have both already cried and been excited about our venue and we’ve been planning things out together and it’s been awesome. But it’s not the same kind of excitement that life long best friends share.

I feel like I’m mourning a little bit.

If you were in this spot, how would you feel? What would you say?

Derrick Royale - Plus size Bride -

Best friend is jealous?? Maybe??