my friend (21)'s parents are abusive and the psychologist has informed authorities about her sh tendencies and now they insist that she has to go aiims for an evaluation or they will inform her parents. What if she goes to aiims and they inform her parents?
I have been braless for a year. It's mostly cause I am just home, or just go out to local market and stuff. Now I found myself accepting work in a different city, and I started wearing them as practice for that and they are sooooo bad. Id rather stab myself than be in it for an entire day. But not wearing them is not an option either because I have saggy breasts, and a larger cup. It doesnt look professional really. But the work is not a desk job, so I really need to be comfortable the entire day to do my best work. If you have experienced this please let me know how you sorted it out.
edit: There is something called bonded bras I am just finding out, and there are jockey tshirt bras that dont have underwire, unsure if they would give enough support
I thought it was banned to save the health of goldsmith who had to deal with it regularly, but not so sure now.
So my mother (50F) is so so pretty. I know every daughter would say it, but she is objectively conventionally beautiful. For example she went to the protest at Jantar Mantar yesterday and 4 people came to tell her how pretty she is. All my friends in college would ask me if she is my older sister, not to flatter her but they were genuinely surprised. I was even insecure at school when she would come because everybody would be like that's your mother??
She never got any pretty privilege though because she married into a family that was very abusive. This led to chronic illnesses back to back. And despite the world telling her she is pretty she feels very low because she has a lot of wrinkles on her forehead. I tried to tell her to accept them, but honestly, no one her age or even older than her has them so she I believe is rightly concerned. It also reminds her of the hardship that she has gone through. Sometimes when she is sleeping, I look at her face and start crying because all of her trauma is visible on her face.
Now I think the only thing to do is to avoid future aging as much as possible. I tried taking her to the dermatologist but frankly both of us have now developed a phobia of doctors. I need practical advice that has worked for someone her age that you know. Any daughter that has prepared a regime for her mother please let me know. I am thinking of starting retinol for her but would want to know your experiences, advice, product recommendations... anything. I refuse to chatgpt I just need a real person.
please dm if you have any leads. not for regular but where we can order when needed.
You must have seen posts nowadays speaking of being a bitch unless you want to develop an autoimmune disease. This is a PSA for that very thing. Women, please don't ever suffer because it is the easier thing to do. It will come back. We've been taught in college how the majority of autoimmune diseases patients are women and how it relates to the culture where a woman (has to) stay quiet. I have 2 friends who developed it because of harassment as children and no one there to protect them and guide them through it. Migraine, although not an autoimmune disease is an extension of this very thing. As it happens in Indian families, my mother was blamed for my father's actions. After years of being suppressed and then this event, her body couldn't take it anymore. Now she is physically incapable of speaking out, because one loud voice or one complex thought triggers a migraine that turns her into a zombie.
Take this as a warning my friends. May this never happen to anyone of you. If you are in a situation like this, not just with your partner but with anyone in your life, know that this is a possible future.
Edit: she never watches TV on her own, I always force her to watch it so she can relax sometimes. Today she came up to me on her own, asking me to show her something. Do you have any recommendations of any media that doesn't have loud, or more importantly sudden loud sounds? I think only people who suffer from a sound related migraine might know this. Also my comments are open for anyone who needs advice on how to get on with a chronic pain like this. I'd love to share or receive any tips.
do we really have to throw them in the bin 😕
my whole sentence is "Ich schwimme schon seit einer Weile. Ich moechte endlich auftauchen" It is a metaphor for depression, how you go deep inside your own mind, a very dangerous place to be swimming alone.
extension is .is if it helps
ask actors playing previous friends/foes to come and doctor would be shown as transitioning between all of them, with increasing speed, the assumption would be something is wrong with the regeneration process. He is so unsure of what to be that he just keeps switching/glitching. Heck if they wanna go crazy they could even let the whole episode go like this. Poor villain would go crazy.