u/untohim

im sorry...but im flabbergasted. im just now learning that his father is Victor Marchione, a ny/nj doctor, & aris father is ed butera. i just never realized ari had a step dad and a half brother😭 im also still creeped out that spongebob looks EXACTLY like frankie. how did she not see that?

and also, she has another half/step brother named James Marchione!! im just shocked i never knew any of this

30f, my first ever speeding ticket.I'm lucky it was only forty dollars. he said I was going fifty six in a forty, i really didn't notice i was speeding until I saw the cop and looked down at my speedometer and slowed down a bit, i was trying to keep pace with the cars around me. i'm under my dad's insurance and i'm just so afraid it's going to go up because of this. i was also snacking , and on the phone via bluetooth , which I admitted to the cop and apologized. he said he could have written me another ticket for $200 for distracted driving but he didnt. what do i do? court? pay it? how likely is it that the insurance will increase?

UPDATE: upon further inspection of the ticket, it says 3 things. one being "electronic device use while operating" which has no fine (he couldnt have fined me anyway so im not sure why its on there, i was using bluetooth which is 100% legal here), the second says "unsafe operation of mv" (the eating while driving) which is what the $40.00 is for. and the third says 56 in a 40 (no fine). so im not sure if this will still affect my insurance or not? since the only fine is for the unsafe operation / eating

Hey Reddit, I need some advice on a crazy, unsettling experience involving severe harassment at the grocery store the other day. I still can't believe it happened. i wasnt sure what category to post this in , because i'm very curious about the spiritual aspect of her face changing as well.

I had finished shopping & stopped my cart right before self-checkout to collect myself because checkout always makes my anxiety flare up. While standing completely still, an older woman walked up. You could immediately tell she was on something-she had no teeth, wrinkly skin, and completely wild eyes. She looked at me, said "Whoa!" & giggled. Since my cart wasn't moving, I assumed it was a weird joke, gave a polite giggle back& ignored it.

A few seconds later, things went off the rails. She grabbed the front of my shopping cart, violently threw her entire body backwards& slammed herself onto the ground.

I thought she was still joking until she looked up. Her face completely morphed, exactly like those stories about watching a narcissist's face change in real time. Her eyes went pitch black & it looked like pure evil was emanating from her. She started screaming at the top of her lungs, calling me a b**** & claiming I ran my cart into her.

I immediately looked for witnesses. Thankfully, an older man right behind me spoke up & said, “I saw the whole thing, you didn't touch her" I looked at the woman & said, "There's a camera right above you & multiple witnesses." She reluctantly moved to a checkout lane but kept screaming.

I did a lap around the store for 5 minutes on the phone with my boyfriend to calm down, hoping she'd leave. When I returned to check out, she was screaming to the employees: "That's the b**** that hit me with her cart! The one in the short dress!" Another woman in line rolled her eyes and snapped back, "I'm in a short dress too, do you have a problem with me?" Everyone was rolling their eyes; they knew she was full of it.

I walked over to the employees * said, "Take everything she says with a grain of salt, she is clearly on crack." She flipped out & called me a crackhead in return (which makes no sense-if she thought I was a crackhead, she wouldn't have targeted me for a payday scam). I finally told her that if she didn't stop, I was calling the police & having my boyfriend come down. She finally left, screaming the whole way out.

The employees apologized to me repeatedly & admitted she is a regular who always causes trouble, but they've never seen her act like this. I was furious and let them know it. They completely failed to intervene or kick her out while she was staging a fake crime. If it weren't for the cameras and witnesses, I could have been arrested. I told them I wouldn't return unless she was officially banned and trespassed, but they just gave me a generic corporate response.

I handled myself perfectly-I never raised my voice or cursed. But the second I hit the parking lot, the adrenaline dump happened, & left shaking and in tears.

I've already emailed corporate demanding they preserve the security footage. Because she is a regular, they can easily identify her. What are my options here? Has anyone successfully pressed charges for harassment or gotten corporate to ban a customer like this?

PS, ever since i've been born again , i've noticed i'm a lot more sensitive to spiritual matters. but i've never seen anything like this. her face changing like that in the demeanor change was terrifying

Hey Reddit, I need some advice on a crazy, unsettling experience involving severe harassment at the grocery store the other day. I still can't believe it happened. This incident occurred at the north attleboro stop and shop right next to mcdonald's near the center of town.

I had finished shopping & stopped my cart right before self-checkout to collect myself because checkout always makes my anxiety flare up. While standing completely still, an older woman walked up. You could immediately tell she was on something-she had no teeth, wrinkly skin, and completely wild eyes. She looked at me, said "Whoa!" & giggled. Since my cart wasn't moving, I assumed it was a weird joke, gave a polite giggle back& ignored it.

A few seconds later, things went off the rails. She grabbed the front of my shopping cart, violently threw her entire body backwards& slammed herself onto the ground.

I thought she was still joking until she looked up. Her face completely morphed, exactly like those stories about watching a narcissist's face change in real time. Her eyes went pitch black & it looked like pure evil was emanating from her. She started screaming at the top of her lungs, calling me a b**** & claiming I ran my cart into her.

I immediately looked for witnesses. Thankfully, an older man right behind me spoke up & said, “I saw the whole thing, you didn't touch her" I looked at the woman & said, "There's a camera right above you & multiple witnesses." She reluctantly moved to a checkout lane but kept screaming.

I did a lap around the store for 5 minutes on the phone with my boyfriend to calm down, hoping she'd leave. When I returned to check out, she was screaming to the employees: "That's the b**** that hit me with her cart! The one in the short dress!" Another woman in line rolled her eyes and snapped back, "I'm in a short dress too, do you have a problem with me?" Everyone was rolling their eyes; they knew she was full of it.

I walked over to the employees * said, "Take everything she says with a grain of salt, she is clearly on crack." She flipped out & called me a crackhead in return (which makes no sense-if she thought I was a crackhead, she wouldn't have targeted me for a payday scam). I finally told her that if she didn't stop, I was calling the police & having my boyfriend come down. She finally left, screaming the whole way out.

The employees apologized to me repeatedly & admitted she is a regular who always causes trouble, but they've never seen her act like this. I was furious and let them know it. They completely failed to intervene or kick her out while she was staging a fake crime. If it weren't for the cameras and witnesses, I could have been arrested. I told them I wouldn't return unless she was officially banned and trespassed, but they just gave me a generic corporate response.

I handled myself perfectly-I never raised my voice or cursed. But the second I hit the parking lot, the adrenaline dump happened, & left shaking and in tears.

I've already emailed corporate demanding they preserve the security footage. Because she is a regular, they can easily identify her. What are my options here? Has anyone successfully pressed charges for harassment or gotten corporate to ban a customer like this?

Hey Reddit, I need some advice on a crazy, unsettling experience involving severe harassment at the grocery store the other day. I still can't believe it happened. This incident occurred at the north attleboro stop and shop right next to mcdonald's near the center of town.

I had finished shopping & stopped my cart right before self-checkout to collect myself because checkout always makes my anxiety flare up. While standing completely still, an older woman walked up. You could immediately tell she was on something-she had no teeth, wrinkly skin, and completely wild eyes. She looked at me, said "Whoa!" & giggled. Since my cart wasn't moving, I assumed it was a weird joke, gave a polite giggle back& ignored it.

A few seconds later, things went off the rails. She grabbed the front of my shopping cart, violently threw her entire body backwards& slammed herself onto the ground.

I thought she was still joking until she looked up. Her face completely morphed, exactly like those stories about watching a narcissist's face change in real time. Her eyes went pitch black & it looked like pure evil was emanating from her. She started screaming at the top of her lungs, calling me a b**** & claiming I ran my cart into her.

I immediately looked for witnesses. Thankfully, an older man right behind me spoke up & said, “I saw the whole thing, you didn't touch her" I looked at the woman & said, "There's a camera right above you & multiple witnesses." She reluctantly moved to a checkout lane but kept screaming.

I did a lap around the store for 5 minutes on the phone with my boyfriend to calm down, hoping she'd leave. When I returned to check out, she was screaming to the employees: "That's the b**** that hit me with her cart! The one in the short dress!" Another woman in line rolled her eyes and snapped back, "I'm in a short dress too, do you have a problem with me?" Everyone was rolling their eyes; they knew she was full of it.

I walked over to the employees * said, "Take everything she says with a grain of salt, she is clearly on crack." She flipped out & called me a crackhead in return (which makes no sense-if she thought I was a crackhead, she wouldn't have targeted me for a payday scam). I finally told her that if she didn't stop, I was calling the police & having my boyfriend come down. She finally left, screaming the whole way out.

The employees apologized to me repeatedly & admitted she is a regular who always causes trouble, but they've never seen her act like this. I was furious and let them know it. They completely failed to intervene or kick her out while she was staging a fake crime. If it weren't for the cameras and witnesses, I could have been arrested. I told them I wouldn't return unless she was officially banned and trespassed, but they just gave me a generic corporate response.

I handled myself perfectly-I never raised my voice or cursed. But the second I hit the parking lot, the adrenaline dump happened, & left shaking and in tears.

I've already emailed corporate demanding they preserve the security footage. Because she is a regular, they can easily identify her. What are my options here? Has anyone successfully pressed charges for harassment or gotten corporate to ban a customer like this?