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Hi guys, need your help . I am stressed out as i got to know that i have hsv-1 as i recently got cold sores and its incurable. So i have few questions, if anybody know and can help me . I would appreciate alot.

1. i have heard that while we have cold sores , we cant be intimate with our partner and i understand that. But once i am completely healed , like no visible cold sore . Can i still kiss my husband like usual 😔 . Feels like my love life is gona change due to this as i dont wana transfer anything to him especially genitals hsv.

2. even if i dont have cold sore , we cant anymore engage in oral sex as their is still chance ,he can get it from my mouth?

So it means , if we eliminate oral sex , and use condom will it be fine. Can ut prevent him from getting genital hsv.

3. what precautions can we take and still enjoy our love life as usual . My husband is very supportive and he doesn't care and just loves me . But i dont him to suffer . Please help me . How can i prevent any genital hsv as i just have hsv-1 from cold sores but i dont wana give him anything on his genitals or anything very serious.

I hope everything gets fine soon 🙏

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