u/venus-es

Just curious cause I got some teenagers in my Kingdom Hall and a sister tells me her tea sometimes cause she knows I won't tell anyone lol.

I will give mine that happened recently. A sister was exposed reading smut on her kindle cause another sister borrowed it… nothing happened but it got a bit awkward cause she was always preaching about not listening to demonic music and stuff…

Hi, we’ve been together for almost a year. He was a great guy. Does everything right, until it comes to his mother and their relationship. He is highly codependent on her. Affected our relationship a lot.

His lack of urgency and dependency to build a life with me. Doesn’t cook doesn’t do anything at all. I got kicked out of their house before cause she wanted to go on a walk with him. All sorts of things.

Today I had enough. After months of battling this and being told to shut up and stay silent. I crashed out when he was gone all day because him and his mommy wanted to go do activities together for the 830303th time this week.

He called me names. Insulted me. Degraded me so much to the point I almost had a panic attack. he knew my abusive ex bf said those things to me. I feel like a big side of him got revealed today. How badly he stands up for his mother’s relationship.

I never seen him defend his own mother this way before and how far he insulted me beyond forgiveness. I need someone to help me.

He’s a lovely and sweet boyfriend, I’m 22F, we’ve been together for more than a year now. However, something seems to trigger me; his relationship with his mother. His dad is not alive so he only has a step dad (married for 10 years with his mom). Here’s the list:

\-He still lives with his mom
\-she cooks for him everyday
\-does his laundry
\-cleans for him
\-They have a pet nickname for each other
\-they travel every weekend together to the lake
\- every single day he goes grocery shopping with her
\- she drives him around to job interviews
\- Once we got into an argument that made me cry in a 8h long car ride, when she called he told me to say hi to her in a positive attitude or else he’ll get mad
\- she doesn’t really pressure him to move out
\- she gets offended when he doesn’t wanna help her
\- she knows what age my period started cause he told her
\- when he used to work, he would drive to her house first before seeing me after work every single day before sleeping at mine (went on for months), when I confronted him, he told me “I can’t see my own mother now?”
\- she gets massages from him
\- they talk in a baby voice to each other when they call
\- he tells her everything practically
\- he just doesn’t make concrete plans to come live with me. He says he wants to. But he stays at home.

Yea… what do u guys think? I have a gut feeling that even when he will move out (i live an ocean away), he’s still going to have tendencies of not doing good enough as a man. Idk.