Advice on new kitten with dog
I feel so weird asking a bunch of strangers to give me advice on this situation but I feel like this is the only way I can find any direction given how indecisive I can be.
Long story short, I’ve had my border collie for about 4 years now (got him as a puppy) and he’s just the best dog in the world. My husband and I were suddenly feeling like we needed to add a kitten to our life (we had some before when we got our dog because the original plan was to have cats but we got so attached to our dog that we had to give away the kittens to friends around that time), but now we felt like we were really ready for a feline companion.
Fast forward to this week, I’m currently doing a foster to adopt and it’s only been 3 days but the kitten just really hates my dog. He’s very curious about her and with her size, probably looks so scary and big so I understand that this could take some time. Yesterday she got so frightened when he creeped up on us in her separate room (I’m keeping her between my laundry and study room), that she let out a really bad stank from her anal glands I’m guessing. I just don’t know if they’ll ever get along and feel like I’ve made a huge mistake bringing her here.
I’m just feeling so conflicted and my husband hasn’t been very helpful in this decision making process and is basically saying “you do what you wanna do”. She’s soooo cute and feel like I’m already attached but at the same time I feel like I’m fighting to divide my time between my WFH job, giving my dog attention, and tiring this little kitty out. Will this all be worth it? I really don’t know what to do and almost decided today that I should just give her back to the shelter.