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When your Doc says “Trust the Process” after 4 years of treatment

Hi Ladies,

I'm hoping to get insight and feedback on anyone who is done a Mock Transfer for Receptiva, ERA and Emma/Alice testing. After 3 failed transfers and 2 pregnancy loses my Doctor
Has suggested doing Receptiva, ERA and Emma/Alice Testing. Really frustrated it wasn't done before but can't go backwards, so we are in cycle to have it done. With my 5 day transfers they've had me do a trigger shot and then a week later the transfer. And that's what I was told up until today when I had a different nurse and the PA not Doc advising. Today they did an Ultrasound scan and my follicle was at almost 19mm and they said I would trigger tonight (Sat) to come in Friday for the mock transfer/biopsy. This threw me off since it was a day earlier than what I had previously been told( come in a week after trigger) and what I did in my last transfer. I realized this only after I got home and the clinic was closed. So I texted the Doc and she responded with this: "Just trust the process. You are starting Progesterone. We have to do it that way for ERA otherwise we cannot replicate it" My response was "I do trust the process. I'm just saying the day of biopsy/transfer that I'm being told by the PA is not representative of how we've done my 5 day transfer and progesterone so we aren't replicating it if it's a day early. That's my whole concern" Am I going crazy here? What was everyone else's protocol when it came to this testing? The Doc plays fast and loose a lot of the time. I've been seeing her for over 4 years and they have made mistakes along the way. This isn't a nail or hair appointment and they make trusting the process hard when they give you contradictory instructions. Any advice or insight would be very much appreciated!

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u/wandering_aimlessly8 — 4 days ago
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Mock Transfer- Receptiva, ERA and Emma/Alice Testing

Hi Ladies,

I'm hoping to get insight and feedback on anyone who is done a Mock Transfer for Receptiva, ERA and Emma/Alice testing. After 3 failed transfers and 2 pregnancy loses my Dr. Has suggested doing Receptiva, ERA and Emma/Alice Testing. Really frustrated it wasn't done before but can't go backwards, so we are in cycle to have it done. With my 5 day transfers they've had me do a trigger shot and then a week later the transfer. And that's what I was told up until today when I had a different nurse and the PA not Dr. advising. Today the did an Ultrasound scan and my follicle was at almost 19mm and the said I would trigger tonight (Sat) to come in Friday for the mock transfer/biopsy. This threw me off since it was a day earlier than what I had previously been told( come in a week after trigger) and what I did in my last transfer. I realized this only after I got home and the clinic was closed. So I texted the Dr. and she responded with this: "Just trust the process. You are starting Progesterone. We have to do it that way for ERA otherwise we cannot replicate it" My response was "I do trust the process. I'm just saying the day of biopsy/transfer that I'm being told by the PA is not representative of how we've done my 5 day transfer and progesterone so we aren't replicating it if it's a day early. That's my whole concern" Am I going crazy here? What was everyone else's protocol when it came to this testing? The Dr. plays fast and loose a lot of the time. I've been seeing her for over 4 years and they have made mistakes along the way. This isn't a nail or hair appointment and they make trusting the process hard when they give you contradictory instructions. Any advice or insight would be very much appreciated!

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u/wandering_aimlessly8 — 4 days ago

Mocker Transfer- Receptiva, ERA and Emma/Alice Testing

Hi Ladies,

I'm hoping to get insight and feedback on anyone who is done a Mock Transfer for Receptiva, ERA and Emma/Alice testing. After 3 failed transfers and 2 pregnancy loses my Dr. Has suggested doing Receptiva, ERA and Emma/Alice Testing. Really frustrated it wasn't done before but can't go backwards, so we are in cycle to have it done. With my 5 day transfers they've had me do a trigger shot and then a week later the transfer. And that's what I was told up until today when I had a different nurse and the PA not Dr. advising. Today the did an Ultrasound scan and my follicle was at almost 19mm and the said I would trigger tonight (Sat) to come in Friday for the mock transfer/biopsy. This threw me off since it was a day earlier than what I had previously been told( come in a week after trigger) and what I did in my last transfer. I realized this only after I got home and the clinic was closed. So I texted the Dr. and she responded with this: "Just trust the process. You are starting Progesterone. We have to do it that way for ERA otherwise we cannot replicate it" My response was "I do trust the process. I'm just saying the day of biopsy/transfer that I'm being told by the PA is not representative of how we've done my 5 day transfer and progesterone so we aren't replicating it if it's a day early. That's my whole concern" Am I going crazy here? What was everyone else's protocol when it came to this testing? The Dr. plays fast and loose a lot of the time. I've been seeing her for over 4 years and they have made mistakes along the way. This isn't a nail or hair appointment and they make trusting the process hard when they give you contradictory instructions. Any advice or insight would be very much appreciated!

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u/wandering_aimlessly8 — 4 days ago