u/wastefultea

I had unprotected sex May 16th, the guy told me he’s clean multiple times but I asked to use condoms each time we met and he just forgot about it or idk, I’m concerned because idk any of his sexual history, we did pullout method but I ended up getting pregnant, I terminated because I’m young and he’s really old and I was in a horrible depressive episode I would normally never do anything like that, I’m usually sex repulsed even. Since he didn’t fully cum inside of me obviously but I still got pregnant, I’m wondering what the chance of me having HIV is. I’m waiting for my test results but everything is really scary for me right now, it’s been 24 hours at least but they said within 72 they’ll call me…Also when I went to the hospital after termination to make sure it worked they tested me for stds and everything was negative except BV, which they gave me antibiotics for and it cleared up. I’m on my period rn and I’m normally fatigued on my period but my brain is convincing me I have HIV and i’m really scared 😭😭😭
Edit: Results came back negative!

This is my second period after a successful medical abortion, it hurts mostly on the left side and it’s like I can almost feel my uterus squeezing on that side, usually my periods are bad like still trying to get diagnosed with stuff but oh my goodness I can hardly keep myself standing up without feeling immense pain.

I take 60mg duloxetine for fibro which usually manages my pain pretty good, but I had chronic tonsillitis so I had my tonsils removed the 7th, it started with my legs feeling horrible but when I woke up on the 8th at like 4am, it felt like when you go to the gym and hit every exercise possible and you wake up sore but honestly worse than that, they also prescribed me percocet for pain and inflammation but that’s like not doing anything besides letting me sleep for maybe 30 minutes. I’m just wondering if anyone else has experienced this type of pain after surgery

Is this normal? I’m about 18 hrs post op and it’s 3am and I genuinely cannot sleep from the amount of pain + I have to keep reminding myself how to breathe. I also suffer from chronic pain but I took my meds so it really shouldn’t be doing much, but this really hurts and i’m just really hoping it’s nothing serious. The medicine they prescribed me was percocet I think? 5mg oxycodone and 325mg acetaminophen and they said can take every four hours, and since the pain has been pretyy bad that’s what I’ve been doing. I’ve taken 4 so far and they came with 28. Has anyone else experienced?

I got a new job but I literally have no clothes for work, parents can’t help out (mom always making excuses even though I send her money when she asks) and their dress code is fairly simple, just stuff I don’t have.

I’m bleeding like a normalish period but I haven’t seen any clots yet. I’m now taking the second round of pills but I’m worried. Other symptoms were sweating profusely and diarrhea.

I fucked up doing sexwork for money, lost my bf (he said he was fine w me doing it but apparently wasn’t and i guess me getting pregnant was his last straw and he broke down and told his family and they told him we should split up and they’re upset), (i should mention my bf is in TX, and I’m in NC and haven’t seen him since October) and the person who got me pregnant is an incompetent asshole. I’m just going through a lot right now because I found out I was pregnant at the surgery center to get my tonsils removed, and I had to lie to my dad and my grandma that my blood levels were too low and that’s why they couldn’t do the surgery. I’m going to do the at home medical abortion, i ordered from MAP and they’ll be here saturday latest. I think I just need advice because it’s not like I wanted to do sexwork forever and I have so much past trauma that made me not care about what happened to me, so the person who i did it with i brought condoms and everything and we said we’d use them over text, but he pinned me down and put it in without using them… I just feel really alone right now and I’m like 4 weeks 5 days I think? I just want reassurance and someone to finally knock some sense into me lol