u/wildpastaa

Anyone has an aesthetics clinic to recommend that sells Pico Laser in packages of 3 or 4 treatments? My pigmentation doesn’t require any more than 3-4 sessions max, but the ten plus clinics I’ve enquired are all selling packages 6/8/10+ sessions. That’s a crazy overkill for just sun-spot pigmentation! I’ve already had consults, I do not have melasma. Just straightforward sun spot pigmentation. Doctors also said 3-4 sessions but sell me things like 10 sessions the heck.

Thanks!!!

I can’t get hold of Gojek support via the app unless the ride has gotten into an emergency or an accident. My driver is refusing to follow his GPS and insisting on a shorter km route that will take much longer to arrive the destination. Gojek used to have a hotline button in the app, anyone still has the actual number?

edit: It’s past the original ETA and we’re still nowhere near. How does this even make $$ sense to the driver??

Question for those who have aircon installed but don’t wanna use it:

With all the talk about the hot weather recently, is your hesitation to use your AC due to the actual cost or just due to people telling you that it’s just expensive? How much is considered “expensive” to you all?

In a household with 1 AC on at any one time, our aircon usage costs us around $2 to $5 a day depending on how much we’re home. This is less than 1 cup of bubbletea. Total electricity bill is $60+ if we’re not working from home everyday, and $140+ if we’re working from home daily for the entire month. We’re lucky to be able to afford it comfortably. In fact it’s so comfy at home, we don’t even go out lol so we prob save on meals and shopping outside.

My homeowner-to-be friends asked abt my bill and they thought it would cost multiple hundreds to have the AC on so frequently - because that’s what their parents told them. So I’m wondering if the adage “On aircon bill will be damn high” is causing lots of folks to resist AC usage, especially in this sweltering heat.

Been deconstructing my faith alot this year. I have come to the conclusion that I absolutely do not believe in the “God is always good” notion that evangelicals are always yapping mindlessly about - but I believe in the existence of a God/higher power and the history/theology that Christ did die on the cross. What does that make me?

I also don’t like Christians because they’re the worst people I ever met in my life. The thought of going to heaven and spending eternity with their souls give me major ick. Is that really how I want to spend eternity??? I want peace in the afterlife, even if it’s the christian heaven. But I don’t wanna be surrounded by christians!!

Feeling so confused about where I really stand. I still have fundamental beliefs about the creation and Jesus dying on the cross for sins and all, but that’s about it really. I detest everything else about the religion - especially its people.

Everytime I see a gender reveal, the mother always seems to want a girl (usually, if she doesn’t already have one). I always wonder if they ever stop and think of how horrifying it is to be female in this world - or do they only think of having a “mini me”? Statistically, nearly 1 in 3 women experiences sexual or physical violence. That’s a 33.3% chance, mate. Obviously, the horrors of being female isn’t limited to SA and violence. But seriously, do mothers not think before they wish upon the gender of their child??? I don’t think that being born male in an increasingly redpill society is okay either. I don’t think that the current state of the world should have any new babies being born in it - period.

I know that life exists outside of the internet, but it really really sucks seeing so much negativity and hate towards us childfree folks. I know that the vitriol comes from a place of misery, envy, bitterness, misogyny etc. etc. , but it still sucks to feel that energy. I believe that we made the wonderful decision to be CF with the best intentions, and that we harm no one. I also lack real-life support to talk about this.