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What the title says!!! I have footage of the rear-ended car touching me from a woman who works at the building across the street, but not of the California plate car hitting the woman behind me & causing the chain reaction.

Thank you everyone

Hi all, I stumbled upon this while reading another addiction-related sub and feel like it’s time to conquer my own addiction.

I know we aren’t allowed to put ages here so I’ll try to be broad with my timeframes/numbers. It’s been 6 years since I’ve lost my virginity and I’ve been with 72 partners. Only 3 of those were with a bf I was exclusive with, and I cheated twice on my second bf (once at a bar and second went further, two different people as well). I might be missing between 2-5 but shockingly remember most.

I’ve done it in cars and in motel rooms I have no business being in. I’ve been in several threesomes and one foursome.

I feel a lot of shame since my family is pretty conservative about this type of thing (Asian). I feel like western families are a bit more tolerant of sexuality in general due to Greek life culture/college party culture but I could be wrong.

I used to dabble in porn as well but now live in a state with a ban so ironically can only find it here on Reddit. But I don’t have a huge issue with it, for me it’s hookups.

One of my friends is a couple years older and is trying to coach me to be less ashamed but in the sense of encouraging me to not be ashamed of my horniness.

My mom’s really concerned about the fact that I am completely okay going out to a bar/club/dancehall then not going back home that night (because I’m hooking up with someone). I’ve driven 1 hour from a dancehall to meet someone in a military town.

I’m already in therapy but for depression. I see her once a month cus $$$. I’m off meds. We havent even scratched the surface of my relationship problems. I think my sex addiction/male centered mindset has alienated me from old friends and new friends because that’s all I talk about. Thanks all sorry for the long post, would love any advice!

FYI I’ve started looking through SAA website but enjoy hearing personal experiences the most.

What the title says- I have a bunch of tampons and unopened pads I don’t plan on using. should I bring them to general womens shelters found on google or does anyone know of any grassroots local efforts? Thanks!

Hi all, wondering if there’s a place I can go to get my feet/shoes sized properly?? For ex, knowing if I’m D/E/EE width)

I’ve been getting consistent blisters & pain everywhere on my feet, from toe boxes to sides of my ankles.

I wear different styles of shoes. In particular I want to get the right flats, heels, sandals, and boots (cowboy or not). I also want flats that don’t cause me to sweat like crazy…

Do I need a podiatrist or can I go to any footwear store? Thanks!

Hi guys! Looking for a place to two-step & country dance tonight 💃

I typically enjoy Mavs Buda and Wild West Cedar Park. I’ve been to White Horse maybe 3x but only on weekends and disliked the crowd all 3 times.

I’ve taken class at Sagebrush but always left before social dancing starts. I used to be more regular at Broken Spoke but again, not a big fan of the crowd.

Please recommend one of the above in my title since I like trying new things/places. I want a spot where there’s enough single dancers or partnered dancers willing to dance with us single folk. Thanks all!

Bonus if the parking’s easy. Donns parking seems scary 🫣

Hi guys! I posted a ton last year and even took the AFOQT back in August/September 2025 (I cant remember the specific date, you can search my post history in this sub or r/airforceots). At the time I had just been prescribed Wellbutrin but it’s been a month since I’ve stopped taking it and my psychiatrist has approved this as well. After joining the OTS FB group I also realized how challenging it was, and my recruiters were kinda hard to reach.

I’m still in regular talk therapy, only once a month though. (Do I need to stop this?)

Career-wise, I’ve been working part time in an admin support role at a chamber of commerce. My “internship” ends in July and I have an interview lined up today. I’ll be applying to others as well.

26F, Bachelors in non-STEM (psych & film) with a 3.6 graduating GPA. I’m in Texas. I am single.

I’ve been talking to various people about still wanting to serve (including a current Army officer who’s in my sorority - she wants to make sure I know my why but she is rooting for me). Should I consider something like the reserves or national guard instead? And I’m open to non- Air Force!! The Navys recently been knocking on my door on email AND Instagram lol but I am not an open seas person at all. Please advise!! Thanks guys <3