u/wishiwasakitten

Není náhoda, že toto píšu ve 4 ráno. Prostě celou noc proležím, úplně vyčerpaná, tělo mě bolí únavou, mám mžitky před očima.

A nefunguje nic. Rituály, sprcha, mléko s medem, čtení, melatonin, žádná obrazovka, cvičení, vojenské dýchání, meditace, relaxační hudba/zvuky, asmr,… nic prostě.

Vydržím (nedobrovolně) dva až tři dny v kuse, dokud mě to totálně nevypne do kómatu na 16 hodin třeba. A to je taky náhodné. Už se mi stalo, že jsem několikrát zaspala práci, protože si tělo řeklo “jop, teď tě pošlu spát”. + jsem k neprobuzení. Prý údajně mi budík zvoní i pár hodin na max hlasitost (sousedi říkali :D) a já jsem přesto úplně tuhá.

Žádný stimulanty neberu, ani blby kafe si nedám.

Co s tím mám dělat? Máte nějaké osvědčené rady na spánek? Beru úplně cokoliv, protože takhle funguju už pár měsíců a začínám z toho být zoufalá. V pátek plánuju doktora, ale přesto mě zajímá, jestli existuje ještě něco, co jsem nevyzkoušela. Jak usínáte vy? Co vám pomáhá? Diky moc

Hello, guys! I know this might be a lost cause, but I am posting just in case someone has ideas to troubleshoot this.

Issue:

I traveled with several family members to the future. It was not first time travel, I have been there several times before and I traveled abroad with them as well.

After I did my things there (literally was there just to buy some clothes), I guided them to go home through the portal. The game got stuck for a very long moment and then all details of my sims from the panel menu disappeared. The town continued running, I could still see my family sims out there, but the panel was blank. It was quite late in the night and I wanted to quit the game, so without thinking about it too much I just saved and quit.

Upon loading this save again next day, I appear still in oasis landing, but with no family active. I am put into “edit town” mode. When I leave the mode and get to choosing a family to play, my family is not there as an option (they had previously bought a house there), but my descendants are still existing within the world.

When I select “edit home world” in top left corner, it reloads me back into oasis landing again. There is no option to “edit future world”, however I can go and edit vacation destinations without a problem.

To get more details on what happened I selected to play one of the existing families in oasis landing and figured through relationship panel and mods, that some members of the family did make it back home and some members stayed behind in oasis landing and are now existing as homeless sims. When I try to travel back home again with them or anyone else, the loading screen home is showed, but then I appear again in oasis landing and the map and terrain is blue and I cannot interact with anything. However I can tell I didn’t travel back home because the map pointers are still of oasis landing.

I do have nraas mods installed and they keep showing several errors caught in general and on sims from oasis landing as well. I noticed they go in loop and I get notified of the same errors over and over again.

Well, I do have most of the mods except.. you guessed it… nraas traveller 🫠 I also didn’t make backups

So basically I am stuck in oasis landing with probably having the links between future and present messed up for my sims and I cannot get back.

Any comment is welcome, however I already started mourning the family in question 😭 I had the world for about ~14 in game weeks.

Taky si někdy vzpomenete na svou školní docházku a na nějakou úplně random věc, která nedává smysl nebo je divná?

Dam příklad, já si zrovna vzpomněla na to, jak jsme se v zeměpise (milostivého roku ~2009) učili o “křížencích lidské rasy” nebo něco takového a o jednotlivých “typech kříženců” jako třeba mulat (černoch+běloch), atd.

Co ovšem byla ta perlička, byl monolog paní učitelky o tom, jak je to špatné, protože osla s koněm taky záměrně nekřížíme 💀

Dále si taky vybavuju (ze základky!!) učitele občanské výchovy, který nás přesvědčoval o správnosti nacistických ideologiích.

Ještě si vybavuji staršího učitele, který byl toho názoru, že je sice pěkné, že holky mají hezké známky, ale k čemu jim to je, když se vdají, budou rodit děti a život stráví v kuchyni. Dále velmi často ponižoval kluky ve stylu “vždyť i ty baby mají lepší známky než vy” a otevřeně nechápal jak je to možné, že si to ti kluci nechají líbit, když přece muži jsou mnohem inteligentnější než ženy.

Na střední už takové divoké názory učitelé neměli. Největší drama tam bylo, když učitel (~32 let) balil čerstvé prvačky a schválně jim dával horší známky a pak nabízel soukromé doučování a to zcela otevřeně. Nikdo to neřešil, protože přece nad 15+ můžeš mít sex a kým chceš. Nechápala jsem a do teď nechápu, že nikoho nezajímala ta nerovnost a manipulace.

Přijde mi to úplně šílené, že takové vlivy mohou mít učitelé na děti a tvarovat jejich osobnost.

Máte taky nějaké takové zážitky nebo jsem na to měla “štěstí” jen já? 😅

Edit: jak často mluvíte o těch sexuálně nevhodných zážitcích, tak jsem si ještě vzpomněla na to, jak se na školním výletě dva učitelé bavili asi s dalšími ~4 holkama věku cca 14 o ranní erekci a o tom, kdo má z naší třídy hezké prsa 😭 crazy

Him and I broke up about 3 years ago after \~3year relationship. We understood each other from the start, things seemed to work long term. Then he changed, stopped paying attention to me (at all, not even listening to what I was saying. Literally turning away from me mid sentence and putting his headphones on), ignored chores, demanded I put more money towards shoppings (he was working and I was a student, I paid for what I ate but he basically wanted me to fund his overeating, he spent 3x more money on food than I did), and worst of all, demanded sex even when I didn’t want it.

I fell in huge depression, I could be not moving or eating, hardly breathing from the depressive state I was in and he would either yell at me to get up or demanded sex. When I was unable to say no, he would do it anyway. Then I got pregnant, went through child loss alone, while he ignored me and sat at computer, I started drinking. As if our relationship wasn’t shit already, it got even deeper. If you’re interested why I “let it” go for so long or didn’t leave, this was during lockdown, didn’t know where to go, my parents are abusive, so I would just go from one suffering into another. And when I say my parents can make it worse than this, trust me. I guess that’s why I also didn’t have guts to leave back then, I was raised that violence is ok.

So fast forward, we separated, but we were actually living in same building. And finally officially broke up. Not that I wouldn’t try before, but I guess I was giving him chances to show the better of him again. Sometimes I saw the glimpses of his old warm personality before he would turn it off and demand sex again. I feel like that was the only thing he wanted even though he said it wasn’t true. Just sex so he could relieve himself and I felt used like an object. I learned to reject him harder and harder and for first time in my life keep my boundaries. He would fall into depression, begged, stood at my door, cried, that he just wants to talk. And that he wants me back. I managed to calm him down by “staying friends” and keeping a lukewarm contact. I did this because I felt empathetic. I know what it’s like to suffer alone.

I tried living a life of my own because for the first time in life, after abusive childhood and then this relationship, I felt truly free. But there was always that shadow of him. He kept calling, messaging. I tried to remain polite and keep boundaries, lived my life. Found new hobbies and community, went to therapy, and found a good psychiatrist that is helping me with depression and getting out of this trauma, eventually new boyfriend that I moved in with.

Fast forward to now, me and my new bf are together for some time, decided we want to build life together, get married and all that jazz.

When my ex found out, he went crazy. Called nonstop, messaged talking about how I betrayed him, how he has no one, absolutely no one and that I shit on him like this, he even made his brother message me. When I blocked him, he called from a new number. Went to our house and rang the bell for hours, crying outside. He even cut his arm with a knife and told me it was because of this distress. He is also in care of psychiatrist, allegedly because of the harm I did to him by breaking up with him and leading new life.

After this I went totally silent however I could. For one because I found out he stalks me and for two because this was a turning point for me before a mental breakdown. I started being scared of going out of my house and talking to people. New people or old, doesn’t matter. I was on a sick leave for several weeks due to stress of this situation.

And today he messaged me that he needs a face to face conversation with me about “some things” before he can close this chapter. I am afraid that he is lying and this isn’t about closure, I got so paranoid that I am worried he would hurt me if I agreed. But if I don’t, he will keep harassing me. We now live kinda in same area, so I just generally don’t feel safe and moving away isn’t a possibility right now or near future.

Whenever i ask for help in my circle or doctor, it’s either “don’t react to him” - but going no contact triggers him even harder into emotional blackmail and stalking. Or “just deal with him” - which I don’t know how? Police in my area is notorious for waiting until you get killed to do something.

I am at my wits end and I feel like I’m going insane. I feel like there is no way to live at peace.

Ahojte, často se setkávám a tím, že starší lidé v mém okolí nemají koníčky a přijde mi to strašně zvláštní. Je to ve vašem okolí taky tak? A jak mám člověka v takovém věku povzbudit, aby se věnoval sobě?

Mluvím teď o věku například 60+, ale jsou i lidé mladší, co prostě… nemají co dělat? A nechápu, že takový život žijí, když nemusí. Nejčastěji prostě koukají na televizi a je vidět, že nejsou spokojení nebo naplnění. Čím to může být?

Zeptám se babičky, co dělala ráda jako mladá, čím se zabývala. Odpověď je, že vlastně ničím. A co by ráda dělala teď? Ona neví.

Samozřejmě jako první odpověď starších lidí je: postarala jsem se o děti, o barák, navařila jsem, atd…. Já vím, že tyto činnosti jsou spousta času a práce, ale mám na mysli opravdu volnočasovou zábavu nebo něco, co by je kultivovalo.

Úplně největší extrém, se kterým jsem se setkala, byla kolegyně, která byla strašně překvapená, že “my mladí” máme tolik koníčků mimo svou práci. Myslela si, že jenom chodíme do práce a zbytek dne doslova nic neděláme, protože ona to tak měla. Když přišla domů, tak prostě jenom seděla a čekala na to, až se něco stane. Její největší koníček prý byli její 3 synové, z nichž nejmladší měl už 30 a ani jeden z nich se s ní nestýkal.

Edit: musím ještě podotknout, že mám na mysli i to, že ti lidi nejdou ani do kina, na zábavu, na procházku, výlet,… you name it. Ne nutně hobby, kterému se věnují roky/pravidelně. Ale prostě sem tam něco, klidně malého a nárazového, pro sebe.

Plus teda čtu v komentářích, že spousta vašich starších známých má koníčky či do čeho píchnout. Myslim si, že to je super!

Basically the title lol, but let me get more specific.

I’m running a gameplay now with a prisoner on a prison island and I wondered what all ways are there to be captured, apprehended, locked in jail, etc.

So far I figured out that spray painting can get you locked up (uni pack) and also detonating cars (ambitions pack). I know there is some way to get locked up while on a job as criminal (rabbit hole) - I think it’s while the doing side jobs activity.

Is there any more? I don’t use mods that much, but if there are more ways of getting into trouble, i would love to hear about it!!

Side note: I know there is a way to have bad “reputation” but afaik it ties to having more lovers, which is not exactly what I have in mind…

Just crime!!! I want crime lol